What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

pirateninja · 16th Jul 2010, 07:51 PM

I was watching Zombieland the other day, and near the start of the movie, the main character says that he's always wanted to brush a girl's strand of hair behind her ear. It kind of struck me that we probably all have these "little things" that we've all wanted to do to or with a significant other, not necessarily sexual at all, but intimate nonetheless. So what's yours, and have you done it yet?

For me, I haven't done it yet, but I've always wanted to be in a situation where me and a girl have gone to something where you have to dress formally, so I'd be in my suit, and she'd be in a dress, and as it got cold I would give her my jacket to keep her warm.

Shevanel · 16th Jul 2010, 07:53 PM

Eskimo Kiss :3

Also, ZOMBIELAND FUCK YEAH. Got that on Blu Ray :3

theJosephDean · 16th Jul 2010, 07:56 PM

Oh god. I actually have a list of ... I think 67 things as of now ... that I want to do with my bf. I sent him the first fifty under the title "Part Un". I plan to have it up to 100 and give him Part Deux when I see him

Hmm, I'll pick just one to post though. *thinks*

I think I want to feed him strawberries dipped in whipped cream. It just seems lame and cheesy

**Victor** · 16th Jul 2010, 07:57 PM

Cook. And I guess bake too. And probably all the throwing around ingredients at each other in a fun way (hopefully without blinding each other).

And I want to dance a waltz. >_>

16th Jul 2010, 07:58 PM

Well i've always had this thing were i really want to have a day at the beach with someone, and watch the sunset. Yea it's cliche but it's just something i really wanna do. There's probably more i just can't remember everything now.

Shevanel · 16th Jul 2010, 08:00 PM

I want to make music with the person I end up with too. v_v

And do nothing but listen to amazing soothing music and lay in bed with them, just staring into each other's eyes.

16th Jul 2010, 09:00 PM

Exist in my lifetime?

Dunno, walking together at night. On a secret meeting. I don't know why I find attractive the thought of our (hypothetical) time together being secret. I guess it reinforces the idea of him being a "significant other", perhaps...

Hoppip · 16th Jul 2010, 09:09 PM

Je veux susurrer des mots doux à l'oreille de mon petit-ami même (surtout) s'il ne les comprend pas.

If he's francophone, I'll do it in English... if he's anglophone or anything else, I'll do it in French. Maybe even both? Perhaps franglais?

I also want to take care of him... I want to clean up and make him food and stuff just for his gratitude.

Rikudo · 16th Jul 2010, 09:09 PM

Napping together in a hammock on a beautiful spring afternoon.

djt820 · 16th Jul 2010, 09:22 PM

I'd like killing thousands of infants.
I'd also like going to concerts as well. Maybe both at the same time.
*buys GWAR tickets*

Kupo! · 16th Jul 2010, 09:38 PM

I would like to hold him, and squeeze him, and cuddle him till we both fall asleep

16th Jul 2010, 10:30 PM

He can be Maynard, I can be Tori. Unless he wants to be Tori, and then I can be Maynard. Whatever he wants <3

Étoile · 16th Jul 2010, 10:48 PM

Destroy the world, hand-in-hand.

Other than that, go out at night, sit down by the water, and cuddle. Something about cuddling under the stars by a pond or whatever makes me feel bubbly.

Echidna1 · 16th Jul 2010, 11:09 PM

Hug for hours on end; that "side hug" thing.

Hoppip · 16th Jul 2010, 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Echidna1

Hug for hours on end; that "side hug" thing.

WHAT. WHAT. WHAT. That's called spooning, sweetie. Hence the spoon-shape. Oh my god. I need some shooters and a klonopin because that freaked my shit out. Jesus Christ.... it's SPOONing. LEARN THE LINGO.

Ugh oh my God I need a cigarette after that.

Echidna1 · 16th Jul 2010, 11:59 PM

Side hug. :P

Spectre · 17th Jul 2010, 12:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Étoile

Destroy the world, hand-in-hand.

Win^

Cheria · 17th Jul 2010, 12:07 AM

Tales of Multiplayer.

**Ben** · 17th Jul 2010, 12:12 AM

Kiss in the rain.

And play Scrabble. If my future husband plays Scrabble then my life would be complete.

Echidna1 · 17th Jul 2010, 12:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ben

Kiss in the rain.

This.

16th Jul 2010, 07:51 PM	#1
pirateninja EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007	What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? I was watching Zombieland the other day, and near the start of the movie, the main character says that he's always wanted to brush a girl's strand of hair behind her ear. It kind of struck me that we probably all have these "little things" that we've all wanted to do to or with a significant other, not necessarily sexual at all, but intimate nonetheless. So what's yours, and have you done it yet? For me, I haven't done it yet, but I've always wanted to be in a situation where me and a girl have gone to something where you have to dress formally, so I'd be in my suit, and she'd be in a dress, and as it got cold I would give her my jacket to keep her warm. __________________ Holly the Pirateninja Ars Longa, Vita Brevis.

