what race(s) are u mainly interested in? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Alex19 · 26th Feb 2010, 02:04 PM

so i decided to make a thread about races that people are interested in, mainly, or ever find yourself drooling over. this convo can go in many directions like to specific people, idc.

but ill start and give an example. i have to say that i am attracted to ALL races of people. white, black, hispanic, asian, biracials, i love them alllll. i have no idea how ppl in the past were against interracial relationships and the such.

lately, however, ive found myself having a preference for asians... i end up pfrefering different races of people unpredictably. its weird...

anyways, this is a real random thread, and i am almost hesitant of posting it. i just ask that people dont get 'racist' or offensive. i just want people to have some fun conversation about how, basically, when it comes down to it, we are all people and race shouldnt matter (a little change from how gender shouldnt matter)

Johnnieguy · 26th Feb 2010, 02:13 PM

I like two races..White and Latino. There are exceptions, though. I found myself crushing on a man from Nepal.

"White" is such a broad spectrum though...because there are white people all over the world and they are all as unique as the different races are.

I know I have a thing for foreign guys. When I was in Galway, the waiter at my hotel was incredibly beautiful but I didn't want to risk hitting on a straight Irish boy since I know the country is not as liberal as other places in Europe. So i left him a 3 euro tip for one drink

Taurusguy92 · 26th Feb 2010, 02:15 PM

Well Alex since we've been talking u know my prefrences

I guess I prefer the "caramel" as the term I've seen on here. More specifically like Latin and Phillopino(sorry if I spelled it wrong). don't get me wrong though I'm a huge mutt so I love everybody

kv88 · 26th Feb 2010, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Taurusguy92

Well Alex since we've been talking u know my prefrences

I guess I prefer the "caramel" as the term I've seen on here. More specifically like Latin and Phillopino(sorry if I spelled it wrong). don't get me wrong though I'm a huge mutt so I love everybody

The correct spelling is Filipino.

Anyways I mostly like white guys, some Asians, and a few exceptions with others.

RaeofLite · 26th Feb 2010, 02:19 PM

...honestly if there's a girl that I'm into it wouldn't matter her race. Although yes there may be certain issues since some races have cultural backgrounds that are more against homosexuality than others...

But I've had crushes on Asians, Aboriginals, Caucasians (or of European descent: Portugese, German, Hungarian) etc. For me, it's the lady, not the race.

bouncingsouls · 26th Feb 2010, 02:30 PM

I'm irish! I mean yeah, you do get some seriously religious types who are really homophobic, but most of then are pretty chilled! Anyway, you get homophobes everywhere...
Btw, i'm not like criticising you or anything. Just saying...

26th Feb 2010, 02:46 PM

I ain't picky. Everyone is fair game to me. A cute boy in any color is a still a cute boy

GhostDog · 26th Feb 2010, 02:52 PM

I find that my celebrity crushes are predominantly white, though that's probably because they're still the most visible race on TV and in general. The music genres I enjoy are mostly dominated by white people, too.

I think I've had the most crushes on white and black women. I love everyone though! There might be a difficulty with people who don't share some cultural similarities, but I wouldn't count out someone who was awesome just 'cause of that. =D I'd mostly be intimidated and afraid I'd HORRIBLY OFFEND her or her family if her culture was radically different than mine, but... Well, that could happen with anyone, really, so whatever!

**Victor** · 26th Feb 2010, 02:54 PM

The human race. xD

smartguy · 26th Feb 2010, 03:56 PM

totally open to any race, though I do find people whose looks are racially ambiguous mysterious and sexy lol

26th Feb 2010, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Taurusguy92

Well Alex since we've been talking u know my prefrences

I guess I prefer the "caramel" as the term I've seen on here. More specifically like Latin and Phillopino(sorry if I spelled it wrong). don't get me wrong though I'm a huge mutt so I love everybody

i thought i was the only one who said "caramel" xD

Emberstone · 26th Feb 2010, 04:01 PM

mixture of native american *cherrokee to be specific* and northern european. I have the high cheekbones, and black eyes and a slight american indian complexion, with brown hair. I look white if you judge simply by my skin color, but I have tells for my other heritage... and cant take a picture ifront of backrounds of a certian shade of blue, because it makes me skin look orange.

Z3ni · 26th Feb 2010, 04:02 PM

I like any, fairer skin more though.

Swamp56 · 26th Feb 2010, 05:21 PM

I have no preference.

**Lexington** · 26th Feb 2010, 06:23 PM

This one.

Lex

NickT · 26th Feb 2010, 06:32 PM

I like Caucasian and perhaps a bit of Latino.

Sylver · 26th Feb 2010, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Victor

The human race. xD

^This.

Mirko · 26th Feb 2010, 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Victor

The human race. xD

Got to third this.

Alex19 · 26th Feb 2010, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Victor

The human race. xD

this is a good one. humans r hot, arent we?

BrownBoi89 · 26th Feb 2010, 07:30 PM

Race doesn't matter to me but I find half-white, half-east asian guys to be slightly more attractive than everyone else. Given that, I don't date theme exclusively. I love boys of all colours! Or I think I just love men in general lol.

