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| He ate my heart Full Member ![]() Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007 | For my AP Psych class, we're going to do a survery. My topic will be about beauty, how much it affects our lives, and if it differs by gender. Here it is: Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male or Female Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes or No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes or No or Sometimes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes or No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder or Set standard If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Yes or No Yes or No or Depends on how I age Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes or No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? None, A few, Some, Several, Countless How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I could care less what I looked like leaving the house I make an effort but not too long The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Yes or No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Out-of-the ordinary or Typical, "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Yes or No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Unimportant, Considered, Important, Very Important, My first concern Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes or No Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes or No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Yes or No or Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? Yes or No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Yes or No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? Yes or No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes or No Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes or No Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Yes or No Yes or No
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| yup, it's caer. Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: pansexual is a nicer way to put it. Out Status: everyone but the 'rents. Location: chicago Age: 19 Posts: 22 Join Date: Apr 2010 | SWEET! i'm first. Gender: female. Do you think you’re beautiful? no. Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? everyday . Is physical beauty a major part of your life? it depends on how i feel that day. Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? definitely the beholder. If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? um.. yes. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? no. How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? a few. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? fifteen minutes max. Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? i wear what i like. Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? i wear what i like. Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? i'm too lazy for that. How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? slightly important. Would you date someone below your physical standards? ah, yes. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? socially yes, but it shouldn't be. Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? it depends on how you carry yourself. If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? to each his own. Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? no. Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? no. Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? yes. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? it depends how you look at it. Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? no. and it depends how far you take it.
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| Bopping,dropping and shaking life Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: The Sunniest State in the USA Posts: 182 Join Date: Apr 2009 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes, but then again I have amazing genes that prolong wrinkles till 60 years old. How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? A few How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Yes Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical, "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? No Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? Yes Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Yes Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? The right thing is to say no, but I still do it anyways. So my actions say yes Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Yes Yes
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| professional lurker Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: bisexual prefering males Out Status: don't ask don't tell (ask and I'll tell) Location: oakville(college) and oshawa(hometown) ont, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Apr 2009 | male Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Sometimes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Yes Depends on how I age Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Some (about 6 come to mind easily) How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I could care less what I looked like leaving the house Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Yes (for teasing, it happened to me and is a part of social life) Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Kind of (mostly no) Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes (it's how girls got by when they had no rights in the past) Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Yes Yes ____________________________ enjoy
__________________ <-is a very bad influence... and definately enjoys it hail lord ilpallazzo! |
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| Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007 | As a recovering survey whore, I am happy to help out. Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male or Female Male Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? No Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder (hell, 95% of the guys I find cute fall outside of the standard of beauty) If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? If shampoo and conditioner count as hair care and/or pimple cream counts as facial care, then a few; it they don't, then none. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical, "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Unimportant Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? No (I am a chubby chaser, though, so I'm biased) If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? No Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes (For the record, I only think that way because it's been proven.) Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? No Yes
__________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer |
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| Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people in my life. Location: Orange County, California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 1,790 Join Date: Apr 2008 | Quote:
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| I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member ![]() Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female Do you think you’re beautiful? Sometimes Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Some days Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? A bit How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Things to condition my hair, style it and straighten it. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? 20 mins for hair and makeup? Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No. Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? I wear casual clothes for women. Occasionally I'll bust out a tie. Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Makeup How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Somewhat important. Would you date someone below your physical standards? Maybe. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Depends. But I'd still try to keep fit. Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? I'd talk to them about it, but ultimately it's their decision. Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Yes Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No. Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Some days. Then I remember that I have an edge in aspects of my personality. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? A little. Probably.
