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British Lad · 14th Jun 2010, 02:26 AM

If you could choose your Orientation which would you choose?
Because me I would choose Bi/Pans so I have a large pool and I would be able to have anybody.

14th Jun 2010, 02:39 AM

I would stay they way I am, honestly. It might be hard for others to accept, but I like it. It feels right. I literally cannot imagine being attracted to the opposite sex. I know that billions of people probably hate me for it, but I'm truly happy about being gay. I wouldn't change it. The struggle of it builds character, I think. Plus it helped me find you guys!

14th Jun 2010, 02:50 AM

gay as I have tried for so long being someone who I was not which was straight.

Possibly Maybe · 14th Jun 2010, 02:54 AM

Anything with less heartache

partietraumatic · 14th Jun 2010, 04:07 AM

straight. Not to say im not happy as i am, im very happy. But it would make things alot easier

otc877 · 14th Jun 2010, 04:08 AM

While it would be a lot easier, I'm finally comfortable with myself. I'd stay the same.

**Maddy** · 14th Jun 2010, 05:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by British Lad

If you could choose your Orientation which would you choose?
Because me I would choose Bi/Pans so I have a large pool and I would be able to have anybody.

Except the straight guys/gay girls. And the depressingly large number of people who won't date someone who's bi. And the people you're just not compatible with.
Personally, I wouldn't choose to be anything. I'd just let it be.

Davy · 14th Jun 2010, 06:07 AM

If you asked me that for the first 24 years of my life then i would say straight. Just to be what i thought was "normal" and to fit in. Now the answer is Gay, now i have given me a chance to get to know the real me, I like who i am and changing my sexuality would make me a different and in my opinion more boring person.

14th Jun 2010, 06:08 AM

I am who I am. I like a little challenge in life. (If you call it one.)

Shevanel · 14th Jun 2010, 06:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maddy

Quote:

Originally Posted by British Lad

If you could choose your Orientation which would you choose?
Because me I would choose Bi/Pans so I have a large pool and I would be able to have anybody.

Except the straight guys/gay girls. And the depressingly large number of people who won't date someone who's bi. And the people you're just not compatible with.
Personally, I wouldn't choose to be anything. I'd just let it be.

Exactly. Changing sexuality means changing the person you know as yourself.

British Lad · 14th Jun 2010, 06:40 AM

I meant from there start and you stay the same but your orientation changes and that's the only thing. And when I sayed anybody I meant people who are not straight guys or gay girls, 4/6 aint bad theoretical.

booby · 14th Jun 2010, 07:57 AM

i would like to be straight (not that i dont love dick) .. it would be better for my family (who i havent come out to yet) if i was 'normal' and not cursed,sick or disgusting

but i cant so im embracing who i am

Z3ni · 14th Jun 2010, 08:01 AM

Well..... I'd like to have a taste of what its like being straight... but then again thats.. boring so...

Steve712 · 14th Jun 2010, 08:15 AM

I would stay gay, thank you very much. There are many more men who need my appreciation via masturbatory fantasies and awkward staring who haven't yet received it. ^_^

14th Jun 2010, 05:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Davy

If you asked me that for the first 24 years of my life then i would say straight. Just to be what i thought was "normal" and to fit in. Now the answer is Gay, now i have given me a chance to get to know the real me, I like who i am and changing my sexuality would make me a different and in my opinion more boring person.

same answer

14th Jun 2010, 05:51 PM

Straight. This isn't to say that I'm 100% sure that I'm not straight already...(darn you, confusing thoughts. >.>)...but regardless of the end result of my journey of self-discovery, I can't see myself living as anything but straight anyway. (Sad perhaps, but true).

**Meropspusillus** · 14th Jun 2010, 06:02 PM

I'd like to be straight, and while I'm changing the essence of who I am, I'd like to be an English major, Christian moderate.

>_>

jazzrawr · 14th Jun 2010, 06:07 PM

I like being a big ol' lezzie. I'll stay the way I am, thanks. ^_^

ok455 · 14th Jun 2010, 09:52 PM

I picked being gay it has its ups and downs but i think its far more interesting and exciting then the straight life. The straight life is too boring and robotic imo, I'm not a fan of having kids and a wife and driving the mini van to target and to soccer practice and living in suburbia.

14th Jun 2010, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ok455

I picked being gay it has its ups and downs but i think its far more interesting and exciting then the straight life. The straight life is too boring and robotic imo, I'm not a fan of having kids and a wife and driving the mini van to target and to soccer practice and living in suburbia.

