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28th Jul 2010, 10:09 PM

Not in any order, but what are some things on your bucket lists?

A few from mine

Learn to play the guitar or drums
Be in a band (lol)
Learn french
Finish college
Be a father
Reach my goal weight and be sexxy <==== haha
Run a marathon
Bike a really long distance
Spend my life working towards the betterment of myself and others

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ooh and I want to also inspire others. In that really, really inspirational way

Bang Bang · 29th Jul 2010, 06:56 AM

Awww. That's a nice list.

I honestly cannot think of anything for my bucket list, but if I had to put something:

- Live life to the fullest until you die.

**Owen** · 29th Jul 2010, 07:36 AM

Truth be told, there isn't much on my bucket list; I may only be 19, but I don't feel as if there is anything I NEED to experience before I die; my life so far has been pretty good, so why want for more? Still, there are a few things I want to do before my time on this earth is up.

-Kiss and cuddle with a guy. This one is pretty simple, and I figure it will happen eventually with time, so it's not an entry on the list that I think about a lot.

-Go to a concert. I haven't ever seen a band live (expect for one rap concert I went to when I was little, which I don't count because I don't like rap anymore, and because I was too young to remember it now), so that is something I want to experience before I die.

-Go to Expansion. If you don't know what Expansion is, just know that it is a convention for a specific subset of the gay community

-Be interviewed. I don't know what the allure of being interviewed is for me, but something about it appeals to me. Perhaps it's just the fact that if I am being interviewed, someone must think I'm interesting. I guess I also like talking about myself.

What's interesting to me is that all of the items on this list involve something that makes me uncomfortable to varying extents. The first one would involve the awkwardness I feel with intimacy, the second one would involve my intense dislike of loud noises (I have sensitive nerves) and large crowds, the third would also involve my dislike of large crowds (though that would be a more intimate affair, so it wouldn't be as bad as a concert), and the fourth involves my discomfort with bragging about myself (though I suppose I wouldn't necessarily have to do that). I guess I subconsciously desire to step out of my comfort zone before I die, even if it means experiencing things I have typically not enjoyed.

Z3ni · 29th Jul 2010, 07:43 AM

Where do I start haha:

Learn to play the piano again, flute, harmonica, guitar
Learn to swim , ride a bike, motorbike ( I know what yur thinking )
Have my own designer label ( Doubt its going to happen )
Learn martial arts
Earn a hard amount of cash
Learn to drive
Learn to urban dance
Get nice abs
Go to Casino
Travel the world
SMoke weed lol
Having a boyfriend
ANd ofc... finding and accepting who I am

Being a dad is a on and off for me.

4 seat · 29th Jul 2010, 10:27 AM

Watch a Manchester United game in Old Trafford.
Watch a World Cup match AT the World Cup, wherever it may be.
Go to the Olympics.
Go to Australia.
Go to China.
Do a stand up comedy bit.
Ski the Alps again.
Eat the hottest buffalo wing known to man.
Have a kid--->have a grandkid

Many of those are money dependent. Better start working.

Paragon · 29th Jul 2010, 10:29 AM

Be outgoing
Learn another language
Have a single pet for 15+ years

Z3ni · 29th Jul 2010, 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paragon

Be outgoing
Learn another language
Have a single pet for 15+ years

Yeah I want to be multi-lingual, I can somewhat speak 3 languages but.. meh its not much D:

Swamp56 · 29th Jul 2010, 11:36 PM

-Finish Bachelor's degree with a cumulative GPA above 3.5
-Get into a doctoral program in Clinical Psych
-Graduate from said doctoral program
-Find a loving partner
-Work as a clinical psychologist

That's about it.

Hoppip · 30th Jul 2010, 01:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Swamp56

-Finish Bachelor's degree with a cumulative GPA above 3.5
-Get into a doctoral program in cognitive and TESOL linguistics
-Graduate from said doctoral program
-Find a loving partner
-Work as an Englishasaforeignlanguage teacher

That's about it.

