What kind of guys do you find attractive? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 01:40 PM

For me a gay David Archuleta would fit the bill quite nicely.

Perfect skin tone and hypnotizing eyes and he looks to be a nice guy.

What about you all? What kind of guy, based on looks alone, would make you drool?

Shevanel · 21st May 2010, 01:43 PM

A gay David Archuleta? There's a straight one?

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 01:52 PM

From what we 'know' he's straight...

Too bad, haha.

Maybe he has a twin?

Black Cat · 21st May 2010, 01:57 PM

I like all sorts of guys - every size, shape, type, flavor, etc. They're all good in my book.

David is a cutie. And I'd wager money that he plays on our team, or is at the very least bisexual.

Zach1992 · 21st May 2010, 01:57 PM

Thinner slightly femme guys. With a beautiful face.

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 02:16 PM

I'm not sure, at this age we are supposed to have crushes at least but David hasn't been in any reports of having a relationship so Black Cat may be onto something.

SexualTeen, thinner guys aren't my cup of tea but I can think of a few exceptions. Some guys are handsome no matter how much they weigh.

**Owen** · 21st May 2010, 02:27 PM

I have narrowed down five traits that can make me drool over a guy. Here they are, in order of importance.

-Pudge. Yep, I'm a chubby chaser. Though the other four things on this list can make me find a guy cute or handsome, I will not find a guy attractive unless he is fat; that's just the way my sexuality works. I much prefer apple shape to pear shape, and if the fat is centered around the waste and/or face, all the better.

-Long hair. As long as it is well kept, almost any hair that is shoulder-length or longer will make me like a guy. Granted, curly hair and doesn't do as much for me as straight or wavy, and neither do dreadlocks, but aside from that, long hair is great in my book.

-Facial hair. Granted, there are some styles of facial hair that are a definite turn off, but with the exception of stand-alone mustaches and really long beards, most facial hair will make me like a guy more, though full beards in particular will do wonders for me.

-Femininity. I'm not talking about flamboyance here; I'm talking about a guy having features that a girl would usually have (androgyny). It can be anything from his voice to his walk, from his bone structure to his hair, but if dude looks like a lady, dude is mine.

-Glasses. Not sure why; I just love guys with glasses.

Connor22 · 21st May 2010, 02:31 PM

twinky twinky twinks... lol

Zach1992 · 21st May 2010, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Connor22

twinky twinky twinks... lol

That too.

21st May 2010, 02:47 PM

Dont ask why but Emo o.O OMG OMG!!!!!!

my avatar is what I LOVE!!!

Zach1992 · 21st May 2010, 02:56 PM

I have a thing for emo guys too. Youtube is Emo make out heaven.

21st May 2010, 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SexualTeen

I have a thing for emo guys too. Youtube is Emo make out heaven.

Its just amazing! xD

otc877 · 21st May 2010, 03:01 PM

I've been waiting for David Archuleta to come out since I first saw him.

But, I'm attracted to a slightly bigger build (not necessarily fat or muscle, just well built)

Stubble

Tall

Deep Voice

I don't know why, but a backwards baseball hat will make any guy look 10x hotter to me

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gamer am I

I have narrowed down five traits that can make me drool over a guy. Here they are, in order of importance.

-Pudge. Yep, I'm a chubby chaser. Though the other four things on this list can make me find a guy cute or handsome, I will not find a guy attractive unless he is fat; that's just the way my sexuality works. I much prefer apple shape to pear shape, and if the fat is centered around the waste and/or face, all the better.

-Long hair. As long as it is well kept, almost any hair that is shoulder-length or longer will make me like a guy. Granted, curly hair and doesn't do as much for me as straight or wavy, and neither do dreadlocks, but aside from that, long hair is great in my book.

-Facial hair. Granted, there are some styles of facial hair that are a definite turn off, but with the exception of stand-alone mustaches and really long beards, most facial hair will make me like a guy more, though full beards in particular will do wonders for me.

-Femininity. I'm not talking about flamboyance here; I'm talking about a guy having features that a girl would usually have (androgyny). It can be anything from his voice to his walk, from his bone structure to his hair, but if dude looks like a lady, dude is mine.

-Glasses. Not sure why; I just love guys with glasses.

Let's see here. I can only think of three or so traits that I like that David seems to have.

- Personality. There has to be something about a guy I think that would want me to talk to him. Not physically, just spiritually (?). Without that inviting it factor, the guy would lose a few points automatically.

- He has the skin color that I like. And green eyes from what the picture entails. I don't know, he's an all around good looking guy to me and there needs to be duplicates of him that play for our team.

- Facial hair is and is not a big deal to me, I guess it all depends on what the guy looks like. If there isn't hair where it matters then it's a different story altogether. Haha.

Add to that a lean/average build (which he has) and not 100% masculine (+1 for David) and I have a perfect match.

stratavos · 21st May 2010, 03:35 PM

since this is only based on looks... >.>

muscles help (bodybuilder level or lower (not mr. world)), styled & trimmed or facial hair (if there is any), mid length-styled-or short hair, and intense eyes

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 03:38 PM

stratavos,

Mr. World? How much do you have to lift and how little body fat is needed for that?

Taurusguy92 · 21st May 2010, 03:50 PM

I think my avatar speaks for itself

RaRa · 21st May 2010, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by otc877

I don't know why, but a backwards baseball hat will make any guy look 10x hotter to me

I'm with the Black Cat on this one mostly.

