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Were you planned or a "surprise"?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Étoile, Jul 2, 2010.

  1. Étoile

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    My parents planned to have me. My mama desperately wanted a boy since she grew up with all girls and had my sister already.

    They were gonna have me two years after my sister, but decided to wait until she was 5. I would have been born in 1989 and been 21 instead of 18.
     
  2. Zach1992

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    I was the result of Prom sex. Not hard to figure out. :lol:
     
  3. theJosephDean

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    My parents had my sister in '81 and my brother in '84. In '85, my mom miscarried and was told she'd never have kids again due to various health issues. In '91, here I was. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Definitely a surprise (and I really don't think it was of the good variety).
     
  4. Jiggles

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    I dont know. =/
     
  5. alan t

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    I was unplanned. They only wanted one child, but then I just appeared. Which is why there's a huge gap between me and my older brother. Not that I mind, I'm still the favourite.
     
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    Neither. I'm God's fucking gift to humanity, bitches.
     
  7. malachite

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    I'm not sure.

    My sister was a teen pregnancy, but I'm sure about me.
     
  8. Zach

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    I was planned, as were my younger sister and brother.
     
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    They say me and my brother were planned but if you go back nine months from my birthday its would be my parents spring break. And nine months back from my brothers birthday is my dad's birthday...
     
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    The doctors and all of my extended family did not want me. I was a dangerous baby.
    After I was conceived, my mother wanted me. Thankfully.
     
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    To a degree I was planned. I was the 5th pregnancy in a string of miscarriages my mom had. She always wanted children. Oddly enough she was on the pill when I came around. But here I am. :grin:
     
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    Yes I was planned one year after my parents got married.
     
  13. Helen

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    I was the reason my parents got married. :grin:

    They wanted to have me eventually, just...not quite so soon. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  14. Lady Gaga

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    I was a surprise :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    So was all the other children in my family. XD

    I was born a year before my parents got married. They got divorced a year later. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    My parents only got married for insurance reasons, so they say. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I think the eloped and are ashamed of it though!
     
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    I was unplanned. My mom just immigrated to the states and became pregnant with me soon after. My dad chickened out and wasn't there for me or my mom at all while I was growing up. So yeah.
     
  16. I was very much planned and fought for. My mom had three miscarriages before I was born as a result of trying to have a third child that would end up being me.

    I'm pretty damn sure my older brothers were planned as well. But who knows lol
     
  17. george678

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    I was a very much planned first born.
     
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    Nope. Mother was 16 and a drug addict and father was a latin king....Thank freaking god Im adopted.. !!!!!
     
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    Look, I already have enough emotional baggage. Knowing whether or not I was planned would likely NOT help, given the... idiocy of my father.
     
  20. ANightDude

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    My mother won't tell me. So, I'm guessing somehow I slipped on through...