__________________ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Bonnie Jean Wasmund (and the lesbians) |
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| Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Somewhat Location: Virginia Age: 24 Posts: 53 Join Date: Apr 2010 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes (most of the time) Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Sometimes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Not really Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? a few--mainly related to shaving/beard trimming How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long (and by effort I mean I rinse my hair in the sink to make sure i don't have bed-head--if I shave or trim my beard that's usually done at night) Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical, "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? No Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Probably more than I'd like to admit Yes |
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| As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009 | Gender - Male Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes. Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes. Always. Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No. Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Personally I think that beauty is all perceptive. We all have our own ideas. So I say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Hell no. Neither now, nor ever would I consider going through something like that. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No. In fact I look forward to them. How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Several. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort, but only as far as brushing my teeth. Other than that I don’t care. Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Nope. I wear what I like to wear, regardless of what’s in this week. Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? I typically wear darker, more neutral clothes, which I would consider “normal”. Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No. How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Considered, but verging on unimportant. Would you date someone below your physical standards? I don’t have physical standards. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Only if it interferes with your health and/or happiness. If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No. Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Sadly yes. Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No. Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? No. Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Sometimes, but mostly no. I don’t think it’s a bad thing, unless you would rather look at yourself than other people.
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Immediate Family, all close friends Location: Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 143 Join Date: Jun 2008 | male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Yes, Rhinoplasty as soon as I can afford, plus other minor procedures come to mind. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Some How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? 45 minutesish Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Yes Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? I try to be more stylish Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends. I carry a higher standard for me than on others If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? Never Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Never Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? maybe a little, but I know where I stand and know what is truly important when it comes down to it |
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| Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: somewhere over the rainbow Out Status: Out to most people Posts: 782 Join Date: Jan 2010 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female Do you think you’re beautiful? Sometimes Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Most of the time Is physical beauty a major part of your life? I'm not sure how to answer this question Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Both If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Several How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Yes Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Out-of-the ordinary Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Yes, makeup How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Considered Would you date someone below your physical standards? Again, I can't really answer yes or no. When I'm attracted enough to someone's personality, it makes them beautiful to me. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? No Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Somewhat It can be |
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| Call me Katie Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Female Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? A few How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I could care less what I looked like leaving the house Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical, "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Considered Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? I can answer this better once it happens. Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Depends on what it is. Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? Yes I think everyone's vain to some degree. As per usual, excess is bad.
__________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know. |
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| R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008 | Gender: Male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No to both Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? A few How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Typical, "normal" clothing I guess. I definitely don't go out of way to dress either way though so I don't know. I never thought about something like that before Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Considered Would you date someone below your physical standards? No but to clarify my standards are very low Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? No I don't believe so Is vanity a bad thing? Yes
__________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 437 Join Date: May 2005 | Gender: Male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Yes i would get my nose done Maybe when im older i don't know Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Kinda How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? a few How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I could care less what I looked like leaving the house as long my ass is washed and my teeth is brush. i wear a t-shirt and jeans on and a small fanny pack Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Nope i could care less Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Normal clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Nope im a guy How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Unimportant Would you date someone below your physical standards? yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? nope i would still want to look as good i don't want him looking else where. Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? I'm fat but Only if it interferes with your health and/or happiness. If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? I don't want kids so i could care less Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? nope Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? no its their personal preference Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Hell yes when i see a cute light skinned black guy with a nice body i am so jealous. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? no
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| EC's realist Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009 | Gender (the one who identify yourself as): Male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Sometimes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Set standard (I believe this is set by corporations) If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Honestly I don't know. If were affordable I might, but I really am not sure, so maybe. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? A few, really only one. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long. This really depends on my mood. Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Out-of-the ordinary. I have a lot nerd shirts (does that count?) Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends on how you carry the weight. (I've had crushes on several pleasently plump fellows) If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes (and hate sometimes) Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? No No I hope its ok to add a story to this because I'm gonna: On my Birthday weekend a had a gathering (and yes we were drinking). One of my friends brought a friend, who was damn smoking hottie. At one point in the night a girl said to him that was a hot piece of meat. He looked like he was about to cry, come to find out that is all girls saw when being around him, he had never had a long lasting relationship with a girl. They just saw him a hot man to do and be done with it. So, I guess the lession is beauty is both a gift and a curse.