16th Jul 2010, 07:53 PM	#2
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Eskimo Kiss :3 Also, ZOMBIELAND FUCK YEAH. Got that on Blu Ray :3 __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

16th Jul 2010, 07:56 PM	#3
theJosephDean Nothing but the rain. Full Member Gender: 男 Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 Out Status: Om nom nom. Location: Johnson City, TN Age: 20 Posts: 1,633 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Oh god. I actually have a list of ... I think 67 things as of now ... that I want to do with my bf. I sent him the first fifty under the title "Part Un". I plan to have it up to 100 and give him Part Deux when I see him Hmm, I'll pick just one to post though. thinks I think I want to feed him strawberries dipped in whipped cream. It just seems lame and cheesy __________________ Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn.

16th Jul 2010, 07:57 PM	#4
Victor Moo EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty damn out Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,972 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Cook. And I guess bake too. And probably all the throwing around ingredients at each other in a fun way (hopefully without blinding each other). And I want to dance a waltz. >_> __________________

16th Jul 2010, 07:58 PM	#5
Allistair Guest Posts: n/a	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Well i've always had this thing were i really want to have a day at the beach with someone, and watch the sunset. Yea it's cliche but it's just something i really wanna do. There's probably more i just can't remember everything now.

16th Jul 2010, 08:00 PM	#6
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? I want to make music with the person I end up with too. v_v And do nothing but listen to amazing soothing music and lay in bed with them, just staring into each other's eyes. __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

16th Jul 2010, 09:00 PM	#7
Mysterons Guest Posts: n/a	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Exist in my lifetime? Dunno, walking together at night. On a secret meeting. I don't know why I find attractive the thought of our (hypothetical) time together being secret. I guess it reinforces the idea of him being a "significant other", perhaps...

16th Jul 2010, 09:09 PM	#8
Hoppip look at the good i do Full Member Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Je veux susurrer des mots doux à l'oreille de mon petit-ami même (surtout) s'il ne les comprend pas. If he's francophone, I'll do it in English... if he's anglophone or anything else, I'll do it in French. Maybe even both? Perhaps franglais? I also want to take care of him... I want to clean up and make him food and stuff just for his gratitude. __________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant.

16th Jul 2010, 09:09 PM	#9
Rikudo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Napping together in a hammock on a beautiful spring afternoon. __________________ "Out of love, sacrifice is born... Hate is born... and we are able to know pain!"

16th Jul 2010, 09:22 PM	#10
djt820 Brutally Honest Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: DICKS EVERYWHERE Out Status: Like A Cock Slapping Your Face Kind-of Out. Location: SoCal Age: 19 Posts: 1,282 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? I'd like killing thousands of infants. I'd also like going to concerts as well. Maybe both at the same time. buys GWAR tickets __________________

16th Jul 2010, 09:38 PM	#11
Kupo! Brony Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Cloudsdale Age: 22 Posts: 682 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? I would like to hold him, and squeeze him, and cuddle him till we both fall asleep __________________ Some days you're too set in your ways And you forget to shut up, shut up and listen And some days you just have to misplace all your mistakes Somewhere that you won't miss them

16th Jul 2010, 10:30 PM	#12
RiotPoofBrandon Guest Posts: n/a	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? He can be Maynard, I can be Tori. Unless he wants to be Tori, and then I can be Maynard. Whatever he wants <3

16th Jul 2010, 10:48 PM	#13
Étoile He ate my heart Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Destroy the world, hand-in-hand. Other than that, go out at night, sit down by the water, and cuddle. Something about cuddling under the stars by a pond or whatever makes me feel bubbly. __________________ "I love that lavender blonde; the way she moves, the way she walks, I touch myself, can't get enough."

16th Jul 2010, 11:09 PM	#14
Echidna1 3oh!3 Fanatic Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to EVERYONE-except those that matter... Location: Albuquerque, NM Age: 21 Posts: 175 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Hug for hours on end; that "side hug" thing. __________________ Do you believe in first sight or am I going to have to walk by you again?

16th Jul 2010, 11:59 PM	#16
Echidna1 3oh!3 Fanatic Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to EVERYONE-except those that matter... Location: Albuquerque, NM Age: 21 Posts: 175 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Side hug. :P __________________ Do you believe in first sight or am I going to have to walk by you again?

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
Most irritating thing your significant other does...	BeautifulStranger	Chit Chat	19	29th Jul 2010 07:19 AM
A funny thing happened on the way to the gay bar	RedState	Support and Advice	2	18th May 2010 07:48 AM
Did I do the right thing?	crimsonarcher	Coming Out Stories	4	30th Aug 2008 10:25 PM
best and worst thing that happened to me	lap531	Coming Out Stories	5	19th Jul 2008 12:00 AM
What is the wildest thing you have ever done to satisfy your significant other?	deliciouslysexy	Chit Chat	8	6th May 2007 04:54 PM

17th Jul 2010, 12:07 AM	#18
Cheria にひひっ♪ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost everyone Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 636 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Tales of Multiplayer. __________________

17th Jul 2010, 12:12 AM	#19
Ben Was Invisible. EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,704 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: What is your little thing that you want to do to/with a significant other? Kiss in the rain. And play Scrabble. If my future husband plays Scrabble then my life would be complete.