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Old 15th Apr 2010, 04:51 PM   #1
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Default The Importance of Beauty

For my AP Psych class, we're going to do a survery. My topic will be about beauty, how much it affects our lives, and if it differs by gender. Here it is:

Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male or Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes or No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes or No or Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes or No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder or Set standard

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Yes or No
Yes or No or Depends on how I age

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes or No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
None, A few, Some, Several, Countless

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I could care less what I looked like leaving the house
I make an effort but not too long
The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Yes or No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Out-of-the ordinary or Typical, "normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Yes or No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Unimportant, Considered, Important, Very Important, My first concern

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes or No

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes or No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Yes or No or Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
Yes or No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Yes or No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
Yes or No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes or No

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes or No

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes or No
Yes or No
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Old 15th Apr 2010, 05:17 PM   #2
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SWEET! i'm first.

Gender: female.

Do you think you’re beautiful?
no.

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?

everyday .

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
it depends on how i feel that day.

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?

definitely the beholder.

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
um.. yes.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?

no.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
a few.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
fifteen minutes max.

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?

i wear what i like.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
i wear what i like.

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?

i'm too lazy for that.

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?

slightly important.

Would you date someone below your physical standards?

ah, yes.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
socially yes, but it shouldn't be.

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
it depends on how you carry yourself.

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
to each his own.

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
no.

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
no.

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?

yes.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
it depends how you look at it.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?

no. and it depends how far you take it.
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Old 15th Apr 2010, 06:21 PM   #3
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Default Re: The Importance of Beauty

Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes, but then again I have amazing genes that prolong wrinkles till 60 years old.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
A few

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?

I make an effort but not too long


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Yes

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
No

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
Yes
Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Yes

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
The right thing is to say no, but I still do it anyways. So my actions say yes

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes
Yes
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Old 15th Apr 2010, 06:58 PM   #4
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male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Yes
Depends on how I age

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Some (about 6 come to mind easily)

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I could care less what I looked like leaving the house

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Yes (for teasing, it happened to me and is a part of social life)

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Kind of (mostly no)

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes (it's how girls got by when they had no rights in the past)

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes
Yes

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Default Re: The Importance of Beauty

As a recovering survey whore, I am happy to help out.

Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male or Female
Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
No

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder (hell, 95% of the guys I find cute fall outside of the standard of beauty)

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
If shampoo and conditioner count as hair care and/or pimple cream counts as facial care, then a few; it they don't, then none.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort but not too long

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Unimportant

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
No (I am a chubby chaser, though, so I'm biased)

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
No

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes (For the record, I only think that way because it's been proven.)

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
No
Yes
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Étoile View Post
For my AP Psych class, we're going to do a survery. My topic will be about beauty, how much it affects our lives, and if it differs by gender. Here it is:

Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male or Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
I don't understand this question really.

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Probably not. No slicing open my face, thanks.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Not really. I think once I'm past 30 I'm done looking good anyways.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Things I actually use? Or things I own but don't even use? lol. I don't want to count.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
Depends where I'm going. Sometimes I don't even care. I usually try to shower and shave if I need to before I leave the house.

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing (if you consider it that)

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
My first concern... sadly they have to have a good personality and look good. I can't be with someone who I don't find attractive.

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes. A little.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Yes

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No... depends how odd though...

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Somewhat.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes
No
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Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Sometimes

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Some days

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
A bit

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Things to condition my hair, style it and straighten it.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
20 mins for hair and makeup?


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
I wear casual clothes for women. Occasionally I'll bust out a tie.

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Makeup

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Somewhat important.

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Maybe.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Depends. But I'd still try to keep fit.

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
I'd talk to them about it, but ultimately it's their decision.

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Yes

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No.

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Some days. Then I remember that I have an edge in aspects of my personality.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
A little.
Probably.
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Old 15th Apr 2010, 07:46 PM   #8
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Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes (most of the time)

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Not really

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
a few--mainly related to shaving/beard trimming

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort but not too long (and by effort I mean I rinse my hair in the sink to make sure i don't have bed-head--if I shave or trim my beard that's usually done at night)


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
No

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Probably more than I'd like to admit
Yes
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Gender - Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes.

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes. Always.

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No.

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Personally I think that beauty is all perceptive. We all have our own ideas. So I say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Hell no. Neither now, nor ever would I consider going through something like that.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No. In fact I look forward to them.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Several.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort, but only as far as brushing my teeth. Other than that I don’t care.

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Nope. I wear what I like to wear, regardless of what’s in this week.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
I typically wear darker, more neutral clothes, which I would consider “normal”.

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No.

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Considered, but verging on unimportant.

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
I don’t have physical standards.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Only if it interferes with your health and/or happiness.

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No.

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Sadly yes.

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No.

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
No.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Sometimes, but mostly no.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing, unless you would rather look at yourself than other people.
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male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Yes, Rhinoplasty as soon as I can afford, plus other minor procedures come to mind.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Some

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
45 minutesish

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Yes

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
I try to be more stylish

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends. I carry a higher standard for me than on others

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
Never

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Never

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
maybe a little, but I know where I stand and know what is truly important when it comes down to it
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Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Sometimes

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Most of the time

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
I'm not sure how to answer this question

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Both

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Several

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Yes

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Out-of-the ordinary

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Yes, makeup

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Considered

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Again, I can't really answer yes or no. When I'm attracted enough to someone's personality, it makes them beautiful to me.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
No

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Somewhat
It can be
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Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
A few

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I could care less what I looked like leaving the house

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Considered

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
I can answer this better once it happens.