But I have to agree with my buddy here that baseball caps make everyone look so much hotter. Spread the hats. <3333

subaru000 · 21st May 2010, 04:06 PM

I'm 50/50 with baseball caps. If it's hiding a receding hair line or a bald spot then it's not a plus for me, although some guys look better with caps on than off. If it's worn to be 'fashionable' and the guy has enough hair on his head for it to look good then its a plus.

Taurusguy92 · 21st May 2010, 04:06 PM

I think I set my standards a bit 2 high with my statement lol

21st May 2010, 01:43 PM	#2
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? A gay David Archuleta? There's a straight one? __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

21st May 2010, 01:52 PM	#3
subaru000 Non ducor, duco. (A Latin quote). Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to my mom, not yet to my brother. Location: On a peninsula near Tampa, Florida, USA. Age: 21 Posts: 248 Join Date: May 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? From what we 'know' he's straight... Too bad, haha. Maybe he has a twin?

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Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I like all sorts of guys - every size, shape, type, flavor, etc. They're all good in my book. David is a cutie. And I'd wager money that he plays on our team, or is at the very least bisexual. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

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Zach1992 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: Out to friends, some family, & those who ask! Location: New York (State, not city) Age: 21 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? Thinner slightly femme guys. With a beautiful face. __________________ "Sex shouldn't be COMFY!!!"- Lola (Kinky Boots)

21st May 2010, 02:16 PM	#6
subaru000 Non ducor, duco. (A Latin quote). Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to my mom, not yet to my brother. Location: On a peninsula near Tampa, Florida, USA. Age: 21 Posts: 248 Join Date: May 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I'm not sure, at this age we are supposed to have crushes at least but David hasn't been in any reports of having a relationship so Black Cat may be onto something. SexualTeen, thinner guys aren't my cup of tea but I can think of a few exceptions. Some guys are handsome no matter how much they weigh.

21st May 2010, 02:27 PM	#7
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I have narrowed down five traits that can make me drool over a guy. Here they are, in order of importance. -Pudge. Yep, I'm a chubby chaser. Though the other four things on this list can make me find a guy cute or handsome, I will not find a guy attractive unless he is fat; that's just the way my sexuality works. I much prefer apple shape to pear shape, and if the fat is centered around the waste and/or face, all the better. -Long hair. As long as it is well kept, almost any hair that is shoulder-length or longer will make me like a guy. Granted, curly hair and doesn't do as much for me as straight or wavy, and neither do dreadlocks, but aside from that, long hair is great in my book. -Facial hair. Granted, there are some styles of facial hair that are a definite turn off, but with the exception of stand-alone mustaches and really long beards, most facial hair will make me like a guy more, though full beards in particular will do wonders for me. -Femininity. I'm not talking about flamboyance here; I'm talking about a guy having features that a girl would usually have (androgyny). It can be anything from his voice to his walk, from his bone structure to his hair, but if dude looks like a lady, dude is mine. -Glasses. Not sure why; I just love guys with glasses. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

21st May 2010, 02:31 PM	#8
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? twinky twinky twinks... lol __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

21st May 2010, 02:47 PM	#10
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? Dont ask why but Emo o.O OMG OMG!!!!!! my avatar is what I LOVE!!!

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Zach1992 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: Out to friends, some family, & those who ask! Location: New York (State, not city) Age: 21 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I have a thing for emo guys too. Youtube is Emo make out heaven. __________________ "Sex shouldn't be COMFY!!!"- Lola (Kinky Boots)

21st May 2010, 03:01 PM	#13
otc877 ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most friends know Location: L.A. Outskirts Age: 22 Posts: 790 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I've been waiting for David Archuleta to come out since I first saw him. But, I'm attracted to a slightly bigger build (not necessarily fat or muscle, just well built) Stubble Tall Deep Voice I don't know why, but a backwards baseball hat will make any guy look 10x hotter to me

21st May 2010, 03:35 PM	#15
stratavos professional lurker Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: bisexual prefering males Out Status: don't ask don't tell (ask and I'll tell) Location: oakville(college) and oshawa(hometown) ont, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? since this is only based on looks... >.> muscles help (bodybuilder level or lower (not mr. world)), styled & trimmed or facial hair (if there is any), mid length-styled-or short hair, and intense eyes __________________ <-is a very bad influence... and definately enjoys it hail lord ilpallazzo!

21st May 2010, 03:38 PM	#16
subaru000 Non ducor, duco. (A Latin quote). Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to my mom, not yet to my brother. Location: On a peninsula near Tampa, Florida, USA. Age: 21 Posts: 248 Join Date: May 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? stratavos, Mr. World? How much do you have to lift and how little body fat is needed for that?

21st May 2010, 03:50 PM	#17
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21st May 2010, 04:06 PM	#19
subaru000 Non ducor, duco. (A Latin quote). Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to my mom, not yet to my brother. Location: On a peninsula near Tampa, Florida, USA. Age: 21 Posts: 248 Join Date: May 2010	Re: What kind of guys do you find attractive? I'm 50/50 with baseball caps. If it's hiding a receding hair line or a bald spot then it's not a plus for me, although some guys look better with caps on than off. If it's worn to be 'fashionable' and the guy has enough hair on his head for it to look good then its a plus.

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