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hairdye · 15th Jun 2010, 11:55 AM

So today I'm taking my boyfriend on what I believe to be a very cute date.
Last couple weeks we've been meeting one another's friends and families and we haven't had us time and i felt like were both getting tired of it. So the other night at midnight, i drove to his place in the middle of the night and left him a note that said:

Dear Mikey,
Despite how much fun meeting each others loved ones the last couple weeks, I feel like we're both kind of worn out. I miss it being just you and me. So next week I'm taking you on an awesome date, me and you, just us two.

Love, Stevie.

He loved it. Now I hope he loves the date more. Cause he has no idea what we're doing.

I made little card hints for each part of the date to, eluding to what it could be. With cute quotes.

#1 Roses

"Have you ever watched a rose as it fades away; the color becomes deeper as the petals dry. That's how my love for you deepens as the days go by."

First, I'm taking him to a Rose Garden (He loves flowers and gardening.) I've packed a picnic basket with some dried fruit and sparkling pink lemonade from Trader Joes. (His fav)

Mix CD track : Bette Midler - The Rose

#2 La Boheme

"Je t'aime" (i love you)

Dinner at a fancy french inspired moulin rougey resuraunt. Yelp gives it 5 stars.

Mix Cd Track: Moulin Rouge -Come what may.

#3 Stars.

"We were written in the stars, my love,
all that separated us, was time,
the time it took to read the map which was placed within our hearts,
to find our way back to one another."

Taking him to the planetarium to sit on the roof top and cuddle under the stars. Bringing a blanket.

Mix Cd track: Written in the Stars - Westlife

So cute? Any other ideas?

Steve712 · 15th Jun 2010, 12:03 PM

Awwwww! That's very cute! That put an awfully large smile on my face and I'm not even going on the date. I can imagine that he'll absolutely love it.

How about a nice, long walk in the evening after the food? That'll make the relaxing cuddle even better if you exercise a bit first. :P

malachite · 15th Jun 2010, 12:10 PM

you sir are the greatest boyfriend ever. If we're lucky we'll meet a guy like you someday.

Connor22 · 15th Jun 2010, 12:15 PM

Mikey and stevie sitting in a tree K I S S I N G

now I'm all jealous lol not really have fun you two, and you guys should go on a walk in a park or something at night nad sit on the grrass and watch the sars.

Katherine · 15th Jun 2010, 12:16 PM

That's adorable. I wish my girlfriend would do something like that someday. xD Seriously, though, I can't imagine anyone not loving a date like that.

15th Jun 2010, 12:48 PM

Don't overeat! I mean, you plan on a picnic and then a fancy restaurant? Maybe cut down on the foodstuffs. But other than that, I like it. Very romantic.

15th Jun 2010, 12:53 PM

That is a great idea for a date. I can't really give many suggestions, cause the date sounds perfect the way it is.

hairdye · 15th Jun 2010, 12:59 PM

thanks guys, i'm super stoaked to see his face. :]
Off to shower now and make myself handsome! I'll post after!

partietraumatic · 15th Jun 2010, 06:54 PM

well... admittedly i am a soppy romantic, but that sounds amazing to me.

Jealous

beckyg · 15th Jun 2010, 07:07 PM

Very sweet! Why can't straight guys be that romantic? lol

Echidna1 · 15th Jun 2010, 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by malachite

you sir are the greatest boyfriend ever. If we're lucky we'll meet a guy like you someday.

^ This

VentinIntrovert · 15th Jun 2010, 07:18 PM

wow... how did you come up with something like that, it's amazing. Maybe if I get lucky one day, i'll get the same experience...

hairdye · 15th Jun 2010, 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VentinIntrovert

wow... how did you come up with something like that, it's amazing. Maybe if I get lucky one day, i'll get the same experience...

idk things like this just come to me haha.
He loved every minute of it. From the cards to the garden. The dinner was DELICIOUS. and the Observatory was amazingly fun and romantic.

it was 10 times better than i even thought. I'm sooo in love.

15th Jun 2010, 11:49 PM

hope ya have fun. you clearly have thought about it and put in effort and im sure he will be more than happy.

Beachboi92 · 15th Jun 2010, 11:56 PM

the cuteness and awesomeness of this is so great i want to vomit xD that is sooooo sweet he is lucky to have such a ridiculously awesome and romantic Bf

British Lad · 16th Jun 2010, 05:32 AM

If you carry on like that you are going to be very happy and that is just cute.
At the minute I am single and grumpy coz I aint got a BF and I like being grumpy (god i sound like 80 year old that has been marryed for 50 years and can not wait for his wife to die). I be happy and enjoy it when I find a Bf and try and be as romatic as you.

16th Jun 2010, 05:39 AM

Aww thats sweet!

Its something along the likes of what I would do too.

Your BF is one lucky lucky boy!

malachite · 16th Jun 2010, 08:28 AM

glad everything went well,

AnneChaos · 16th Jun 2010, 08:48 AM

that's sooooo cute! ^^ I would love if someone did the same to me, really lucky bf!

and good thing it went well ^^

15th Jun 2010, 12:15 PM	#4
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: Cute date? Mikey and stevie sitting in a tree K I S S I N G now I'm all jealous lol not really have fun you two, and you guys should go on a walk in a park or something at night nad sit on the grrass and watch the sars. __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

15th Jun 2010, 12:16 PM	#5
Katherine Professional Cuddler Full Member Gender: 75% female Orientation: 110% gay Out Status: 98% out Location: The land of rednecks and pine trees (Georgia) Age: 19 Posts: 1,745 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Cute date? That's adorable. I wish my girlfriend would do something like that someday. xD Seriously, though, I can't imagine anyone not loving a date like that. __________________ Overly emotional five-foot-tall vegetarian gamer girl who procrastinates way too much. Loves food, art, cats, and making people smile.

