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| View Poll Results: hierachy | |||
| yes, jocks are top and geeks bottom | | 9 | 18.75% |
| no jocks are not but geeks are at the bottom | | 5 | 10.42% |
| yes jocks are and geeks not at bottom | | 4 | 8.33% |
| no jocks are not a top and geeks arnt at bottom | | 14 | 29.17% |
| other | | 16 | 33.33% |
| Voters: 48. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| EC's Soldier! Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008 | ok now as we see so often in american shows that the social heirachy in schools are jocks > non jocks > art/geeks so is this true according to your school?
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: Out to friends, some family, & those who ask! Location: New York (State, not city) Age: 21 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jan 2010 | My school really doesn't have a heirachy. Everyone is friends with everyone. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I don't know if it was as narrow as that, but your in the right ballpark. As much as some people would say and like to think their schools arent like the ones on tv and movies, there will always be that inherent hierarchy and groups of freinds that reign over others. And maybe in class, if they happen to be sitting next to eahcother they might be able to talk to eachother and laugh some, but once outside of the classroom they cut all ties ya know? At least thats how it was at my school. |
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| Fear of the Market Place Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: absent Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 22 Posts: 760 Join Date: Sep 2008 | who cares? Nerds are going to rule the world in the end and only Geeks and Dorks are safe. luckily I'm a total dork =]. watch out meat heads! |
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| Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007 | My school was exactly like that; can you say "mandatory pep rallies"? Sports was valued above all else, even if no one would admit it (perhaps it was because that was all the school was good at?), and anyone who didn't get caught up in the sports scene was seen as an oddball, at best. Meanwhile, the intellectual student organizations, like math club, chess club, and science club were brushed aside as unimportant, to the level that they were merged into one club when the budget was cut. Thank God I'm out of that place.
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| Stopped being (as) vague Full Member ![]() Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009 | my school is an odd ball, nearly everyone is a jock at something, and at the same time everyone is a geek... It's cool and basically means I'm friends with everybody. It works and as far as I've seen there's no bullying or anything, because everyone is interested in the same thing... that or the biggest nerds in the place are 7ft tall giants who could break you and eat you either way works for me ![]()
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| Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008 | My school doesn't really have a hierarchy. Everyone just exists. There's no group that everyone thinks is better. At least not in my opinion.
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| Furry Full Member ![]() Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Oakbank, Manitoba Age: 23 Posts: 962 Join Date: Dec 2009 | Yes..exactly the same for my school when I was in school..may still be like that I was one of the band geeks/nerds/outcasts.. i was definitely at the bottom of the food chain..lol Our chess clubs and such were set as a class during our "interim" semester.. (a middle semester which offered people who failed during the first semester a chance to make it up) or those of us who passed a chance to take fun or extra classes..for me it was chess ^_^
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009 | I don't think our school is like that unless a person purposely outcasted themselves. However we seem to have these bands of overly annoying people that seem to come from both circles.
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| Mr. Grammar Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Kentucky Posts: 985 Join Date: Sep 2009 | The jocks certainly ACT like they're on top...
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| Gay, no. Fabulous, totally. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: All BUT family Location: South-East Pennsylvania Age: 17 Posts: 750 Join Date: Dec 2009 | football/girls field hockey > all other sports both sexes(with exceptions, if you fall in a lower class that isn't choir/band) > Choir > Band/"normal people" > computer nerds > gamer/anime geek > normal nerd level > LGB(exception if you're male and have a few popular faghags) > stoners (unless falling under one of above categories, which does happen) Can ya tell my school doesn't take too well to their gay people?
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008 | Quote:
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| Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008 | Here everyone talks to everyone. I think american schools are like that coz they have so many years.
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| I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member ![]() Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009 | My highschool didn't have hierachy's per say... but there were the students that were "more popular" than the others. I was in my own group of nerds/artsy/video gamer types and no one bothered us. We were cool in our own way. ![]()
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| Guest Posts: n/a | my school was weird. yeah we had some sort of hierarchy but it wasn't a normal kind. our top was the smart jocks, cheerleaders and choir because most of the athletes and ASB people also did choir. the dumb jocks fit in somewhere up there too but they didn't rule anything. and the smart kids were not the geeks/nerds, it was weird cause most of the geeks and nerds werent in advanced classes and their grades weren't as good. |
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| EC's Red Queen EC Admin ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Merseyside, UK Age: 21 Posts: 8,047 Join Date: Nov 2007 | My school had "jocks" mostly because it was a specialist sports college, but it never had the whole stereotypical bullying/hierarchy shizzle you hear about. There were people more popular than others, but that's just the way of life and doesn't really indicate anything. Just because one person interacts with x amount of people and another interacts with y amount doesn't make you or them more/less superior, and that was pretty much known in our school. However, there was definetly the sports superiority vibe in PE. The guys had that whole masculinity bullshit going on which made them think that exceeding in sport made them the alpha-male of the school, whereas I just said that it's only fair that they get atleast one GCSE when leaving because they'll fail everything else. You'd be surprised how correct I was there. My school had a few cunts in it, but they were never the bullying type. They just had a really annoying social group who liked trying to be the class rebel and pissing off the teacher. It's interesting to study in Sociology though. There are quite a few traits that have been studied and published that I have recognised from my school, such as sports being 'cool' and academic subjects being 'swotty'. Labelling was very common, but it had virtually no influence on people from the age of 15+. It was mostly the years below that used that.
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| Soy Un Perdedor Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008 | That how it is at my school.
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Twin Cities, MN Age: 25 Posts: 510 Join Date: Jan 2010 | I don't know about that. I thought the same about my school too, then post-HS the gloves come off and the truth comes out. You would be surprised as to how much backstabbing goes on, even among "the best of friends". |
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| Bopping,dropping and shaking life Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: The Sunniest State in the USA Posts: 182 Join Date: Apr 2009 | International Baccalaureate kids are at the top, and the SGA battles with them ferociously. Most SGA kids are AP kids. Most of the jocks, artists, club leaders, and etc are part of those two programs, moreso on the IB kids who usually do more than one activity. The SGA kids have influence because they have used their money and ties to the school to gain a foothold. The 'bottom' are the 'normal' kids that don't take honor courses or aren't a viable part of any the clubs. Lower than them are just the 'weird' kids. Sports, Drama, Chorus are all equal playing fields at my school, some members are in both or all three. There is no 'uncool' club (traditionally speaking that the drama and chorus kids always seem to get tons of shit in stereotypical movies) aside from the scifi club.
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| Notoriously Homosexual Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Ames, Iowa Age: 20 Posts: 3,875 Join Date: Oct 2007 | My high school was generally like that, but our sports teams were terrible while our fine arts programs were among the best in the state, which helped us keep from having a hierarchy quite as strict as some other schools. I think my class did a great job at trying to overcome the normal hierarchy. We were VERY excited when we elected a guy who was more in the art/fine arts group (and was pretty much the antithesis of "jock") as our homecoming king (prior to us, the quarterback of the football team had been the Homecoming king for as long as anybody can remember).
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