How's your life at the moment? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Étoile · 4th Aug 2010, 09:14 PM

0 being awful, 5 being average, and 10 being awesome.

Work: 5 Starting college in 13 days. May or mayn't get a part-time job.
Health: 4 My headaches are coming back.
Social: 6 I need to go out more.
Love: 0 Nonexistent.
Sex: 0 Again, nonexistent
Money: 3 Parents support me since I'm fresh out of HS. College is gonna drain it up.
Leisure: 7 Since I don't have a job and no school yet, I've got plenty of time to do what I want

ANightDude · 4th Aug 2010, 09:17 PM

I like this.

Work: 0 No job. Can't deal with one right now.
Health: 3 Terrible headaches, feeling unhealthy a lot.
Social: 6 It's alright. I could do with a bit more, just the money.
Love: 1 Eh... somewhat.
Sex: 0 Where is it?
Money: 3 I'm saving coins here. Seriously.
Leisure: 6 I'm doing what I like, but it's just not all it's built up to be.

Swamp56 · 4th Aug 2010, 09:21 PM

Well,

Work: 10 I have a great, well-paying job
Health: 6 I've still been having some mood symptoms (hypomania), but I've also lost > 35 pounds
Social: 3 I'm not very happy with my practically non-existant social life
Love: 0 Doesn't exist

Sex: 0 Doesn't exist

Money: 8 Job pays very well
Leisure: 8 I have plenty of time since I work from home

Jeremy · 4th Aug 2010, 09:29 PM

Work: 1 I'm looking for a job, but I keep getting denied. I put a 1 because I have a job in Fall.
Health: 9 I run all the time; I eat healthy; the doctor told me I had an outstanding heart rate. lol

Social: 8 I talk with some good friends all the time. I miss my other friends though.
Love: 0 Ha! No such thing.
Sex: 0 ...
Money: 7 I'm actually pretty financially stable (especially for being currently unemployed!) lol xD
Leisure: 5 I guess it's all around average... I'd like to be more busy though.

theJosephDean · 4th Aug 2010, 09:37 PM

0 being awful, 5 being average, and 10 being awesome.

Work: 5 Online classes are coming to an end, and the new semester and my new tutoring schedule will start in a month.
Health: 3 Migraine + stomach pains.
Social: 1 I have no social life at home, but in a few days it'll be a 12 >_>
Love: I'll give it a 7 right now. 10 in about thirty hours.
Sex: 0 right now. 10 in about fifty hours

Money: 5 Meh. When my refunds come in next month from scholarships, I'll haz cash.
Leisure: 10, I'm on EC, obviously I've nothing better to do. xDD

TeddyJavier · 4th Aug 2010, 10:24 PM

Work: 1. Hate my job.
Health: 3. Asthma is acting up.
Social: 1. I haven't seen many friends since May.
Love: 0.
Sex: 0. No love = No sex.
Money: 8. Although I hate my job it pays ok.
Leisure: 10. I just got back from a month long Caribbean vacation.

VentinIntrovert · 4th Aug 2010, 10:27 PM

Work: 5 Full time job now, part time in the summer.
Health: 7 Getting alittle fat.
Social: 3 Anti-social and shy.
Love: 0 Still hoping.
Sex: 0 Perhaps one day.
Money: 9 Lots of money saved up.
Leisure: 6 Found a new hobby but to expensive.

Nodnarb · 4th Aug 2010, 10:39 PM

Work: 5 I hate my job most of the time, but it isn't all that bad. When you're working with the right people it can actually be fun.
Health: 5 Meh...
Social: 3 Not completely terrible, but not nearly as good as I'd like
Love: 0 Nothing to report here...
Sex: 0 ...or here
Money: 4 I've gone through half my savings in about a month (bought a car, books and tuition for this semester), but I still have enough that I'm not in a terrible financial situation. Parents aren't in the best place financially.
Leisure: 6 I'm partly to blame, as I'm too cheap to do things even if I can afford it, but I have quite a bit of free time

QuilsQ · 4th Aug 2010, 10:42 PM

Work: 0. I don't have a job right now.
Health: 6. Recovering from surgery I had recently.
Social: 3. I don't have many friends.
Love: 0. I hope I can find love someday.
Sex: 0. Without love there is no sex.
Money: 7. I'm financially stable.
Leisure: 5. I would like to be kept more busy.

