I really want a boyfriend.

aaaaaah, why can't I get a boyfriend?, I really want one. Were do I look? Why does nobody fancy me? I want somebody to love. I am really horny. Why does life have to be such a bitch? Why can't I get a job? Why do I Have no money? Why am I pathetic? Why am I lazy? Who the fuck made me gay? Why are boyfriends in such short supplies? Who's idea was it to make homophobia? I am so wound up like I am going to blow. Why the fuck am I asking this questions? Am I going Insane? aaaaaaaaaah

 

Yes.

Take a deep breath.

Probably because you're looking for one (Murphy's Law).

Check if there are any LGBT groups in your area. Make friends. Let people know you're single and looking. Friends introduce you to other friends. The more connections you have the more likely you are going to find someone with similar tastes, and a mutual attraction.

False.

The two should be mutually exclusive.

Because she's related to Karma.

Because you aren't looking hard enough.

Because you don't have a job.

False.

Because you haven't set any goals for yourself and have no motivation.

The first guy you ever fantasized about.

They're not.

Fear's.

"I am so wound up"

 

^skill

 

<3

 

Wait until your 18 and go to the big city and start looking for guys

 

haha you're not alone, i regularly ask myself all those questions.

 

^Ditto to spectre. I'm in the same boat. I want a guy to hug and kiss and hold alllllll the time. I want it really really really badly too. Sounds amazing. But one thing I remember about that stuff is that you gotta be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with someone else.

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Man I really want my first kiss with a guy. I hear it's awesome

 

I guess life will always be filled with some problem or another. I would probably suggest that you just take a breather and be patient for awhile.

You'd probably have one in the next 5-10 years? I wouldn't even be too surprised if you started complaining about relationships and how you really prefer to be single years from now.

And I guess try not to blame yourself for it... it's probably more to do with external circumstances than it has anything to do with you...

"Life is always filled with some kind of predicament; all we can do is to embrace it and lament: 'such is life'."

 

Take a deep breath and try to calm down. The more you try to overload yourself with questions, the more upset you are going to get. Also remember that you are not pathetic or insane.

In terms of a relationship, it will happen when it happens. Trying to force yourself to find someone you like is probably not the best thing to do.

 

dude, were the same age and have the same exact questions, but i already got some answers for mine...
all i will tell you is that it takes patience and one day you'll find the answers to those questions when you least expect them

 

Don't rush it or you'll regret it.

 

oh god... my unconciouse mind is horny.

I dreamed I was on a trip to greece, and met a fellow tourist who was really sweet, and good looking, not like super model, but he was not painful on the eyes. he was simply a person with a good personality, nice, and mildly attractive. we hit it off, and next second, we are making out, and he is running his hand up my chest under my shirt, and then I woke up.

Is my sleeping mind trying to send me a message?

 

yes. Go to Greece.

 

I almost went in march, but the money fell out for that trip.

I think my mind wants me to put myself out there and date.

 

well if I met a guy like you I would run in the opposite direction as guys that are that desperate are a real turn off. Sorry if that offends.

 

West Midlands- Birmingham this weekend is gay pride?

 

I used to be the same way. When my ex bf broke up with me i felt so alone and I wanted another bf so bad if my ex wouldn't take me back. It took me a whole year to find my new bf and now I'm glad I waited. He is the best person ever! I found him on a gay site which i forget the name to. Maybe hotguys.com or something. I also was on ############.com and matched.com, and even tried to meet a girl if possible to(which was a total fail) Just do your best to make yourself out there. Goto gay clubs, websites, and just goto parties and maybe you will find your special someone.

 

God. I could have written this. I feel for my business partners 19 year old son (I'm 34) and it just didn't work out. I still love him .. and still feel deep sadness every single day. Such a loving, sweet guy. Absolutely perfect. I wish he felt the same about me.

 

yes, I feel your pain...
I really want a girlfriend

 

Same questions and answers that keep going through my head.