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British Lad · 30th Jun 2010, 12:32 PM

When you shag what position do you normality take?

Black Cat · 30th Jun 2010, 12:36 PM

Never having done either of them, I feel sort of out of place in voting. But I think that I'd like to give them both a shot, so I voted for that.

Hoppip · 30th Jun 2010, 12:48 PM

I guess I would say top since when I vacuum my shag carpet I'm on top of it.

30th Jun 2010, 12:55 PM

Sorry but I love the word choice used in the question.

theJosephDean · 30th Jun 2010, 12:59 PM

Not applicable at the moment :P It will be a long time before I'm comfortable enough in a relationship to take that step, in whatever fashion.

Zach1992 · 30th Jun 2010, 01:06 PM

Not applicable for me either, but bottoming is the most appealing. I would do both though...

partietraumatic · 30th Jun 2010, 01:06 PM

not gonna lie, neither particularly light my fire

theJosephDean · 30th Jun 2010, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by partietraumatic

not gonna lie, neither particularly light my fire

This as well :P

Sex isn't always about penetration, it's about the experience as a whole. The sensation of being with someone on that level, really. :3

malachite · 30th Jun 2010, 01:09 PM

usually its one on top til climax then switch repeat

Shevanel · 30th Jun 2010, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by partietraumatic

not gonna lie, neither particularly light my fire

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I agree.

kettleoffish · 30th Jun 2010, 01:12 PM

I've only ever topped, but that's because I've only had sex with one guy and he was really into bottoming. I'd like to try bottoming.

partietraumatic · 30th Jun 2010, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Shevanel

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Originally Posted by partietraumatic

not gonna lie, neither particularly light my fire

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I agree.

i was humming that to myself when i wrote my post

30th Jun 2010, 01:18 PM

Right for my serious post.

I have done both, and dont prefer one over another really. What ever the guy im with is wanting or such is what i will do.

4 seat · 30th Jun 2010, 01:42 PM

Never been there. I think I'd prob be the top, cuz I check out guys' butts pretty often. But if I really cared about the guy, I'm sure I would at least try being on the bottom. It doesn't sound very pleasant though. Ha.

Rikudo · 30th Jun 2010, 01:45 PM

Never been with a guy. I'd have to say that it would all have to depend on my mood and my partner. I guess I'll just go with the flow.

Pepsi · 30th Jun 2010, 01:49 PM

Well I've never had sex at all so I guess I can't really vote but I will say that my desire to bottom is much stronger then my non-existent desire to top so, if I were to vote I would put that I guess but again I haven't had sex so I can't really vote.

IsItSo · 30th Jun 2010, 01:49 PM

I'm a virgin but I've never imagined myself on top.

British Lad · 30th Jun 2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by IsItSo

I'm a virgin but I've never imagined myself on top.

Same, I have an erge to be shaged,
And the wording was so people know what I mean but In a non rudeish way

**Eric** · 30th Jun 2010, 05:20 PM

I'd try both, but it would depend on who I'm with.

SolitaryKnight · 30th Jun 2010, 05:22 PM

I'll let you know when I shag someone, or when I've been shagged.

View Poll Results: What is your Normal Shag possession
Top	5	18.52%
Bottom	8	29.63%
Equal top and bottom	14	51.85%
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30th Jun 2010, 12:32 PM	#1
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	One for the guys(question) When you shag what position do you normality take? __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

30th Jun 2010, 12:36 PM	#2
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) Never having done either of them, I feel sort of out of place in voting. But I think that I'd like to give them both a shot, so I voted for that. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

30th Jun 2010, 12:48 PM	#3
Hoppip look at the good i do Full Member Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008	Re: One for the guys(question) I guess I would say top since when I vacuum my shag carpet I'm on top of it. __________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant.

30th Jun 2010, 12:55 PM	#4
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: One for the guys(question) Sorry but I love the word choice used in the question.

30th Jun 2010, 12:59 PM	#5
theJosephDean Nothing but the rain. Full Member Gender: 男 Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 Out Status: Om nom nom. Location: Johnson City, TN Age: 20 Posts: 1,633 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: One for the guys(question) Not applicable at the moment :P It will be a long time before I'm comfortable enough in a relationship to take that step, in whatever fashion. __________________ Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn.

30th Jun 2010, 01:06 PM	#6
Zach1992 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: Out to friends, some family, & those who ask! Location: New York (State, not city) Age: 21 Posts: 1,171 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: One for the guys(question) Not applicable for me either, but bottoming is the most appealing. I would do both though... __________________ "Sex shouldn't be COMFY!!!"- Lola (Kinky Boots)

30th Jun 2010, 01:06 PM	#7
partietraumatic A gay heteropolitan? Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Enough for now Location: Oxford and Birmingham, UK Age: 20 Posts: 1,300 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: One for the guys(question) not gonna lie, neither particularly light my fire __________________ 'Im not your toy and this isn't another girl meets boy'

30th Jun 2010, 01:09 PM	#9
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) usually its one on top til climax then switch repeat __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

30th Jun 2010, 01:12 PM	#11
kettleoffish new avatar time! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but parents.. for now. Location: Scotland Age: 18 Posts: 1,045 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) I've only ever topped, but that's because I've only had sex with one guy and he was really into bottoming. I'd like to try bottoming. __________________ ~~There is no way to peace; peace is the way.~~ --A. J. Muste

30th Jun 2010, 01:18 PM	#13
Jiggles Guest Posts: n/a	Re: One for the guys(question) Right for my serious post. I have done both, and dont prefer one over another really. What ever the guy im with is wanting or such is what i will do.

30th Jun 2010, 01:42 PM	#14
4 seat EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Irvine, CA Age: 25 Posts: 320 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) Never been there. I think I'd prob be the top, cuz I check out guys' butts pretty often. But if I really cared about the guy, I'm sure I would at least try being on the bottom. It doesn't sound very pleasant though. Ha.

30th Jun 2010, 01:45 PM	#15
Rikudo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) Never been with a guy. I'd have to say that it would all have to depend on my mood and my partner. I guess I'll just go with the flow. __________________ "Out of love, sacrifice is born... Hate is born... and we are able to know pain!"

30th Jun 2010, 01:49 PM	#16
Pepsi R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: One for the guys(question) Well I've never had sex at all so I guess I can't really vote but I will say that my desire to bottom is much stronger then my non-existent desire to top so, if I were to vote I would put that I guess but again I haven't had sex so I can't really vote. __________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA

30th Jun 2010, 01:49 PM	#17
IsItSo EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: 同志 Out Status: A few people Location: New York-ish Age: 18 Posts: 771 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: One for the guys(question) I'm a virgin but I've never imagined myself on top.

30th Jun 2010, 05:20 PM	#19
Eric EC Chat Room Mod EC Chat Mod Gender: Male Orientation: Gayyy Out Status: Open about it. Location: Ontario Age: 18 Posts: 1,374 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: One for the guys(question) I'd try both, but it would depend on who I'm with.

30th Jun 2010, 05:22 PM	#20
SolitaryKnight EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: the family knows and some other people Location: Atlantic Canada Age: 27 Posts: 360 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: One for the guys(question) I'll let you know when I shag someone, or when I've been shagged. __________________ To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one's own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat. ~ Plato