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British Lad · 28th Jun 2010, 06:04 AM

well would you? I would. Because some people would not.

**Maddy** · 28th Jun 2010, 06:05 AM

28th Jun 2010, 06:08 AM

Most definitely

28th Jun 2010, 06:11 AM

Never crossed my mind. If they are interested in me and im interested in them what does it matter.

Tim · 28th Jun 2010, 06:11 AM

Though I used to say no, it's definitely a yes now.

No, I'd rather not explain why it was a no before. :3 Joey would probably go all lecturey on me. >_> (Among other members, as well, xD)

fragomatrick · 28th Jun 2010, 06:22 AM

For that , I need to know whether or not I am bisexual !!!!! Life is becoming more fun by the day ! yahhhhhhhhhhhhhhoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

**Eric** · 28th Jun 2010, 06:24 AM

Absolutely. I don't see a problem with it as long as, like Jiggles said, I'm into him and he's into me.

Pepsi · 28th Jun 2010, 06:30 AM

why in the world would I not date a bisexual? They're are fascinating and as far as I can tell more evolved then me :P seems like a step up

28th Jun 2010, 09:22 AM

If the feeling's mutual, why would I not do anything about it?

**Victor** · 28th Jun 2010, 09:27 AM

Hell yeah. Why not?

28th Jun 2010, 09:32 AM

Some of the coolest people i know are bisexual so i woulden't mind dating them.

Swamp56 · 28th Jun 2010, 09:32 AM

Why wouldn't I?

jazzrawr · 28th Jun 2010, 09:33 AM

I'm not opposed to it.
I've had a bisexual girl cheat on me for a guy, but before I get lectured, I know not every bisexual is like that. XD
As long as she seemed genuine, I would.

Davy · 28th Jun 2010, 09:44 AM

Of course, don't understand why not?

Katherine · 28th Jun 2010, 10:05 AM

I would.

The girl I'm currently dating doesn't label herself. She told me, "I don't call myself a lesbian because I think I might like guys. If people want to call me bisexual, then they can feel free to do that, but I don't think it matters. I'm perfectly happy with you, so I'm not really in any rush to figure it out."

silverhalo · 28th Jun 2010, 10:10 AM

Absolutely obviously not at the same time as my current girlfriend but otherwise no reason why not.

Emberstone · 28th Jun 2010, 10:13 AM

I choose maybe. The only reason is that I know I would not be able to fulfil all of a persons, lets just say, interests.

It would depend on the person.

28th Jun 2010, 10:46 AM

Sure. :3

pteen · 28th Jun 2010, 10:48 AM

Yah totally if i like them they like me then i don't see why not.

Étoile · 28th Jun 2010, 10:53 AM

I picked maybe also.

I would date someone who's bisexual, but I'd be intimidated by his attraction to girls. I know it's wrong to think they'll cheat on you or won't be satisfied with you, but the thought would be in the back of my mind.

Still, I'd put that thought away and date him anyway. If we like each other, why not?

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28th Jun 2010, 06:04 AM	#1
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only well would you? I would. Because some people would not. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron. Last edited by British Lad; 28th Jun 2010 at 06:08 AM..

28th Jun 2010, 06:05 AM	#2
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Yep. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

28th Jun 2010, 06:08 AM	#3
RiotPoofBrandon Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Most definitely

28th Jun 2010, 06:11 AM	#4
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Never crossed my mind. If they are interested in me and im interested in them what does it matter.

28th Jun 2010, 06:11 AM	#5
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Though I used to say no, it's definitely a yes now. No, I'd rather not explain why it was a no before. :3 Joey would probably go all lecturey on me. >_> (Among other members, as well, xD) __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

28th Jun 2010, 06:22 AM	#6
fragomatrick Perpetually Bored! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 732 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only For that , I need to know whether or not I am bisexual !!!!! Life is becoming more fun by the day ! yahhhhhhhhhhhhhhoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo __________________ The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch

28th Jun 2010, 06:24 AM	#7
Eric EC Chat Room Mod EC Chat Mod Gender: Male Orientation: Gayyy Out Status: Open about it. Location: Ontario Age: 18 Posts: 1,374 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Absolutely. I don't see a problem with it as long as, like Jiggles said, I'm into him and he's into me.

28th Jun 2010, 06:30 AM	#8
Pepsi R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only why in the world would I not date a bisexual? They're are fascinating and as far as I can tell more evolved then me :P seems like a step up __________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA

28th Jun 2010, 09:22 AM	#9
Khobra Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only If the feeling's mutual, why would I not do anything about it?

28th Jun 2010, 09:27 AM	#10
Victor Moo EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty damn out Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,972 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Hell yeah. Why not? __________________

28th Jun 2010, 09:32 AM	#11
Allistair Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Some of the coolest people i know are bisexual so i woulden't mind dating them.

28th Jun 2010, 09:32 AM	#12
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Why wouldn't I? __________________

28th Jun 2010, 09:33 AM	#13
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only I'm not opposed to it. I've had a bisexual girl cheat on me for a guy, but before I get lectured, I know not every bisexual is like that. XD As long as she seemed genuine, I would. __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

28th Jun 2010, 09:44 AM	#14
Davy I like panda's! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Scotland (That's the bit with hills & rain) Posts: 414 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Of course, don't understand why not? __________________ Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands? Ernest Gaines

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28th Jun 2010, 10:05 AM	#15
Katherine Professional Cuddler Full Member Gender: 75% female Orientation: 110% gay Out Status: 98% out Location: The land of rednecks and pine trees (Georgia) Age: 19 Posts: 1,745 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only I would. The girl I'm currently dating doesn't label herself. She told me, "I don't call myself a lesbian because I think I might like guys. If people want to call me bisexual, then they can feel free to do that, but I don't think it matters. I'm perfectly happy with you, so I'm not really in any rush to figure it out." __________________ Overly emotional five-foot-tall vegetarian gamer girl who procrastinates way too much. Loves food, art, cats, and making people smile.

28th Jun 2010, 10:10 AM	#16
silverhalo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,160 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Absolutely obviously not at the same time as my current girlfriend but otherwise no reason why not.

28th Jun 2010, 10:13 AM	#17
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,591 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only I choose maybe. The only reason is that I know I would not be able to fulfil all of a persons, lets just say, interests. It would depend on the person.

28th Jun 2010, 10:46 AM	#18
Lady Gaga Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Sure. :3

28th Jun 2010, 10:48 AM	#19
pteen Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: AZ/SC Posts: 206 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only Yah totally if i like them they like me then i don't see why not. __________________ "...Keep moving foward!"

28th Jun 2010, 10:53 AM	#20
Étoile He ate my heart Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Would you date a bisexual? (gay/lez)only I picked maybe also. I would date someone who's bisexual, but I'd be intimidated by his attraction to girls. I know it's wrong to think they'll cheat on you or won't be satisfied with you, but the thought would be in the back of my mind. Still, I'd put that thought away and date him anyway. If we like each other, why not? __________________ "I love that lavender blonde; the way she moves, the way she walks, I touch myself, can't get enough."