That's exactly what i think of the straight life too, i would hate if my life turned into that.

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14th Jun 2010, 02:26 AM	#1
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	If you could choose? If you could choose your Orientation which would you choose? Because me I would choose Bi/Pans so I have a large pool and I would be able to have anybody. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

14th Jun 2010, 02:39 AM	#2
AlexPatrickMorrissey Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could choose? I would stay they way I am, honestly. It might be hard for others to accept, but I like it. It feels right. I literally cannot imagine being attracted to the opposite sex. I know that billions of people probably hate me for it, but I'm truly happy about being gay. I wouldn't change it. The struggle of it builds character, I think. Plus it helped me find you guys!

14th Jun 2010, 02:50 AM	#3
dude99 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could choose? gay as I have tried for so long being someone who I was not which was straight.

14th Jun 2010, 02:54 AM	#4
Possibly Maybe EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Location: Europe Age: 26 Posts: 1,658 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: If you could choose? Anything with less heartache __________________ Member of the Royal Society of Putting Things on Top of Other Things

14th Jun 2010, 04:07 AM	#5
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: If you could choose? straight. Not to say im not happy as i am, im very happy. But it would make things alot easier __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

14th Jun 2010, 04:08 AM	#6
otc877 ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most friends know Location: L.A. Outskirts Age: 22 Posts: 790 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: If you could choose? While it would be a lot easier, I'm finally comfortable with myself. I'd stay the same.

14th Jun 2010, 06:07 AM	#8
Davy I like panda's! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Scotland (That's the bit with hills & rain) Posts: 414 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: If you could choose? If you asked me that for the first 24 years of my life then i would say straight. Just to be what i thought was "normal" and to fit in. Now the answer is Gay, now i have given me a chance to get to know the real me, I like who i am and changing my sexuality would make me a different and in my opinion more boring person.

14th Jun 2010, 06:08 AM	#9
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could choose? I am who I am. I like a little challenge in life. (If you call it one.)

14th Jun 2010, 06:40 AM	#11
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: If you could choose? I meant from there start and you stay the same but your orientation changes and that's the only thing. And when I sayed anybody I meant people who are not straight guys or gay girls, 4/6 aint bad theoretical. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

14th Jun 2010, 07:57 AM	#12
booby wonderful cuz i am )': Regular Member Gender: boy Orientation: so gay i pee glitter! Out Status: some ppl :) Location: Palestinian living in Saudi Arabia Age: 16 Posts: 160 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: If you could choose? i would like to be straight (not that i dont love dick) .. it would be better for my family (who i havent come out to yet) if i was 'normal' and not cursed,sick or disgusting but i cant so im embracing who i am

14th Jun 2010, 08:01 AM	#13
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: If you could choose? Well..... I'd like to have a taste of what its like being straight... but then again thats.. boring so... __________________ Through pain, lies success.

14th Jun 2010, 08:15 AM	#14
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,292 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: If you could choose? I would stay gay, thank you very much. There are many more men who need my appreciation via masturbatory fantasies and awkward staring who haven't yet received it. ^_^ __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

14th Jun 2010, 05:51 PM	#16
Nialla Guest Posts: n/a	Re: If you could choose? Straight. This isn't to say that I'm 100% sure that I'm not straight already...(darn you, confusing thoughts. >.>)...but regardless of the end result of my journey of self-discovery, I can't see myself living as anything but straight anyway. (Sad perhaps, but true).

14th Jun 2010, 06:02 PM	#17
Meropspusillus RAWR DINOSAURS EC Chat Mod Gender: I make the small motile sex cells. Orientation: I like people who make small motile sex cells. Out Status: CHIRP CHIRP CHIRP Location: Indiana or New Mexico. Who knows? Age: 22 Posts: 895 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: If you could choose? I'd like to be straight, and while I'm changing the essence of who I am, I'd like to be an English major, Christian moderate. >_> __________________ (Insert witty signature here)

14th Jun 2010, 06:07 PM	#18
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: If you could choose? I like being a big ol' lezzie. I'll stay the way I am, thanks. ^_^ __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

14th Jun 2010, 09:52 PM	#19
ok455 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 437 Join Date: May 2005	Re: If you could choose? I picked being gay it has its ups and downs but i think its far more interesting and exciting then the straight life. The straight life is too boring and robotic imo, I'm not a fan of having kids and a wife and driving the mini van to target and to soccer practice and living in suburbia. __________________ http://209.50.252.116/smile.gif

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