Jeremy · 4th Aug 2010, 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by QuilsQ

Sex: 0. Without love there is no sex.

GUUUAHHHHH!!!! Controversial statement! lol.

jk!

the ry guy · 4th Aug 2010, 11:21 PM

work: 0 unemployed, got laid off a while back
health: 8 eat healthy and i work out (but i smoke and i'm having surgery next week)
social: 3 most of my friends moved far out, need more
love: 0 lol yeah no
sex: 0 not dating anyone
money: 4 financially screwed (bills, new truck, new guns, eye surgery, more tattoos, bills in general)
leisure: 1 most things cost money nothings free, i got time but nothing to do

Iniquity · 5th Aug 2010, 04:51 AM

Work: 3, not coming until the semester starts. Wish I did have a job.
Health: 5, had a pretty good wake-up call two days ago, but it's not as serious at I thought. I can't go to the gym for a while though...
Social: 6, still relegated to my summer group. They're fun when they're fun though.
Love: 0 Nonexistent, and I wish it wasn't, but I want the right time to come.
Sex: 0 Yeah, still none. Right time better hurry up.
Money: 7, the product of spending so many hours in class is that I got paid to do it.
Leisure: 3, I only get true leisure time on Friday & early Saturday. The rest of the time I'm studying. Of course, a week from Saturday will up this one.

Danielle · 5th Aug 2010, 05:05 AM

Work: 5
Health: 1
Social: 5
Love: 0
Sex: 0
Money: 7
Leisure: 10

Vivi · 5th Aug 2010, 05:22 AM

Work: 9 I've got a part time job, close to home and the people are great. Not the most exciting work though.
Health: 7 I'm in pretty good health but i could eat more healthy and could probably be fitter.
Social: 5 It's alright, i'm not exactly a party animal though.
Love: 0 Still looking.
Sex: 0 I wish!
Money: 7 Living at home now so i'm saving quite a bit of money, but plenty of student loans to pay off soon.
Leisure: 7 Only working part time so i've got quite a lot of free time, at least until i start back to uni.

Rikudo · 5th Aug 2010, 07:01 AM

Work: Nonexistent but to be honest I'm not looking for any.
Health: 10 I'm in the best shape I've been in a good 5 yrs.
Social: 7 Eh It's mmkay
Love: Pfft who need it
Sex: Can I go into the negatives >_>
Money: 10 If I ask I shall receive. ^_^
Leisure: 10 Life's easy.

**Eric** · 5th Aug 2010, 07:20 AM

Work: 6 No job, so I'm happy and frustrated at the same time, no school =D
Health: 7 Knees hurt like a sumbitch sometimes, but I'm pretty good otherwise.
Social: 1 I'm not very social.
Love: 0 continuing the trend
Sex: 0 speaks for itself <_<
Money: 6 I don't spend money so I have quite a bit saved, but still no job.
Leisure: 7 Lots of time on my hands, sometimes wayyyy too much.

xequar · 5th Aug 2010, 07:27 AM

Work: 6. I have a job, and it pays enough for me to pay bills and go out to eat. I hate my job, but in a market with high unemployment, I won't bitch too loud.
Health: 4. I'm recovered from my leg injuries and my accident, but I put on a bunch of weight because I couldn't exercise for a couple years. I'm 40 pounds heavier than I was before the accident, and I feel like hell all the time because of it.
Social: 9. I have good friends that I hang out with quite a bit. I get out and do stuff in public places. I can't complain too much.
Love: 10. I have a great boyfriend of nearly two years. Of course, having moved in together a couple months ago, we have our moments, but I wouldn't trade him.
Sex: 7. It's pretty good, but there's some stuff I'd like to do that my BF's not quite on board with.
Money: 8. Of course I'd like more, but I have a bit of money in the bank, I own my house, my car's paid off, and I have no other debt. I just have to contend with owning a money pit of a house.
Leisure: 7. Owning a house takes up a lot of time that I'd rather be using to ride my bike or do other stuff. That said, I still get to hang out with friends pretty often, so it's not horrible.

fragomatrick · 5th Aug 2010, 07:48 AM

Work : I still havent figured out what I want to do with my life so a big 000000\
Health: 10 ... i would like to believe that !
LOVE SEX : never have been loved never loved someone .. sex- HAHAHHA ! a big 0 again

