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Old 13th Feb 2010, 07:13 PM   #1
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Default Words that should be expelled from the english language.

One word that really messes with people and has a tendency to make people feel insecure is the word "normal." I see this word brought up a lot when people are trying to figure out their orientation. What is normal is entirely subjective. It's one of these states of being that is entirely an illusion. Instead of asking if it's normal to be gay one should ask if it's natural to be gay.

That is one reason I don't like the word normal.
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 07:15 PM   #2
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What about a Normal banana? As opposed to a malformed and rotten banana
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i don't think normal is subjective.

Normal is what the norm tends to. IE what is the most common state of whatever is being discussed.

In that sense being gay is not normal, because its only a minority that are.

However, i don't see a problem with that. Being 100% normal would make you a rather boring person imo
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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.

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Old 13th Feb 2010, 08:46 PM   #5
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fag *shutter*
does anyone else hate it as much as i do?
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 08:52 PM   #6
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Gut

i don't know what i hate that word lol but i was a fan of the old Nickelodeon show GUTS
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 08:53 PM   #7
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SurferDude420 and partietraumatic what you two said is the reason I share my thoughts here. This place is a good sounding board.
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"ain't". It is not a word and should be taken out of the dictionary.
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 10:32 PM   #9
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"ain't". It is not a word and should be taken out of the dictionary.
I don't think contractions are in the dictionary. It is a word, it's just not formal.
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 10:33 PM   #10
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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.

i second this. i get mental images of rising damp and mould.
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"ain't". It is not a word and should be taken out of the dictionary.
It is in the dictionary. It says you ain't supposed to use it.

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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.

i have several friends that are completely grossed out by that word, but I've never understood it. I don't find anything unpleasant about, say, a "moist towelette" but my friend visibly shudders when someone mentions them.
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"ain't". It is not a word and should be taken out of the dictionary.
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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.

i have several friends that are completely grossed out by that word, but I've never understood it. I don't find anything unpleasant about, say, a "moist towelette" but my friend visibly shudders when someone mentions them.
its a mental image thing... i would describe in detail but i know it would get me banned for making people throw up.
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Old 13th Feb 2010, 10:50 PM   #13
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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.
That and dripping for me.
There's just something about them.
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I hate the word "weird" because I always spell it "wierd", which is even more wierd.
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"moist"

That word makes me shudder.

Great, I'm going to be reminded of this pic every time I hear that word now. ugh LOL
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Old 14th Feb 2010, 12:05 AM   #16
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That word makes me shudder.

Great, now every time I bake perfectly moist brownies I will see this picture. Thank you very much
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i hate the word phoenix just coz it has such an illogical spelling!!!
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fag *shutter*
does anyone else hate it as much as i do?
just makes me want a cigarette.

and will people please stop quoting that pic *shudder*
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Words which should be replaced by something else:

Prequel
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Words which should be replaced by something else:

Prequel
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If you replaced Prequel with something else, then what on Earth would the song Prequel to the Sequel be called!? xD It'd be a major travesty =P
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