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Why are some people obsessed with gays?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RedState, May 21, 2010.

  1. RedState

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    Sometimes I honestly believe the ones that are the most homophobic and constantly talk about "the gays" or "I think he's a queer" or "he's gay" harbor some "gayness" themselves.
    I've got two guys in my office, who have no idea that I'm gay, are obsessed with gays. I swear it's all they talk about...one of them I'd really like to whip his ass just once.
    I finally told one yesterday, "What is your deal? You realize that most people that constantly talk about other people being gay are probably a little bi-curious themselves. Keep that in mind"
    This was in front of a large group of people so that shut that punk for a while.
     
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    probably because it's such a noisy minority, or perhaps it's because we live in such a sex driven culture and anything to do with a different type of sex is so... different.
     
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    My answer for everything.
    - Because people are frakkin annoying.
     
  4. Lady Gaga

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    Because they're jealous.
     
  5. :eusa_clap

    I couldn't agree more.
     
  6. Phoenix

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    Well to be honest, what you said does have a lot of truth in it. Like I just said in another thread those who constantly talk about gay people or feel awkward around them or whatever are either grappling with same-sex attraction themselves or just don't have very high self esteem/self confidence themselves so they need to push all their insecurities and loathing onto others.
     
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    I'm definitely obsessed with gays :wink:
     
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    My boss does it, I think, as a way of testing me. He says radical things against gay and lesbian people to get my ire up and see where my pressure points are. Ugh. I feel like if I am around someone who thinks I'm gay but doesn't know that causes them to obsess over the subject and some do that in a phobia-ish way.
     
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    I think that's some form of harassment last I checked...unless not in Canada, then I dunno......
     
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    My parents say I'm obsessed with gay rights and my gay best friend. I'm not 'obsessed' or obsessed in the homophobic way.
    They just dont know yet.
     
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    Because we're that fucking amazing. Duh. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    me too even before i figured out i was gay. boy on boy ftw. i was never obsessive over lesbians. haha
     
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    gay is kinda like a new fad, being "gay" is in.
    Look at what they are pushing on teens as sexy, thin, feminie looking guys.
     
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    I absolutly LOVE gay men... I just wish they would love me too
     
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    Wow...what a rather peculiar question.

    Thats kind-a a given.
    BECAUSE WE MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND. DUH!

    Think about it. Literature--gay men, made it cut.
    Architecture--gay men, made it grand
    Leadership-- gay men, sailed
    Music--gay men, rock
    Sex--gay men, do it better
    The economy-- gay men, make it
    Fashion--gay men, rule it

    behind everything thats great in this world: there is a flaming gay man behind it
     
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    Agreed.

    Who has two thumbs and loves being gay? This boy!
     
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    Gays are fabulous and that is a fact
     
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    Well, the intelligent answer is that they are insecure in themselves, so they have to push their insecurities onto others. As in, "Well, I'm insecure with myself, so I'm gonna make other people feel like shit just because I do."


    The other reason? We're just fucking awesome. It's a proven fact. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yup.

    We can be as manly or girly as we want, and no body will say anything. We can be ourselves. But if a straight guy wanted to learn how to sew(or anything else that's typically a girl thing) his friends would call him gay. This is why I love being gay. :slight_smile:
     
  20. Swamp56

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    People tend to blame others for problems that are completely unrelated to them. It's a coping mechanism to be able to express anger.