MONey was neevr an issue,. wil;l neevr be ....
lesiure ...i never get bored

malachite · 5th Aug 2010, 07:51 AM

work:3
love life:0
Social life:2
home life: 3

Katherine · 5th Aug 2010, 07:53 AM

Work: 0. No job. I really need one, but I'm terrified of getting one. :/
Health: 8. Aside from chronic sinusitis and allergy issues, I'm doing okay. Just gotta wait for it to be winter again.
Social: 3. I don't exactly have friends, and I've been pretty depressed about that lately. But I'm hopeful that this year will be better.
Love: 9. I have an adorable girlfriend who I've been with for a little over 7 months now. :3 Things have been going pretty well lately, although sometimes she makes me insanely pissed off. But that's normal.
Sex: 7. I'm not going to lie, the sex with her is pretty awesome. xD Although we don't exactly get to do it as often as I'd like.
Money: 3. I don't have much money at all, which is directly related to the fact that I have no job. Not to mention my dad just lost his job, so my family's not really doing too well right now.
Leisure: 9. I've actually had lots of time and resources to do stuff I like to do lately, which is nice. I have a lot of new art supplies and sewing stuff and food. xD So I'm not really complaining in that aspect.

4th Aug 2010, 09:14 PM	#1
Étoile He ate my heart Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: 95% Gay, 5% Cheesecake Out Status: Out to everyone Location: The Peach State Age: 20 Posts: 1,575 Join Date: Nov 2007	How's your life at the moment? 0 being awful, 5 being average, and 10 being awesome. Work: 5 Starting college in 13 days. May or mayn't get a part-time job. Health: 4 My headaches are coming back. Social: 6 I need to go out more. Love: 0 Nonexistent. Sex: 0 Again, nonexistent Money: 3 Parents support me since I'm fresh out of HS. College is gonna drain it up. Leisure: 7 Since I don't have a job and no school yet, I've got plenty of time to do what I want __________________ "I love that lavender blonde; the way she moves, the way she walks, I touch myself, can't get enough."

4th Aug 2010, 09:17 PM	#2
ANightDude EC's Film Moron Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Antonio, Texas Age: 17 Posts: 1,848 Join Date: May 2008	Re: How's your life at the moment? I like this. Work: 0 No job. Can't deal with one right now. Health: 3 Terrible headaches, feeling unhealthy a lot. Social: 6 It's alright. I could do with a bit more, just the money. Love: 1 Eh... somewhat. Sex: 0 Where is it? Money: 3 I'm saving coins here. Seriously. Leisure: 6 I'm doing what I like, but it's just not all it's built up to be. __________________ "Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves." -- Abraham Lincoln

4th Aug 2010, 09:21 PM	#3
Swamp56 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 2,166 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: How's your life at the moment? Well, Work: 10 I have a great, well-paying job Health: 6 I've still been having some mood symptoms (hypomania), but I've also lost > 35 pounds Social: 3 I'm not very happy with my practically non-existant social life Love: 0 Doesn't exist Sex: 0 Doesn't exist Money: 8 Job pays very well Leisure: 8 I have plenty of time since I work from home __________________

4th Aug 2010, 09:29 PM	#4
Jeremy To be honest, I don't like dogs. Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Homosexual Out Status: I typically don't get to choose. Location: USA Age: 23 Posts: 264 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 1 I'm looking for a job, but I keep getting denied. I put a 1 because I have a job in Fall. Health: 9 I run all the time; I eat healthy; the doctor told me I had an outstanding heart rate. lol Social: 8 I talk with some good friends all the time. I miss my other friends though. Love: 0 Ha! No such thing. Sex: 0 ... Money: 7 I'm actually pretty financially stable (especially for being currently unemployed!) lol xD Leisure: 5 I guess it's all around average... I'd like to be more busy though.

4th Aug 2010, 09:37 PM	#5
theJosephDean Nothing but the rain. Full Member Gender: 男 Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 Out Status: Om nom nom. Location: Johnson City, TN Age: 20 Posts: 1,633 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? 0 being awful, 5 being average, and 10 being awesome. Work: 5 Online classes are coming to an end, and the new semester and my new tutoring schedule will start in a month. Health: 3 Migraine + stomach pains. Social: 1 I have no social life at home, but in a few days it'll be a 12 >_> Love: I'll give it a 7 right now. 10 in about thirty hours. Sex: 0 right now. 10 in about fifty hours Money: 5 Meh. When my refunds come in next month from scholarships, I'll haz cash. Leisure: 10, I'm on EC, obviously I've nothing better to do. xDD __________________ Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn.

