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donnie5 · 2nd Jan 2010, 06:56 PM

Isn't it the most irritating thing ever?

2nd Jan 2010, 07:00 PM

Yep

Why cant everyone be bisexual

* Proceeds to open a can of worms*

mattypants · 2nd Jan 2010, 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jiggles

Yep

Why cant everyone be bisexual

* Proceeds to open a can of worms*

i hear that

/opens jar of slugs

Rikudo · 2nd Jan 2010, 09:36 PM

I guess I can join the club to huh.

riddlerno1 · 3rd Jan 2010, 04:06 AM

Always fancing the straight guys over here...... grrr!!

Connor22 · 3rd Jan 2010, 04:42 AM

it sucks don't it?

3rd Jan 2010, 05:27 AM

this is life, you know you could always set yourself the task of turning them to the other side haha. quite a challenge.

Pseudojim · 3rd Jan 2010, 06:46 AM

Just out of curiosity, are you SURE they're straight? like ABSOLUTELY sure?

I was chatting up a guy in the airport not so long ago, he was giving all the right signs, but i made the mistake of mentioning an 'ex-girlfriend', which elicited a noticeable facial expression change, and he made his excuses and was on his way about 10 seconds later, i'm sure assuming i was straight.

Lesson learned, but still...

Shevanel · 3rd Jan 2010, 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pseudojim

Just out of curiosity, are you SURE they're straight? like ABSOLUTELY sure?

I was chatting up a guy in the airport not so long ago, he was giving all the right signs, but i made the mistake of mentioning an 'ex-girlfriend', which elicited a noticeable facial expression change, and he made his excuses and was on his way about 10 seconds later, i'm sure assuming i was straight.

Lesson learned, but still...

This sort of thing has happened to me too in a way. Sorta.

Holmes · 3rd Jan 2010, 07:26 AM

I'm fairly sure in my case. He's been going out with his girlfriend for nearly two years. He's one of my closest friends, I had a crush on him for more than six months last year, I've got over him, but I occasionally still feel it. It is annoying :-(

elitechris · 3rd Jan 2010, 08:37 AM

it is really hard to know unless they tell you upfront...
i usually ask people about their opinion but opinions are different from the truth :P

Bryan90 · 3rd Jan 2010, 09:49 AM

I actually like straight crushes!!!

Unlike gay crushes.... straight crushes can never turn into relationships... So they'll remain "perfect" in my fantasy....

With gay crushes.. there's a chance it becomes a relationship... which is.. usually... less than perfect...

LOL..

xCrazyInsanity · 3rd Jan 2010, 10:29 AM

crushes on people who will NEVER be interested back.

it's fun..

stratavos · 3rd Jan 2010, 01:51 PM

*waves his ticket while running down the waiting area*
the train for "why can't everyone be at a minimum bisexual?" hasn't left the station yet has it?!

musican · 3rd Jan 2010, 04:47 PM

I actually just talked to one of my guy friends about how I have a crush on him. He says he's not gay and that he just wants to be friends, which is better than I'd expected. If you ask me, he isn't the straightest arrow in the quiver....

malachite · 3rd Jan 2010, 04:50 PM

where is my can opener?

3rd Jan 2010, 04:51 PM

*hands malachite a can opener*

**Filip** · 4th Jan 2010, 03:23 AM

Call me strange, but I've grown to like straight crushes more than gay crushes. With straight crushes, I can console myself that it could never work because the other guy is biologically incapable of returning the feelings.

With gay crushes, I end up convinced the feeling just aren't returned because I fail on some fundamental level

**Eleanor Rigby** · 4th Jan 2010, 04:11 AM

I used to prefer having crushes on straight guys rather than on gay guys... Now that I am married it's not a problem anyway

Hugo Boss · 4th Jan 2010, 05:55 AM

I used to, but not anymore. Well I wouldn't even call it crushes, more like a surge of lust.
I used to spend most of my time on Chancery Lane in London with loads of guys in suits, and they were all so hottt. But that is about it with straight guys.

