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| Guest Posts: n/a | I thought just occurred to me as I was finding more ways to NOT finish my paper due tomorrow: What are YOU giving up for Lent (if you celebrate it)? I do, and as much as it's going to kill me I'm giving up ALL fast foods and maybe (haven't decided fully) Coke. ![]() So I was wondering what do you plan to give up for 40 days? And PLEASE no "What does giving up something for 40 days and nights have to do with Christ and God and religion and blah blah blah" - it's just conversation ![]() |
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| who else but me? Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: homo Out Status: I think everyone knows by now Location: New York Age: 21 Posts: 1,301 Join Date: Feb 2009 | i dont celebrate this, but if i did, id give up... well idk. how do yall do it? lol
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| Guest Posts: n/a | It's just saying thanks to Christ for sacrificing His life for us. If He could sacrifice His life we can sacrifice a material object or habit that we otherwise believe we could not live without. Many religions have personal sacrifice as a means towards personal betterment. It shows restraint, control, passion, thanks, and most of all love. To give up something so important for others like Christ did for us shows most of all love ![]() |
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| who else but me? Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: homo Out Status: I think everyone knows by now Location: New York Age: 21 Posts: 1,301 Join Date: Feb 2009 | cool. but idk what would b important enough in my life. everything i do is either nessesity or so stupid that giving it up wouldnt really b fair for jesus cause it doesnt compare
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I highly doubt what you do in life is stupid. Afterall, you're a member of EC and that's pretty rad It's hard, believe me and I do agree what people give could never compare to Christ's sacrifice and many people justly feel the same way you do ![]() |
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| EC's Cascada Fanboy Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I'm tired of trying to label myself Out Status: Some people Age: 20 Posts: 783 Join Date: Jan 2010 | I don't rly give up anything for Lent. I just try to do a good deed everyday during Lent
__________________ "If thou live according to nature, thou wilt never be poor; if according to the opinions of the world, thou wilt never be rich." Author: Seneca |
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| El Padre Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay (Kinsey 5.5) Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Southwestern US Age: 49 Posts: 416 Join Date: Jan 2010 | One year I gave up beets for Lent. When I was in seminary, we used to say that seminary IS lent. I think this year I will continue to give up my illusion of heterosexuality and work hard to see being gay as a gift.
__________________ Mike "The danger is not that there is no bread. The danger is that we believe we are not hungry because of a lie" - Simone Weil There is always a graceful path forward. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | That's awesome ![]() ---------- When I was in JK that's what we had to do instead of give something up... they used to scare us saying when you get to grade one you have to give up meat and I was like "NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!" LMAO! And one day in grade one after we had pizza day I had realized I ate all my pepperoni even though we weren't supposed to and I forgot and I felt soooo bad afterwards...LMAO! |
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| Flananderpus! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay but curious Out Status: Some people Location: USA Age: 22 Posts: 165 Join Date: Jul 2009 | I'm not exactly into the whole religious aspect, well maybe a bit, but I still celebrate because it really is just like any other season/day/holiday(Christmas, Thanksgiving, Birthdays, etc.) but it lasts forty days and is a battle of will(especially if you, in addition to giving up, don't eat meat on fridays, etc.). For now, I don't know. . .I can't think of anything yet. . .Hmm. . . .:/ |
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| One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member ![]() Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008 | A lot of things.
__________________ ![]() If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008 | I'm giving up religion for Lent. Every year at school they ask us, and I always give them the same answer. You'd think they'd have stopped asking me by now..
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| Banned ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Lesbian Out Status: all the way out. Location: Virginia Age: 24 Posts: 406 Join Date: Dec 2009 | Quote:
um if i was religious i would give up straight sex. and i know that sounds like a joke but its really not. | |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family, friends, and staff! Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,139 Join Date: Oct 2008 | Back when I was convinced I could stop being gay, I would give up masturbating for Lent. ...Never succeeded at it. A friend of mine is giving up using her computer for entertainment, but I don't think I could do that. Facebook, I'm From Driftwood, XKCD, Natalie Dee, and Empty Closets, all out of my life for 40 days? I don't think so. ![]()
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Well, you could still give masturbating up as it is an earthly pleasure- gays and straights give it up... there was even a movie with Josh Hartnett on it. I'm not suggesting you should or should not, I'm just saying Wow, your friend's got guts...that's a tough one! WOW! |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Twin Cities, MN Age: 25 Posts: 510 Join Date: Jan 2010 | I stopped giving things up but before I did, my Church encouraged us to volunteer more instead of giving something up.
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| the great cheese danish Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Buffalo, NY Age: 21 Posts: 2,874 Join Date: Jun 2008 | For Lent I am giving up potatoes and white flour-based foods. Both of which I eat daily as the main part of my diet. Should be tough. And I intend to volunteer for the schools USG.
__________________ "Nobody can teach me who I am, who can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need, these are things I have to find out myself." - Chunua Achebe |
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| Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009 | for lent im giving up crisps. Which is torture but my waist will thank me.
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| Stopped being (as) vague Full Member ![]() Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009 | I gave up chocolate spread for lent last year (I love that stuff) only thing is I forgot when lent was so I did it in the run up to christmas :P so this time I'm gonna do it right and give up Pasta ![]()
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| A gay heteropolitan? Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008 | rather than give up one specific thing, im gonna try and start living a healthier life style in general ![]()
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008 | Quote:
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