I'm too boring to think of my own stuff so I just used Chris's as a template. :'D

28th Jul 2010, 10:09 PM	#1
travelinsoul21 Guest Posts: n/a	Bucket List Not in any order, but what are some things on your bucket lists? A few from mine Learn to play the guitar or drums Be in a band (lol) Learn french Finish college Be a father Reach my goal weight and be sexxy <==== haha Run a marathon Bike a really long distance Spend my life working towards the betterment of myself and others ---------- ooh and I want to also inspire others. In that really, really inspirational way

29th Jul 2010, 06:56 AM	#2
Bang Bang Testicles. That is all. Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Just a wee bit... Location: Toronto, Canada Age: 19 Posts: 421 Join Date: Jul 2010	Re: Bucket List Awww. That's a nice list. I honestly cannot think of anything for my bucket list, but if I had to put something: - Live life to the fullest until you die. __________________ I’m too tired to slap you. Bash your face against my palm.

29th Jul 2010, 07:36 AM	#3
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,871 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Bucket List Truth be told, there isn't much on my bucket list; I may only be 19, but I don't feel as if there is anything I *NEED* to experience before I die; my life so far has been pretty good, so why want for more? Still, there are a few things I want to do before my time on this earth is up. -Kiss and cuddle with a guy. This one is pretty simple, and I figure it will happen eventually with time, so it's not an entry on the list that I think about a lot. -Go to a concert. I haven't ever seen a band live (expect for one rap concert I went to when I was little, which I don't count because I don't like rap anymore, and because I was too young to remember it now), so that is something I want to experience before I die. -Go to Expansion. If you don't know what Expansion is, just know that it is a convention for a specific subset of the gay community -Be interviewed. I don't know what the allure of being interviewed is for me, but something about it appeals to me. Perhaps it's just the fact that if I am being interviewed, someone must think I'm interesting. I guess I also like talking about myself. What's interesting to me is that all of the items on this list involve something that makes me uncomfortable to varying extents. The first one would involve the awkwardness I feel with intimacy, the second one would involve my intense dislike of loud noises (I have sensitive nerves) and large crowds, the third would also involve my dislike of large crowds (though that would be a more intimate affair, so it wouldn't be as bad as a concert), and the fourth involves my discomfort with bragging about myself (though I suppose I wouldn't necessarily have to do that). I guess I subconsciously desire to step out of my comfort zone before I die, even if it means experiencing things I have typically not enjoyed. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

29th Jul 2010, 07:43 AM	#4
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Bucket List Where do I start haha: Learn to play the piano again, flute, harmonica, guitar Learn to swim , ride a bike, motorbike ( I know what yur thinking ) Have my own designer label ( Doubt its going to happen ) Learn martial arts Earn a hard amount of cash Learn to drive Learn to urban dance Get nice abs Go to Casino Travel the world SMoke weed lol Having a boyfriend ANd ofc... finding and accepting who I am Being a dad is a on and off for me. __________________ Through pain, lies success.

29th Jul 2010, 10:27 AM	#5
4 seat EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Irvine, CA Age: 25 Posts: 320 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: Bucket List Watch a Manchester United game in Old Trafford. Watch a World Cup match AT the World Cup, wherever it may be. Go to the Olympics. Go to Australia. Go to China. Do a stand up comedy bit. Ski the Alps again. Eat the hottest buffalo wing known to man. Have a kid--->have a grandkid Many of those are money dependent. Better start working. __________________ Just sit back and relax, it'll all be over before you can say "Cat in the Hat"

29th Jul 2010, 10:29 AM	#6
Paragon ECs Dramatic Fanboy! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi, but more on the gay side. Out Status: Around 8-12 people, but still closeted to most. Location: Ireland Age: 17 Posts: 325 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: Bucket List Be outgoing Learn another language Have a single pet for 15+ years __________________ Jessica Stam's #1 fan, I'm sorta like her e-stalker, stealing things like usernames, Pictures, Random Information, ETC.

29th Jul 2010, 11:36 PM	#8
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Bucket List -Finish Bachelor's degree with a cumulative GPA above 3.5 -Get into a doctoral program in Clinical Psych -Graduate from said doctoral program -Find a loving partner -Work as a clinical psychologist That's about it. __________________

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