2nd Jan 2010, 06:56 PM	#1
donnie5 A Backwards Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: omaha, ne Age: 27 Posts: 409 Join Date:** May 2007	no one like a crush on a straight boy... Isn't it the most irritating thing ever? __________________ the world moves in mysterious ways but i decided a long time ago that i was going to follow my own path

2nd Jan 2010, 07:00 PM	#2
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... Yep Why cant everyone be bisexual * Proceeds to open a can of worms*

2nd Jan 2010, 09:36 PM	#4
Rikudo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... I guess I can join the club to huh. __________________ "Out of love, sacrifice is born... Hate is born... and we are able to know pain!"

3rd Jan 2010, 04:06 AM	#5
riddlerno1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: London Age: 29 Posts: 712 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... Always fancing the straight guys over here...... grrr!! __________________ Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind

3rd Jan 2010, 04:42 AM	#6
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... it sucks don't it? __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

3rd Jan 2010, 05:27 AM	#7
gaz83 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... this is life, you know you could always set yourself the task of turning them to the other side haha. quite a challenge.

3rd Jan 2010, 06:46 AM	#8
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... Just out of curiosity, are you SURE they're straight? like ABSOLUTELY sure? I was chatting up a guy in the airport not so long ago, he was giving all the right signs, but i made the mistake of mentioning an 'ex-girlfriend', which elicited a noticeable facial expression change, and he made his excuses and was on his way about 10 seconds later, i'm sure assuming i was straight. Lesson learned, but still...

3rd Jan 2010, 07:26 AM	#10
Holmes EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out Location: Ireland Age: 25 Posts: 609 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... I'm fairly sure in my case. He's been going out with his girlfriend for nearly two years. He's one of my closest friends, I had a crush on him for more than six months last year, I've got over him, but I occasionally still feel it. It is annoying :-(

3rd Jan 2010, 08:37 AM	#11
elitechris i am who i am Full Member Gender: homme Orientation: homosexual Out Status: everyone Location: somewhere sunny, california Age: 18 Posts: 210 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... it is really hard to know unless they tell you upfront... i usually ask people about their opinion but opinions are different from the truth :P __________________ "The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts" - FoQ

3rd Jan 2010, 09:49 AM	#12
Bryan90 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Toronto, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 668 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... I actually like straight crushes!!! Unlike gay crushes.... straight crushes can never turn into relationships... So they'll remain "perfect" in my fantasy.... With gay crushes.. there's a chance it becomes a relationship... which is.. usually... less than perfect... LOL.. __________________ "But only in their dreams can man be truly free. 'Twas always thus, and always thus will be." - John Keating, Dead Poets Society

3rd Jan 2010, 10:29 AM	#13
xCrazyInsanity Gay, no. Fabulous, totally. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: All BUT family Location: South-East Pennsylvania Age: 17 Posts: 750 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... crushes on people who will NEVER be interested back. it's fun.. __________________ This is love, this is not treason.

3rd Jan 2010, 01:51 PM	#14
stratavos professional lurker Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bisexual prefering males Out Status: don't ask don't tell (ask and I'll tell) Location: oakville(college) and oshawa(hometown) ont, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... waves his ticket while running down the waiting area the train for "why can't everyone be at a minimum bisexual?" hasn't left the station yet has it?! __________________ <-is a very bad influence... and definately enjoys it hail lord ilpallazzo!

3rd Jan 2010, 04:47 PM	#15
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... I actually just talked to one of my guy friends about how I have a crush on him. He says he's not gay and that he just wants to be friends, which is better than I'd expected. If you ask me, he isn't the straightest arrow in the quiver.... __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

3rd Jan 2010, 04:50 PM	#16
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... where is my can opener? __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

3rd Jan 2010, 04:51 PM	#17
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: no one like a crush on a straight boy... hands malachite a can opener

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