15th Jun 2010, 12:48 PM	#6
Numfarh Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Cute date? Don't overeat! I mean, you plan on a picnic and then a fancy restaurant? Maybe cut down on the foodstuffs. But other than that, I like it. Very romantic.

15th Jun 2010, 12:53 PM	#7
Allistair Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Cute date? That is a great idea for a date. I can't really give many suggestions, cause the date sounds perfect the way it is.

15th Jun 2010, 12:59 PM	#8
hairdye ec's coffee addict Full Member Gender: I'm a dude. Orientation: I like guys. Out Status: everybody knows. Location: Orange County, CA Age: 22 Posts: 247 Join Date: Apr 2007	Re: Cute date? thanks guys, i'm super stoaked to see his face. :] Off to shower now and make myself handsome! I'll post after! __________________

15th Jun 2010, 11:55 AM	#1
hairdye ec's coffee addict Full Member Gender: I'm a dude. Orientation: I like guys. Out Status: everybody knows. Location: Orange County, CA Age: 22 Posts: 247 Join Date: Apr 2007	Cute date? So today I'm taking my boyfriend on what I believe to be a very cute date. Last couple weeks we've been meeting one another's friends and families and we haven't had us time and i felt like were both getting tired of it. So the other night at midnight, i drove to his place in the middle of the night and left him a note that said: Dear Mikey, Despite how much fun meeting each others loved ones the last couple weeks, I feel like we're both kind of worn out. I miss it being just you and me. So next week I'm taking you on an awesome date, me and you, just us two. Love, Stevie. He loved it. Now I hope he loves the date more. Cause he has no idea what we're doing. I made little card hints for each part of the date to, eluding to what it could be. With cute quotes. #1 Roses "Have you ever watched a rose as it fades away; the color becomes deeper as the petals dry. That's how my love for you deepens as the days go by." First, I'm taking him to a Rose Garden (He loves flowers and gardening.) I've packed a picnic basket with some dried fruit and sparkling pink lemonade from Trader Joes. (His fav) Mix CD track : Bette Midler - The Rose #2 La Boheme "Je t'aime" (i love you) Dinner at a fancy french inspired moulin rougey resuraunt. Yelp gives it 5 stars. Mix Cd Track: Moulin Rouge -Come what may. #3 Stars. "We were written in the stars, my love, all that separated us, was time, the time it took to read the map which was placed within our hearts, to find our way back to one another." Taking him to the planetarium to sit on the roof top and cuddle under the stars. Bringing a blanket. Mix Cd track: Written in the Stars - Westlife So cute? Any other ideas? __________________

15th Jun 2010, 12:03 PM	#2
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,292 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: Cute date? Awwwww! That's very cute! That put an awfully large smile on my face and I'm not even going on the date. I can imagine that he'll absolutely love it. How about a nice, long walk in the evening after the food? That'll make the relaxing cuddle even better if you exercise a bit first. :P __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

15th Jun 2010, 12:10 PM	#3
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Cute date? you sir are the greatest boyfriend ever. If we're lucky we'll meet a guy like you someday. __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

15th Jun 2010, 06:54 PM	#9
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Cute date? well... admittedly i am a soppy romantic, but that sounds amazing to me. Jealous __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

15th Jun 2010, 07:07 PM	#10
beckyg PFLAG Mom Community Liaison Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: Cute date? Very sweet! Why can't straight guys be that romantic? lol __________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks

15th Jun 2010, 07:18 PM	#12
VentinIntrovert Venting Introvert Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 24 Posts: 163 Join Date: May 2010	Re: Cute date? wow... how did you come up with something like that, it's amazing. Maybe if I get lucky one day, i'll get the same experience...

15th Jun 2010, 11:49 PM	#14
gaz83 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Cute date? hope ya have fun. you clearly have thought about it and put in effort and im sure he will be more than happy.

15th Jun 2010, 11:56 PM	#15
Beachboi92 Occasionally Caddy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: Cute date? the cuteness and awesomeness of this is so great i want to vomit xD that is sooooo sweet he is lucky to have such a ridiculously awesome and romantic Bf __________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe

16th Jun 2010, 05:32 AM	#16
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: Cute date? If you carry on like that you are going to be very happy and that is just cute. At the minute I am single and grumpy coz I aint got a BF and I like being grumpy (god i sound like 80 year old that has been marryed for 50 years and can not wait for his wife to die). I be happy and enjoy it when I find a Bf and try and be as romatic as you. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

16th Jun 2010, 05:39 AM	#17
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Cute date? Aww thats sweet! Its something along the likes of what I would do too. Your BF is one lucky lucky boy!

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AnneChaos __ Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: just sexual ;) Out Status: I like to randomly tell my friends :) Location: Lisbon Age: 16 Posts: 264 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: Cute date? that's sooooo cute! ^^ I would love if someone did the same to me, really lucky bf! and good thing it went well ^^