![]() | ![]() | ||||||
| |||||||
| Chit Chat General discussion of topics of interest to LGBT people of all ages. |
![]() |
| | LinkBack | Thread Tools |
| | #1 |
| Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007 | This is something I've been trying to figure out lately. Why are transsexuals categorized as being in the same minority (or at least the same category) as homo- and bisexuals? Why do gender identity and sexual orientation get lumped together like that?
__________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer |
| | |
| | #2 |
| Occasionally Caddy Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009 | because we are both fighting for relatively the same cause when it comes to defying gender norms. In addition i don't think you will find a transgender person who doesn't support other groups in the LGBT movement and they deserve the same support. I know for a lot of people the idea of transgender seems "weird" or "gross" and even in the lgbt community you see that opinion but they are people and to treat them differently is completely self defeating to the cause and hypocritical like it would be to deny any of the aspects of the group wether gay, bi, trans, pan whatever. hope that answered your question ![]()
__________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe |
| | |
| | #3 | |
| Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member ![]() Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008 | Quote:
If you think that the GLB part of GLBT is roughly 7 to 14% of the population (last estimate i heard) then you have to realize the T is much, much less. Its hard enough to get GLB legislation passed in government when we are such a small voice among the crowds (and so easily pushed aside at that) so think how the T would fair if they had to fight their fight alone. In short: they wouldn't. Think how easy it is to call homosexuality a disease. Well its even eaiser to call Transgendered people a disease. Heck, even many gay people do it! We have alot in common, and that is why we welcome the T with open arms. Gender identity, gender non-conformity, and being a minority that is not based on something visual like skin color. Of course there are many other things, but we should not need much to convince us they belong. If we want full equality under the law, and they want full equality under the law, then i say we have the most important thing in common: the same goal.
__________________ ![]() "It's a male duck." | |
| | |
| | #4 |
| Was Invisible. EC Moderator ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008 | It's an alliance between both. I know that there are some people who feel that it's an insult to put sexuality and gender together, but I feel it's a welcome alliance as both groups have similar (but different) experiences. |
| | |
| | #5 |
| One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member ![]() Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008 | We should just add S for straight too, to unite everyone ![]()
__________________ ![]() If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient. |
| | |
| | #6 |
| Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member ![]() Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008 | ...how about we wait until we have full and equal rights before we let them into the club? ![]()
__________________ ![]() "It's a male duck." |
| | |
| | #7 | |
| One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member ![]() Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008 | Quote: ![]()
__________________ ![]() If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient. | |
| | |
| | #8 | |
| Sunshine & Optimism ...also Angels. Full Member ![]() Gender: Theatre Queen Orientation: Disco Sticks Out Status: Everyone and a few more Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 3,528 Join Date: Dec 2008 | Quote: )
__________________ ![]() "It's a male duck." | |
| | |
| | #9 |
| Guest Posts: n/a | When you can add the 'S' you'll no longer need the acronym. |
|
| | #10 |
| One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member ![]() Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008 | We should just use reverse psychology and act like we are completely equal, and everyone will be like "Que the fuck?". And after a while, they'll just accept us Seriously, it might be like a Twilight Zone episode for awhile but whatever xD ( I swear I'm not high today xD)EDIT: LIKE ROSA PARKS YA KNOW?
__________________ ![]() If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient. |
| | |
| | #11 |
| The easily corrupted ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boy Botherer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: C-diff - Wales Age: 22 Posts: 343 Join Date: Nov 2008 | |
| | |
| | #12 |
| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Posts: 765 Join Date: Nov 2009 | T people are pretty much fighting for the same things we are. And they have been through some of the same things we have. Think about it. When you're Transgendered, what IS your sexuality? Is it what your body is attracted to or is it what your mind is attracted to? I can't even imagine what it's like to be a different person on the inside than the outside and have to think about those things. We're all for everyone being who they really are, so it's appropriate that the T would be there. As far as the S for straight thing, it's a great sentiment, but dont they have enough already? lol |
| | |
| | #13 |
| new avatar time! Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but parents.. for now. Location: Scotland Age: 18 Posts: 1,045 Join Date: Feb 2009 | the more the merrier I say ![]()
__________________ ![]() ~~There is no way to peace; peace is the way.~~ --A. J. Muste |
| | |
| | #14 |
| Guest Posts: n/a | |
|
| | #15 |
| look at the good i do Full Member ![]() Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008 | So Gay-Straight Alliances are pointless?
__________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant. |
| | |
| | #16 |
| The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009 | Let's live on one big blue planet with some countrys and lots of water and we can all be equal and join hands like at the end of the south park movie, I agree with Joey ![]()
__________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester |
| | |
| | #17 |
| look at the good i do Full Member ![]() Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008 | I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school... I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy...
__________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant. |
| | |
| | #18 |
| Guest Posts: n/a | In my area we have nothing like that. Just LGBT groups where straight people are allowed to join but don't. |
|
| | #19 | |
| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Somewhere between gay and bisexual Out Status: Very Location: Massachusetts, USA Posts: 755 Join Date: Sep 2009 | Quote:
But like even though gender identity and sexuality is different, look at it this way. Say a girl is FtM but likes boys. When she finally gets it so that the outside matches the inside and she is fully male, she still likes boys. So that would make the man gay. So some of the transsexuals still share a portion of the LGB struggle. | |
| | |
| | #20 | |
| Gay, no. Fabulous, totally. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: All BUT family Location: South-East Pennsylvania Age: 17 Posts: 750 Join Date: Dec 2009 | I've wondered about this myself. From what I understand from straight friends/aquaitences/enemies/ect is that most people think "we're all a bunch of queers", and lump us together in a group. But, really, transgendered(yes, i mean transgendered) people can be of any sexuality. Quote:
Why do you insist on referring to a transmale by female pronouns? Can I call you a girl then? Oh no, that's insulting. That's fucking insulting. So why do you think it's okay to call someone who's trans by their birth sex, rather than their gender? The whole LGB rights campaign is for equal rights and acceptance, but you won't accept someone because of their gender identity?
__________________ This is love, this is not treason. | |
| | |
![]() |
| Thread Tools | |
| |