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Old 3rd Jan 2010, 09:12 PM   #1
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Hey guys (and girls) i wanna know whats a turn on for you? How about a huge turn off?
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Old 3rd Jan 2010, 09:50 PM   #2
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Cuddling is my biggest turn on, and smoking & drug use are my biggest turn offs
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Old 3rd Jan 2010, 09:51 PM   #3
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Turn on:
The ability to keep a conversation flowing, and cuddling.

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Body piercings. Just not my thing.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 01:18 AM   #4
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Too many of each to list lol. I'll just name the first two of each that come to my head.

Turn on: humour
Turn off: smoking
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 11:53 AM   #5
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Turn On: Humour,creativity,tongue piercing (but thats the only piercing I like)

Turn off: Smoking
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 12:01 PM   #6
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Turn On: Humour, creativity (I have to agree with Carrie on those), trustworthiness, a woman that has goals in life and is working towards them

Turn off: Constant lying, being treated differently in public than in private (in a relationship scenario)
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 12:09 PM   #7
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turn on: good humour and hugs(YAY)

turn off: my dads eating noises *shudder*
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 01:04 PM   #8
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turn on: brown eyes and blond hair, brown eyes without blond hair, smoking, good kisser, cute bum, tight trousers (yum)

turn off: sticky-outy veins, bad breath, baggy clothes, greasy hair
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 01:14 PM   #9
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Turn on: sexy backs and 'v' shaped hip lines

Turn off: overly feminine, disgusting high pitched voice
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 01:19 PM   #10
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Turn-on: good sense of humor, naturally quirky (not forced quirky), comfortable with themselves, nice ass.

Turn-off: very negative, having only one topic of interest.

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Old 4th Jan 2010, 04:05 PM   #11
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On a girl a belly button ring and nice lips.

On a guy nice pecs and arms.

On both a sexy stomach and nice butt.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 04:16 PM   #12
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Quote:
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Turn off:
Body piercings. Just not my thing.
Really? I happen to really like a few peircings (happen to like lip rings... not a dealbreaker but it certaintly helps)


Really biggest turn off would have to be perpeutal lying or totally unhygenic
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 04:36 PM   #13
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Physically:

Turn-ons: dark hair, hourglass shape, pretty face
Turn-offs: really light bleach-blonde hair (especially when combined with a really dark fake tan), big obvious tattoos, facial piercings

Mentally:

Turn-ons: good sense of humour, friendly, easygoing, can laugh at herself
Turn-offs: really indecisive, takes herself too seriously, arrogant, really cynical
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 05:45 PM   #14
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Physically:
Turn-ons: Overweight guys, with their weight centered around the waste in a round fashion; semi-beard (as in more than stubble but less than a true beard); long, well-kept hair; and tendency to eat a lot (I'm a bit kinky that way).
Turn-offs: Muscles; skinny guys; greasy, unkempt hair; and moobs

Personality-wise:
Turn-ons: able to hold an intelligent, engaging conversation; geeky; dry, clever sense of humor; rational; confident, but the kind of confidence that builds others up rather than puts them down; open and honest; philosophically inclined; and doesn't run screaming at the mention of math
Turn-offs: superficial (in terms of how they view other people and in terms of the conversations they have), stubborn, narrow view of the world, arrogance, sarcasm, and an interest in politics.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 05:57 PM   #15
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Turn-ons: Certain articles of clothing, good hair, a nice smile, cute voice, seductive noises

Turn-offs: Drugs, smoking, alcohol, obesity, odor, recurring depression, anger issues, overly snobbish attitudes

And this is only my tiny version! I could make a huge list of stuff for both categories! But alas I don't want to bore you people or make you think I'm weird >>
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 05:59 PM   #16
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i agree with just about evry1

TOn: Humour, Creativity, Success (not in the shallow way, more like in the i'm not the only one with a useful job), etc.

TOff: Smoking, Chrimonal Personality, etc.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 06:09 PM   #17
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Turn-ons: athletic and/or androgynous frame, nice eyes, humour, nerdiness, being passionate about something

Turn-offs: dysfunctional relationship with alcohol, smoking or drugs (I don't mind people drinking or having some recreational drug use, but if it's anything more than recreational it's a huge turnoff), lying, Katy Perry syndrome
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 07:42 PM   #18
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In Both: Loves offensive humor, likes to eat, is spontanious, and is okay with random cuddling/kissing.

In Women: Likes to sleep in, can hold a conversation, and likes to hang out at any given time.

In Men: Can give me just as much attention as a video game, likes to spend time with me and my friends, has clever/witty things to say, and actually has opinions on certain things like politics/sexuality/economy/ect.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 07:48 PM   #19
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Turn ons - Exotic hair colors, sense of humor, open minded as anything, tends to have somewhat alternative styles of dressing, cuddling, artist type, adventurous.

Turn offs - Closed minded, know it alls, ignorant, boring 'I rather stay in all day and do jack shit 24/7' types, and overly religious, the kind that are in your face.
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Old 4th Jan 2010, 08:32 PM   #20
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Turn-offs: ... Katy Perry syndrome
This is the first time I have heard that term and I think I love it, haha!

But hmm, me, let's see.

Yes: Athletic (but not muscle-bound), androgynous, or curvy ladies!* Easygoing personality. Passionate about something in life (if it's something musical, artistic, or humanitarian, that is extra-super-duper bonus points). Hearty laugh. Likes life. Working sarcasm-detector. Dresses to flatter herself. Girls with good tattoos. (Or no tattoos. Y'know, whatever.)

No: Obesity, or body-builder levels of muscle. Misanthropes. Smokers. "The Crazy". A smug and overwhelming sense of superiority, or an inferiority complex in constant need of reassurance from others. Fake boobs, fake tans, fake blondes**. Girls with bad tattoos.

* "You don't sound very picky, there." Why, no! No I'm not! =D
** Fake blonde is acceptable by itself, but in combination with the other two? UNACCEPTABLE. >:|
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