Questions???

Cuddling is my biggest turn on, and smoking & drug use are my biggest turn offs

 

Turn on:
The ability to keep a conversation flowing, and cuddling.

Turn off:
Body piercings. Just not my thing.

 

Too many of each to list lol. I'll just name the first two of each that come to my head.

Turn on: humour
Turn off: smoking

 

Turn On: Humour,creativity,tongue piercing (but thats the only piercing I like)

Turn off: Smoking

 

Turn On: Humour, creativity (I have to agree with Carrie on those), trustworthiness, a woman that has goals in life and is working towards them

Turn off: Constant lying, being treated differently in public than in private (in a relationship scenario)

 

turn on: good humour and hugs(YAY)

turn off: my dads eating noises *shudder*

 

turn on: brown eyes and blond hair, brown eyes without blond hair, smoking, good kisser, cute bum, tight trousers (yum)

turn off: sticky-outy veins, bad breath, baggy clothes, greasy hair

 

Turn on: sexy backs and 'v' shaped hip lines

Turn off: overly feminine, disgusting high pitched voice

 

Turn-on: good sense of humor, naturally quirky (not forced quirky), comfortable with themselves, nice ass.

Turn-off: very negative, having only one topic of interest.

Lex

 

On a girl a belly button ring and nice lips.

On a guy nice pecs and arms.

On both a sexy stomach and nice butt.

 

Really? I happen to really like a few peircings (happen to like lip rings... not a dealbreaker but it certaintly helps)


Really biggest turn off would have to be perpeutal lying or totally unhygenic

 

Physically:

Turn-ons: dark hair, hourglass shape, pretty face
Turn-offs: really light bleach-blonde hair (especially when combined with a really dark fake tan), big obvious tattoos, facial piercings

Mentally:

Turn-ons: good sense of humour, friendly, easygoing, can laugh at herself
Turn-offs: really indecisive, takes herself too seriously, arrogant, really cynical

 

Physically:
Turn-ons: Overweight guys, with their weight centered around the waste in a round fashion; semi-beard (as in more than stubble but less than a true beard); long, well-kept hair; and tendency to eat a lot (I'm a bit kinky that way).
Turn-offs: Muscles; skinny guys; greasy, unkempt hair; and moobs

Personality-wise:
Turn-ons: able to hold an intelligent, engaging conversation; geeky; dry, clever sense of humor; rational; confident, but the kind of confidence that builds others up rather than puts them down; open and honest; philosophically inclined; and doesn't run screaming at the mention of math
Turn-offs: superficial (in terms of how they view other people and in terms of the conversations they have), stubborn, narrow view of the world, arrogance, sarcasm, and an interest in politics.

 

Turn-ons: Certain articles of clothing, good hair, a nice smile, cute voice, seductive noises

Turn-offs: Drugs, smoking, alcohol, obesity, odor, recurring depression, anger issues, overly snobbish attitudes

And this is only my tiny version! I could make a huge list of stuff for both categories! But alas I don't want to bore you people or make you think I'm weird >>

 

i agree with just about evry1

TOn: Humour, Creativity, Success (not in the shallow way, more like in the i'm not the only one with a useful job), etc.

TOff: Smoking, Chrimonal Personality, etc.

 

Turn-ons: athletic and/or androgynous frame, nice eyes, humour, nerdiness, being passionate about something

Turn-offs: dysfunctional relationship with alcohol, smoking or drugs (I don't mind people drinking or having some recreational drug use, but if it's anything more than recreational it's a huge turnoff), lying, Katy Perry syndrome

 

In Both: Loves offensive humor, likes to eat, is spontanious, and is okay with random cuddling/kissing.

In Women: Likes to sleep in, can hold a conversation, and likes to hang out at any given time.

In Men: Can give me just as much attention as a video game, likes to spend time with me and my friends, has clever/witty things to say, and actually has opinions on certain things like politics/sexuality/economy/ect.

 

Turn ons - Exotic hair colors, sense of humor, open minded as anything, tends to have somewhat alternative styles of dressing, cuddling, artist type, adventurous.

Turn offs - Closed minded, know it alls, ignorant, boring 'I rather stay in all day and do jack shit 24/7' types, and overly religious, the kind that are in your face.

 

This is the first time I have heard that term and I think I love it, haha!

But hmm, me, let's see.

Yes: Athletic (but not muscle-bound), androgynous, or curvy ladies!* Easygoing personality. Passionate about something in life (if it's something musical, artistic, or humanitarian, that is extra-super-duper bonus points). Hearty laugh. Likes life. Working sarcasm-detector. Dresses to flatter herself. Girls with good tattoos. (Or no tattoos. Y'know, whatever.)

No: Obesity, or body-builder levels of muscle. Misanthropes. Smokers. "The Crazy". A smug and overwhelming sense of superiority, or an inferiority complex in constant need of reassurance from others. Fake boobs, fake tans, fake blondes**. Girls with bad tattoos.

* "You don't sound very picky, there." Why, no! No I'm not! =D
** Fake blonde is acceptable by itself, but in combination with the other two? UNACCEPTABLE. >:|