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Depends on what it is.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes
I think everyone's vain to some degree. As per usual, excess is bad.
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Gender: Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No to both

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
A few

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort but not too long


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Typical, "normal" clothing I guess. I definitely don't go out of way to dress either way though so I don't know. I never thought about something like that before

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Considered

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
No but to clarify my standards are very low

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain?
No I don't believe so

Is vanity a bad thing?
Yes
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Old 15th Apr 2010, 11:32 PM   #14
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Gender: Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No
Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Yes i would get my nose done
Maybe when im older i don't know

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Kinda

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
a few

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I could care less what I looked like leaving the house as long my ass is washed and my teeth is brush. i wear a t-shirt and jeans on and a small fanny pack

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Nope i could care less

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Normal clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Nope im a guy

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Unimportant

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
nope i would still want to look as good i don't want him looking else where.

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
I'm fat but Only if it interferes with your health and/or happiness.

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
I don't want kids so i could care less

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
nope

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
no its their personal preference

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Hell yes when i see a cute light skinned black guy with a nice body i am so jealous.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
no
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Old 16th Apr 2010, 09:48 AM   #15
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Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Set standard (I believe this is set by corporations)

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Honestly I don't know. If were affordable I might, but I really am not sure, so maybe.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
A few, really only one.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort but not too long. This really depends on my mood.

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Out-of-the ordinary. I have a lot nerd shirts (does that count?)

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends on how you carry the weight. (I've had crushes on several pleasently plump fellows)

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes (and hate sometimes)

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
No
No


I hope its ok to add a story to this because I'm gonna:
On my Birthday weekend a had a gathering (and yes we were drinking). One of my friends brought a friend, who was damn smoking hottie. At one point in the night a girl said to him that was a hot piece of meat. He looked like he was about to cry, come to find out that is all girls saw when being around him, he had never had a long lasting relationship with a girl. They just saw him a hot man to do and be done with it.
So, I guess the lession is beauty is both a gift and a curse.
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Old 16th Apr 2010, 01:00 PM   #16
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Gender:Female

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes

Do you feel self-conscious about your apperence?
Sometimes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Erm 50/50

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
Depends on how I age

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Several

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I make an effort but not too long


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Yes

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Whatever I'm comfortable in

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Yes only makeup not hair extensions

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Looks are important but not everything

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
Yes

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
No because thats just lazy

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Depends if your happy but I wouldn't date someone seriously overweight

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Sometimes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Hmm not sure

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
I think everyone has a vain moment when they feel or look good
Appreciating yourself isn't bad but excessive vanity is
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Old 16th Apr 2010, 01:07 PM   #17
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I love these sort of things!

Gender: Male.

Do you think you’re beautiful?
Yes.

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Sometimes.

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
Yes.

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Set standard.

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Countless.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit.

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
Eh, sometimes.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Out-of-the ordinary.

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Just a simple cover up that matches my skin tone.

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important.

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
No.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
I don't think so. :/

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Yes.

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
Dress fashionably!

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No.

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
Absolutely not.

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Nobody wins, when you're full of envy.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Absolutely. It's been proven in studies.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
I am vain...but not all the time. I don't see vanity as a bad thing. If you want to look good then you might as well do what it takes to look good.
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Old 16th Apr 2010, 02:42 PM   #18
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Gender: Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No

Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No

Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No
No

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
No

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Shampoo, so...a few, I guess.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
I could care less what I looked like leaving the house

Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
"normal" clothing

Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
No

How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Important

Would you date someone below your physical standards?
No

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Yes

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Yes

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
No
Not in moderation
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Old 16th Apr 2010, 03:06 PM   #19
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Default Re: The Importance of Beauty

Gender
Male

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No


Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?

Yes

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No


Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?

Set standard.


If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?

No


Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?

Yes


How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?

A few

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
less than one minute


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?

Never

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Normal


Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?

No


How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Considered


Would you date someone below your physical standards?

Yes


Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?

No

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
No

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
No

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?

No

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
Yes

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?

No
Yes
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Gender
Female.

Do you think you’re beautiful?
No.


Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance?
Yes.

Is physical beauty a major part of your life?
No.


Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard?
Eye of the beholder.

If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older?
No.

Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging?
Yes.

How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own?
Lots, but I only use a few.

How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning?
15-20 minutes.


Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy?
No.

Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing?
Out of the ordinary.


Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions?
Small amount of makeup, no hair extensions.


How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?
It's something I notice, but I wouldn't go for someone just because of it.


Would you date someone below your physical standards?
No.

Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married?
Yes. It's not something I'd judge.

Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive?
Bad thing, but not necessarily unattractive.

If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably?
No.

Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance?
Only if I'm mocking people who do.

Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased?
No.

Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people?
Yes.

Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others?
No.

Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing?
No, and yes.
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