can you see my gayness? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Gin Uh Fur · 13th May 2010, 09:02 AM

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are you fans of davey wavey?
and what do you think about what he said in the video.

mattypants · 13th May 2010, 09:29 AM

im not a fan of him P:

but find what he said interesting... especially the 'petals' that makeup my human flower... xD

**Ben** · 13th May 2010, 09:32 AM

I only think like that because it's hard not to see my gayness most of the time

stratavos · 13th May 2010, 09:38 AM

some fairly important points. lots of arm talking

Harve · 13th May 2010, 01:01 PM

"Being gay is just a small part of who i am, it doesn't define me"

and yet...
"If you don't see my gayness, you don't see me"

Is he completely contradicting himself there or am i missing the point?

mattypants · 13th May 2010, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Harve

"Being gay is just a small part of who i am, it doesn't define me"

and yet...
"If you don't see my gayness, you don't see me"

Is he completely contradicting himself there or am i missing the point?

he also wants to be taken seriously [i think] while not wearing clothes... yeah P:

**Martin** · 13th May 2010, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Harve

"Being gay is just a small part of who i am, it doesn't define me"

and yet...
"If you don't see my gayness, you don't see me"

Is he completely contradicting himself there or am i missing the point?

He's covering what people say about their sexuality. It seperates each one with the "Some people say...", "Other people say..." and "I say..." frames. The latter comment is his take on how he views his sexuality.

Or at least I think it is. I may have missed the point of it too.

Gin Uh Fur · 13th May 2010, 07:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Martin

Quote:

Originally Posted by Harve

"Being gay is just a small part of who i am, it doesn't define me"

and yet...
"If you don't see my gayness, you don't see me"

Is he completely contradicting himself there or am i missing the point?

He's covering what people say about their sexuality. It seperates each one with the "Some people say...", "Other people say..." and "I say..." frames. The latter comment is his take on how he views his sexuality.

Or at least I think it is. I may have missed the point of it too.

no you are right

and i think his nudeness is talked about in a past video that he doesnt hide anything and i can say he def has nothing to hide.

i can say that if people dont see my gayness then they are missing a part of who i am. what ive done through. while its not a main part of me its def something that has shaped the person i am. and anyone who claims it hasnt shaped who they are is a liar.

Swedish101 · 13th May 2010, 08:47 PM

<3 Davey Wavey.

otc877 · 14th May 2010, 12:42 AM

I find him a little annoying when he goes on his love yourself and everyone is beautiful i love you all rants.

This video sums it up nicely in a parody

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RaRa · 14th May 2010, 01:14 AM

Haha that second vid is hilarious.

Gin Uh Fur · 14th May 2010, 07:23 AM

heaven forbid that someone tries to stay positive about being gay. i guess the gay would should just curl up into a ball of emo misery and just mope about how much it sucks.

mattypants · 14th May 2010, 10:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by otc877

I find him a little annoying when he goes on his love yourself and everyone is beautiful i love you all rants.

This video sums it up nicely in a parody

+ YouTube Video

youre now my favouritist person ever [for the day] for posting that <3

Black Cat · 14th May 2010, 10:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gin Uh Fur

heaven forbid that someone tries to stay positive about being gay. i guess the gay would should just curl up into a ball of emo misery and just mope about how much it sucks.

I don't think that's the case. In my experience being gay has never sucked.

As for Davey Wavey, I'm not a fan. I just don't find him entertaining - plain and simple.

British Lad · 14th May 2010, 11:31 AM

I Have had nearly all the Gay in me drilled out of me over the years by many people, so I act very straight, I h8 getting dirty but I have dug a huge hole in my garden (for a pool) built a bar in my garden, when and did electrical work will my step-dad (he owns a electrical company), I am less of a wimp in marshal arts and I can now take quite a bit of pain, plus loads of other stuff to "man me up". so what could have come at as being an early indication of my sexuality was repressed and drilled out and only now am I beginning to know my truth orientation (gay). So I could have been a lot camper if none of that happened, but I like who I am, and Homophobes, Bring it, I will knock you to tomorrow.

ColdSnap · 14th May 2010, 12:55 PM

Well my mother didn't tell me I was gonna die of AIDS, people don't laugh at me and I can have a ceremony to honour a relationship, and adopt. So being gay hasn't really shaped me or given me hardship and is just who that like boys :S

otc877 · 14th May 2010, 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mattypants

Quote:

Originally Posted by otc877

I find him a little annoying when he goes on his love yourself and everyone is beautiful i love you all rants.

This video sums it up nicely in a parody

+ YouTube Video

youre now my favouritist person ever [for the day] for posting that <3

You should check out his other videos, they're hilarious... especially his "Guru likes to talk Nerdy"

13th May 2010, 09:29 AM	#2
mattypants Chacun à son goût Full Member Gender: male/garçon/hombre Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some friends Some family and the lesbians Location: Los angeles, Ca Posts: 2,733 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: can you see my gayness? im not a fan of him P: but find what he said interesting... especially the 'petals' that makeup my human flower... xD __________________

13th May 2010, 09:32 AM	#3
Ben Was Invisible. EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: can you see my gayness? I only think like that because it's hard not to see my gayness most of the time

13th May 2010, 09:38 AM	#4
stratavos professional lurker Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bisexual prefering males Out Status: don't ask don't tell (ask and I'll tell) Location: oakville(college) and oshawa(hometown) ont, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: can you see my gayness? some fairly important points. lots of arm talking __________________ <-is a very bad influence... and definately enjoys it hail lord ilpallazzo!

13th May 2010, 01:01 PM	#5
Harve EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Queer Out Status: All but some family Location: Derbyshire, UK Age: 18 Posts: 544 Join Date: May 2009	Re: can you see my gayness? "Being gay is just a small part of who i am, it doesn't define me" and yet... "If you don't see my gayness, you don't see me" Is he completely contradicting himself there or am i missing the point?

13th May 2010, 08:47 PM	#9
Swedish101 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 3 Join Date: May 2010	Re: can you see my gayness? <3 Davey Wavey.

14th May 2010, 01:14 AM	#11
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: can you see my gayness? Haha that second vid is hilarious. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

14th May 2010, 07:23 AM	#12
Gin Uh Fur Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Heterosexual Lesbian Out Status: all the way out. Location: Virginia Age: 24 Posts: 406 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: can you see my gayness? heaven forbid that someone tries to stay positive about being gay. i guess the gay would should just curl up into a ball of emo misery and just mope about how much it sucks.

14th May 2010, 11:31 AM	#15
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: can you see my gayness? I Have had nearly all the Gay in me drilled out of me over the years by many people, so I act very straight, I h8 getting dirty but I have dug a huge hole in my garden (for a pool) built a bar in my garden, when and did electrical work will my step-dad (he owns a electrical company), I am less of a wimp in marshal arts and I can now take quite a bit of pain, plus loads of other stuff to "man me up". so what could have come at as being an early indication of my sexuality was repressed and drilled out and only now am I beginning to know my truth orientation (gay). So I could have been a lot camper if none of that happened, but I like who I am, and Homophobes, Bring it, I will knock you to tomorrow. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

14th May 2010, 12:55 PM	#16
ColdSnap The easily corrupted ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Boy Botherer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: C-diff - Wales Age: 22 Posts: 343 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: can you see my gayness? Well my mother didn't tell me I was gonna die of AIDS, people don't laugh at me and I can have a ceremony to honour a relationship, and adopt. So being gay hasn't really shaped me or given me hardship and is just who that like boys :S

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