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British Lad · 10th May 2010, 11:16 AM

How many of you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or working your way towards one?

partietraumatic · 10th May 2010, 11:28 AM

yaay first answer!

Unfortunately the answer is no tho lol

kettleoffish · 10th May 2010, 11:32 AM

single at the moment, I miss him sometimes though

although I don't know if I'd get back with him if the option arose (he left me).

Gin Uh Fur · 10th May 2010, 11:51 AM

i kind of wish there was a no and dont want one answer but i no not at the moment. im ok with being single. i like it that way.

10th May 2010, 11:56 AM

Loved and lost!

Never will get back with any of them. They think im too much of a dick.

Brandford · 10th May 2010, 12:02 PM

Nope, I've had a couple but they just didn't work out. I've pretty much given up and I try to avoid seeing guys Im attracted to.

Starburst · 10th May 2010, 12:22 PM

81 % of us don't have a partner.

Neither do I.

But I will. Can't find one you like? Steal one!

ThePug · 10th May 2010, 12:33 PM

I don't at the moment, however, I have a crush on a guy who I am almost 100% is a closet case and is one of my friends.

Revan · 10th May 2010, 12:36 PM

Nope. Wouldn't mind having one though.

Zach1992 · 10th May 2010, 01:03 PM

Nope. I've never had one. I really want one though.

SaturdaySaviour · 10th May 2010, 01:18 PM

Single. There are times when I feel kinda lonely, but it's not that bad really.

10th May 2010, 04:06 PM

Single and have been for just over a year now. I don't mind it too much but I've got to admit, I'm getting to the stage where I wouldn't mind a relationship.

**Owen** · 10th May 2010, 04:18 PM

Used to have one. It was nice while it lasted. I have my eye on someone right now, but it looks like nothing is going to happen between us. Le sign.

Phoenix · 10th May 2010, 05:04 PM

I have one and I love him a lot.

Apocalypte · 10th May 2010, 05:14 PM

Single, and looking. This sex drought has gone on WAY too long.

L|L · 10th May 2010, 06:33 PM

If he pulls his head out of his ass, then yes. Plus there's only one thing that belongs in that ass

**Maddy** · 10th May 2010, 11:06 PM

Terminally single.

Austin · 10th May 2010, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gin Uh Fur

i kind of wish there was a no and dont want one answer but i no not at the moment. im ok with being single. i like it that way.

This. Kinda. For the moment.

**Lexington** · 11th May 2010, 08:17 AM

I've got a partner. Not sure if that's the same as a parter.

Lex

British Lad · 11th May 2010, 08:54 AM

You know what I mean.

View Poll Results: Do you have a Parter?
YES YES YES	8	13.11%
No, not at the moment	43	70.49%
No, but I think i might have somebody just waiting to be.	10	16.39%
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10th May 2010, 11:16 AM	#1
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	A simple question How many of you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or working your way towards one? __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

10th May 2010, 11:28 AM	#2
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: A simple question yaay first answer! Unfortunately the answer is no tho lol __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

10th May 2010, 11:32 AM	#3
kettleoffish new avatar time! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but parents.. for now. Location: Scotland Age: 18 Posts: 1,045 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: A simple question single at the moment, I miss him sometimes though although I don't know if I'd get back with him if the option arose (he left me). __________________ ~~There is no way to peace; peace is the way.~~ --A. J. Muste

10th May 2010, 11:51 AM	#4
Gin Uh Fur Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Lesbian Out Status: all the way out. Location: Virginia Age: 24 Posts: 406 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: A simple question i kind of wish there was a no and dont want one answer but i no not at the moment. im ok with being single. i like it that way.

10th May 2010, 11:56 AM	#5
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A simple question Loved and lost! Never will get back with any of them. They think im too much of a dick.

10th May 2010, 12:02 PM	#6
Brandford Friendly Misanthrope Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone that asks,my mom (i think) and my sister Location: Woodbridge, VA Age: 19 Posts: 6,656 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: A simple question Nope, I've had a couple but they just didn't work out. I've pretty much given up and I try to avoid seeing guys Im attracted to. __________________ "I find nothing more depressing than optimism." --Paul Fussell

10th May 2010, 12:22 PM	#7
Starburst Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mal-licious <3 Out Status: A few people Location: Indianapolis, IN, USA & Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam. Age: 20 Posts: 130 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: A simple question 81 % of us don't have a partner. Neither do I. But I will. Can't find one you like? Steal one! __________________ I am Amber; cold, dead, and fossilized. But if you are kind enough, please take me by your side! And together, I will once again reveal my shine, and offer you which I have long kept, The magnificence, the prestige of life!

10th May 2010, 12:33 PM	#8
ThePug Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sioux City, Iowa Posts: 93 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: A simple question I don't at the moment, however, I have a crush on a guy who I am almost 100% is a closet case and is one of my friends.

10th May 2010, 12:36 PM	#9
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: A simple question Nope. Wouldn't mind having one though. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

10th May 2010, 01:03 PM	#10
Zach1992 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: Out to friends, some family, & those who ask! Location: New York (State, not city) Age: 21 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: A simple question Nope. I've never had one. I really want one though. __________________ "Sex shouldn't be COMFY!!!"- Lola (Kinky Boots)

10th May 2010, 01:18 PM	#11
SaturdaySaviour eats crayons and shits rainbows. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Friends! Location: Croatia Age: 18 Posts: 490 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: A simple question Single. There are times when I feel kinda lonely, but it's not that bad really.

10th May 2010, 04:06 PM	#12
Nialla Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A simple question Single and have been for just over a year now. I don't mind it too much but I've got to admit, I'm getting to the stage where I wouldn't mind a relationship.

10th May 2010, 04:18 PM	#13
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: A simple question Used to have one. It was nice while it lasted. I have my eye on someone right now, but it looks like nothing is going to happen between us. Le sign. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

10th May 2010, 05:04 PM	#14
Phoenix EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Somewhere between gay and bisexual Out Status: Very Location: Massachusetts, USA Posts: 755 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: A simple question I have one and I love him a lot.

10th May 2010, 11:06 PM	#17
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: A simple question Terminally single. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

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10th May 2010, 05:14 PM	#15
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: A simple question Single, and looking. This sex drought has gone on WAY too long. __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

10th May 2010, 06:33 PM	#16
L\|L EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 32 Posts: 351 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: A simple question If he pulls his head out of his ass, then yes. Plus there's only one thing that belongs in that ass

11th May 2010, 08:17 AM	#19
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: A simple question I've got a partner. Not sure if that's the same as a parter. Lex

11th May 2010, 08:54 AM	#20
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: A simple question You know what I mean. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.