26th Feb 2010, 02:04 PM	#1
Alex19 who else but me? Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: homo Out Status: I think everyone knows by now Location: New York Age: 21 Posts: 1,301 Join Date: Feb 2009	what race(s) are u mainly interested in? so i decided to make a thread about races that people are interested in, mainly, or ever find yourself drooling over. this convo can go in many directions like to specific people, idc. but ill start and give an example. i have to say that i am attracted to ALL races of people. white, black, hispanic, asian, biracials, i love them alllll. i have no idea how ppl in the past were against interracial relationships and the such. lately, however, ive found myself having a preference for asians... i end up pfrefering different races of people unpredictably. its weird... anyways, this is a real random thread, and i am almost hesitant of posting it. i just ask that people dont get 'racist' or offensive. i just want people to have some fun conversation about how, basically, when it comes down to it, we are all people and race shouldnt matter (a little change from how gender shouldnt matter) __________________ "It's always darkest before dawn."

26th Feb 2010, 02:13 PM	#2
Johnnieguy EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Twin Cities, MN Age: 25 Posts: 510 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I like two races..White and Latino. There are exceptions, though. I found myself crushing on a man from Nepal. "White" is such a broad spectrum though...because there are white people all over the world and they are all as unique as the different races are. I know I have a thing for foreign guys. When I was in Galway, the waiter at my hotel was incredibly beautiful but I didn't want to risk hitting on a straight Irish boy since I know the country is not as liberal as other places in Europe. So i left him a 3 euro tip for one drink __________________ Minnesota Vikings: 2010 de facto Super Bowl Champions!

26th Feb 2010, 02:15 PM	#3
Taurusguy92 EC's Cascada Fanboy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I'm tired of trying to label myself Out Status: Some people Age: 20 Posts: 783 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? Well Alex since we've been talking u know my prefrences I guess I prefer the "caramel" as the term I've seen on here. More specifically like Latin and Phillopino(sorry if I spelled it wrong). don't get me wrong though I'm a huge mutt so I love everybody __________________ "If thou live according to nature, thou wilt never be poor; if according to the opinions of the world, thou wilt never be rich." Author: Seneca

26th Feb 2010, 02:19 PM	#5
RaeofLite I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? ...honestly if there's a girl that I'm into it wouldn't matter her race. Although yes there may be certain issues since some races have cultural backgrounds that are more against homosexuality than others... But I've had crushes on Asians, Aboriginals, Caucasians (or of European descent: Portugese, German, Hungarian) etc. For me, it's the lady, not the race. __________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians)

26th Feb 2010, 02:30 PM	#6
bouncingsouls Well Known Regular Member Gender: Ftm Orientation: Gay Out Status: You guys :) Location: Cambridge, UK Posts: 155 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I'm irish! I mean yeah, you do get some seriously religious types who are really homophobic, but most of then are pretty chilled! Anyway, you get homophobes everywhere... Btw, i'm not like criticising you or anything. Just saying...

26th Feb 2010, 02:46 PM	#7
RiotPoofBrandon Guest Posts: n/a	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I ain't picky. Everyone is fair game to me. A cute boy in any color is a still a cute boy

26th Feb 2010, 02:52 PM	#8
GhostDog is Spartacus. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: MAGICAL. Out Status: The hiiills are aliiive with the sound of muuusic! Location: DFW area, Texas Age: 24 Posts: 2,503 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I find that my celebrity crushes are predominantly white, though that's probably because they're still the most visible race on TV and in general. The music genres I enjoy are mostly dominated by white people, too. I think I've had the most crushes on white and black women. I love everyone though! There might be a difficulty with people who don't share some cultural similarities, but I wouldn't count out someone who was awesome just 'cause of that. =D I'd mostly be intimidated and afraid I'd HORRIBLY OFFEND her or her family if her culture was radically different than mine, but... Well, that could happen with anyone, really, so whatever! __________________ <3 Kirah, who may or may not be made of delicious candy (and the lesbians) Last edited by GhostDog; 26th Feb 2010 at 03:03 PM..

26th Feb 2010, 02:54 PM	#9
Victor Moo EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty damn out Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,972 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? The human race. xD __________________

26th Feb 2010, 03:56 PM	#10
smartguy Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: gay Out Status: whoever asks (which oddly is hardly anyone) Location: new jersey Age: 20 Posts: 165 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? totally open to any race, though I do find people whose looks are racially ambiguous mysterious and sexy lol

26th Feb 2010, 04:01 PM	#12
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,591 Join Date: May 2008	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? mixture of native american cherrokee to be specific and northern european. I have the high cheekbones, and black eyes and a slight american indian complexion, with brown hair. I look white if you judge simply by my skin color, but I have tells for my other heritage... and cant take a picture ifront of backrounds of a certian shade of blue, because it makes me skin look orange.

26th Feb 2010, 04:02 PM	#13
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I like any, fairer skin more though. __________________ Through pain, lies success.

26th Feb 2010, 05:21 PM	#14
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I have no preference. __________________

26th Feb 2010, 06:23 PM	#15
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? This one. Lex

26th Feb 2010, 06:32 PM	#16
NickT Mr. Grammar Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Kentucky Posts: 985 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? I like Caucasian and perhaps a bit of Latino. __________________ Gay Pride!

26th Feb 2010, 07:30 PM	#20
BrownBoi89 Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone knows except my extended family Location: Vancouver Age: 22 Posts: 101 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: what race(s) are u mainly interested in? Race doesn't matter to me but I find half-white, half-east asian guys to be slightly more attractive than everyone else. Given that, I don't date theme exclusively. I love boys of all colours! Or I think I just love men in general lol.

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