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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:22 PM   #1
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Default What's better?

Hey guys just a little question I always asked myself ^-^

What is better a Girl Friend or a Boy Friend? I never knew what is best to choose...

What do you people think?
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:34 PM   #2
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If Ihad to actually choose between a boy or a girl I'd choose a dude, but that's just me probably
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:35 PM   #3
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I'm guessing boyfriend. I've never had one, I wouldn't know.
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:37 PM   #4
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Well I'm not bi so I only like guys and I guess would have to answer boyfriend. I don't think it can really be answered though. Isn't it less about the gender and more about the person?
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:38 PM   #5
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Umm... boyfriend? I'm not sure what this about.
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:40 PM   #6
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That is a question that only you answer.

It all comes down to what you want and how the other person fulfills those needs.
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 02:41 PM   #7
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hmm okay thank you guys ^-^
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 03:12 PM   #8
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Default Re: What's better?

Well, I'm gay, so I'm pretty biased towards boyfriends

Though this is a pretty broad question. Better for what, exactly? Better than what, exactly?

I'm guessing that, if gender doesn't really matter for you, it's best to just meet people, and fall in love with someone, rather than decide to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend ahead of time. Whichever you end up happy with will be the right one for you!
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 03:31 PM   #9
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Its not about the gender its about the actual person.
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 06:39 PM   #10
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 06:42 PM   #11
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Whoever you fall for. Neither gender is inherently better to have a relationship with. Whether they happen to be male or female, it's the way you feel about each other that makes a relationship work.
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 07:01 PM   #12
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i'd say girlfriend... ha they just seem more caring, etc
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Old 25th Apr 2010, 07:42 PM   #13
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BoYFriEND!
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