4th Aug 2010, 10:24 PM	#6
TeddyJavier Member Regular Member Gender: Dude Orientation: Gay Out Status: Just my best friend. Location: New Britain, Connecticut Age: 20 Posts: 82 Join Date: Jul 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 1. Hate my job. Health: 3. Asthma is acting up. Social: 1. I haven't seen many friends since May. Love: 0. Sex: 0. No love = No sex. Money: 8. Although I hate my job it pays ok. Leisure: 10. I just got back from a month long Caribbean vacation. Last edited by TeddyJavier; 4th Aug 2010 at 10:26 PM..

4th Aug 2010, 10:27 PM	#7
VentinIntrovert Venting Introvert Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 24 Posts: 163 Join Date: May 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 5 Full time job now, part time in the summer. Health: 7 Getting alittle fat. Social: 3 Anti-social and shy. Love: 0 Still hoping. Sex: 0 Perhaps one day. Money: 9 Lots of money saved up. Leisure: 6 Found a new hobby but to expensive.

4th Aug 2010, 10:39 PM	#8
Nodnarb Notoriously Homosexual Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Ames, Iowa Age: 20 Posts: 3,875 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 5 I hate my job most of the time, but it isn't all that bad. When you're working with the right people it can actually be fun. Health: 5 Meh... Social: 3 Not completely terrible, but not nearly as good as I'd like Love: 0 Nothing to report here... Sex: 0 ...or here Money: 4 I've gone through half my savings in about a month (bought a car, books and tuition for this semester), but I still have enough that I'm not in a terrible financial situation. Parents aren't in the best place financially. Leisure: 6 I'm partly to blame, as I'm too cheap to do things even if I can afford it, but I have quite a bit of free time __________________ Better to be hated for who you are, than be loved for who you're not.

4th Aug 2010, 10:42 PM	#9
QuilsQ EC User Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: New York Age: 18 Posts: 211 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 0. I don't have a job right now. Health: 6. Recovering from surgery I had recently. Social: 3. I don't have many friends. Love: 0. I hope I can find love someday. Sex: 0. Without love there is no sex. Money: 7. I'm financially stable. Leisure: 5. I would like to be kept more busy. __________________ Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality.

4th Aug 2010, 11:21 PM	#11
the ry guy Resident Gun owner Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Chicago, IL Age: 27 Posts: 388 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: How's your life at the moment? work: 0 unemployed, got laid off a while back health: 8 eat healthy and i work out (but i smoke and i'm having surgery next week) social: 3 most of my friends moved far out, need more love: 0 lol yeah no sex: 0 not dating anyone money: 4 financially screwed (bills, new truck, new guns, eye surgery, more tattoos, bills in general) leisure: 1 most things cost money nothings free, i got time but nothing to do __________________ "God created people, but Samuel Colt made them equal" Vote Republican

5th Aug 2010, 04:51 AM	#12
Iniquity The Master of Deception Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: College & FB Minus Family Location: Medford, MA Age: 21 Posts: 222 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 3, not coming until the semester starts. Wish I did have a job. Health: 5, had a pretty good wake-up call two days ago, but it's not as serious at I thought. I can't go to the gym for a while though... Social: 6, still relegated to my summer group. They're fun when they're fun though. Love: 0 Nonexistent, and I wish it wasn't, but I want the right time to come. Sex: 0 Yeah, still none. Right time better hurry up. Money: 7, the product of spending so many hours in class is that I got paid to do it. Leisure: 3, I only get true leisure time on Friday & early Saturday. The rest of the time I'm studying. Of course, a week from Saturday will up this one. __________________ I'm out to annihilate every single stereotype planted against me in my road to attain true happiness. Believe that I am not what the media forces you to percieve.

5th Aug 2010, 05:05 AM	#13
Danielle EC Addict Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Most people Location: NSW, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 525 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 5 Health: 1 Social: 5 Love: 0 Sex: 0 Money: 7 Leisure: 10 __________________ Homophobia is gay.