__________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away. |
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| The square root of 4 is rainbows Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: everybody really Location: Originally Montana but currently San Fransisco Age: 21 Posts: 1,327 Join Date: Feb 2009 | Gender:Female Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes Do you feel self-conscious about your apperence? Sometimes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Erm 50/50 Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? Depends on how I age Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Several How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I make an effort but not too long Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Yes Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Whatever I'm comfortable in Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Yes only makeup not hair extensions How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Looks are important but not everything Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No because thats just lazy Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Depends if your happy but I wouldn't date someone seriously overweight If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Sometimes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Hmm not sure Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? I think everyone has a vain moment when they feel or look good Appreciating yourself isn't bad but excessive vanity is
__________________ I empower my Cheerios to live in fear by creating an enviorment of irrational, random terror -Sue Sylvester |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Connecticut, USA Age: 22 Posts: 263 Join Date: Jun 2009 | I love these sort of things! ![]() Gender: Male. Do you think you’re beautiful? Yes. Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Sometimes. Is physical beauty a major part of your life? Yes. Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Set standard. If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No. How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Countless. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? The majority of my time is spent grooming and deciding on an outfit. Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Eh, sometimes. Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Out-of-the ordinary. Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Just a simple cover up that matches my skin tone. How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important. Would you date someone below your physical standards? No. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? I don't think so. :/ Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Yes. If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? Dress fashionably! Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No. Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? Absolutely not. Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Nobody wins, when you're full of envy. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Absolutely. It's been proven in studies. Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? I am vain...but not all the time. I don't see vanity as a bad thing. If you want to look good then you might as well do what it takes to look good. |
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| Mr. Grammar Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Kentucky Posts: 985 Join Date: Sep 2009 | Gender: Male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? No How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Shampoo, so...a few, I guess. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? I could care less what I looked like leaving the house Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? "normal" clothing Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Important Would you date someone below your physical standards? No Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Yes If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Yes Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? No Not in moderation
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| Was Invisible. EC Moderator ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008 | Gender Male Do you think you’re beautiful? No Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Set standard. If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? A few How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? less than one minute Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? Never Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Normal Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? No How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Considered Would you date someone below your physical standards? Yes Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? No Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? No If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? No Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? No Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? Yes Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? No Yes |
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| Empty Closets Mod EC Moderator ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: York, United Kingdom Age: 19 Posts: 2,102 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Gender Female. Do you think you’re beautiful? No. Do you feel self-conscious about your appearance? Yes. Is physical beauty a major part of your life? No. Is beauty truly in the eye of the beholder or is there a set standard? Eye of the beholder. If affordable/available, would you get plastic surgery purely for cosmetic reasons? Would you get it when you’re older? No. Do you fear the cosmetic effects of aging? Yes. How many cosmetic and grooming (hair care, facial care, perfumes etc.) products do you own? Lots, but I only use a few. How much time do you put into your appearance in the morning? 15-20 minutes. Do you try to keep up with the fashions or consider yourself trendy? No. Do you try to dress out-of-the ordinary or wear typical, "normal" clothing? Out of the ordinary. Do you wear makeup and/or hair extensions? Small amount of makeup, no hair extensions. How important is appearance when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend? It's something I notice, but I wouldn't go for someone just because of it. Would you date someone below your physical standards? No. Is it okay to “let yourself go” after being in a long-term relationship or getting married? Yes. It's not something I'd judge. Is being fat a bad thing/unattractive? Bad thing, but not necessarily unattractive. If your child had an odd or plain style, would you encourage them to dress normally or fashionably? No. Do you often gossip about or tease someone’s appearance? Only if I'm mocking people who do. Do ugly people or bad dressers deserve to be gossiped about and teased? No. Do you often envy beautiful or attractive people? Yes. Do you think beautiful people “have it easier” or “get by” with things in life more than others? No. Are you vain? Is vanity a bad thing? No, and yes.
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