Empty Closets Coming Out Resources and a Safe Place to Chat
Welcome Forum Chat Room Resources News Members

Go Back   Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out > General Chat > Chit Chat

Chit Chat General discussion of topics of interest to LGBT people of all ages.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 10th Feb 2010, 08:27 PM   #1
feeling comfy
Full Member
 
Ander Blue's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Out to everyone
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark (normally Troy, New York)
Age: 22
Posts: 428
Join Date: Nov 2009


Default parenting for same sex couples

hey there - I've recently joined up at my campus LGBT group. We have weekly meetings and one of the things we do is pick a discussion topic each week to spend an entire meeting on talking about it. Well, when we were brainstorming discussion ideas earlier in the semester, I put forth the idea of parenting for gay couples. Everyone thought it'd be a great discussion topic, but no one admitted to knowing anything about it so they all looked to me to know a little something about it and lead the discussion. Well I have no idea about it. What is there to talk about?

Here are some of the topics that I'm aware of that we can talk about:

Parenting Options
Adoption
Surrogacy
Future Scientific Breakthroughs
Concerns
Dealing with the two fathers/mothers 'issue'
Protecting children from the hate focused at same sex relationships
and at this I'm lost ---- I feel like I still should have more to talk about...
__________________
Re-examine all you have been told....
Dismiss what insults your soul.
~ Walt Whitman
Ander Blue is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10th Feb 2010, 09:21 PM   #2
EC Addict
Full Member
 
Johnnieguy's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Out to everyone
Location: Twin Cities, MN
Age: 25
Posts: 510
Join Date: Jan 2010


Default Re: parenting for same sex couples

You could probably break those subjects down farther.
ie, dealing with the issue of 2 fathers or 2 mothers...what do you do if you're two fathers who have a daughter..how do you handle the situation when she starts getting periods, or when she needs to go shopping for a bra?

or how you explain sex, attraction, and where children come from. especially when other kids at school say you "need" to be married to have kids, etc.
__________________
Minnesota Vikings: 2010 de facto Super Bowl Champions!
Johnnieguy is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Gay Couples Game HighintheClouds Fun and Games 87 17th Dec 2009 10:59 AM
Are we happier than heteros? RaeofLite Chit Chat 14 7th Dec 2009 07:41 PM
where is lesbian marriage legal? amberger Chit Chat 4 9th Jan 2009 10:09 PM
Gay couples in highschool in the future Fiorino Chit Chat 21 23rd Sep 2008 05:52 PM


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:23 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0
Copyright ©2004 - 2012, Empty Closets. The Empty Closets name and logo are registered trademarks.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11