5th Aug 2010, 05:22 AM	#14
Vivi Black Mage Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Ireland Age: 23 Posts: 152 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 9 I've got a part time job, close to home and the people are great. Not the most exciting work though. Health: 7 I'm in pretty good health but i could eat more healthy and could probably be fitter. Social: 5 It's alright, i'm not exactly a party animal though. Love: 0 Still looking. Sex: 0 I wish! Money: 7 Living at home now so i'm saving quite a bit of money, but plenty of student loans to pay off soon. Leisure: 7 Only working part time so i've got quite a lot of free time, at least until i start back to uni.

5th Aug 2010, 07:01 AM	#15
Rikudo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: Nonexistent but to be honest I'm not looking for any. Health: 10 I'm in the best shape I've been in a good 5 yrs. Social: 7 Eh It's mmkay Love: Pfft who need it Sex: Can I go into the negatives >_> Money: 10 If I ask I shall receive. ^_^ Leisure: 10 Life's easy. __________________ "Out of love, sacrifice is born... Hate is born... and we are able to know pain!"

5th Aug 2010, 07:20 AM	#16
Eric EC Chat Room Mod EC Chat Mod Gender: Male Orientation: Gayyy Out Status: Open about it. Location: Ontario Age: 18 Posts: 1,374 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 6 No job, so I'm happy and frustrated at the same time, no school =D Health: 7 Knees hurt like a sumbitch sometimes, but I'm pretty good otherwise. Social: 1 I'm not very social. Love: 0 continuing the trend Sex: 0 speaks for itself <_< Money: 6 I don't spend money so I have quite a bit saved, but still no job. Leisure: 7 Lots of time on my hands, sometimes wayyyy too much.

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5th Aug 2010, 07:27 AM	#17
xequar Diapered and collared! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 6. I have a job, and it pays enough for me to pay bills and go out to eat. I hate my job, but in a market with high unemployment, I won't bitch too loud. Health: 4. I'm recovered from my leg injuries and my accident, but I put on a bunch of weight because I couldn't exercise for a couple years. I'm 40 pounds heavier than I was before the accident, and I feel like hell all the time because of it. Social: 9. I have good friends that I hang out with quite a bit. I get out and do stuff in public places. I can't complain too much. Love: 10. I have a great boyfriend of nearly two years. Of course, having moved in together a couple months ago, we have our moments, but I wouldn't trade him. Sex: 7. It's pretty good, but there's some stuff I'd like to do that my BF's not quite on board with. Money: 8. Of course I'd like more, but I have a bit of money in the bank, I own my house, my car's paid off, and I have no other debt. I just have to contend with owning a money pit of a house. Leisure: 7. Owning a house takes up a lot of time that I'd rather be using to ride my bike or do other stuff. That said, I still get to hang out with friends pretty often, so it's not horrible. __________________

5th Aug 2010, 07:48 AM	#18
fragomatrick Perpetually Bored! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 732 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work : I still havent figured out what I want to do with my life so a big 000000\ Health: 10 ... i would like to believe that ! LOVE SEX : never have been loved never loved someone .. sex- HAHAHHA ! a big 0 again MONey was neevr an issue,. wil;l neevr be .... lesiure ...i never get bored __________________ The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch

5th Aug 2010, 07:51 AM	#19
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: How's your life at the moment? work:3 love life:0 Social life:2 home life: 3 __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

5th Aug 2010, 07:53 AM	#20
Katherine Professional Cuddler Full Member Gender: 75% female Orientation: 110% gay Out Status: 98% out Location: The land of rednecks and pine trees (Georgia) Age: 19 Posts: 1,745 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: How's your life at the moment? Work: 0. No job. I really need one, but I'm terrified of getting one. :/ Health: 8. Aside from chronic sinusitis and allergy issues, I'm doing okay. Just gotta wait for it to be winter again. Social: 3. I don't exactly have friends, and I've been pretty depressed about that lately. But I'm hopeful that this year will be better. Love: 9. I have an adorable girlfriend who I've been with for a little over 7 months now. :3 Things have been going pretty well lately, although sometimes she makes me insanely pissed off. But that's normal. Sex: 7. I'm not going to lie, the sex with her is pretty awesome. xD Although we don't exactly get to do it as often as I'd like. Money: 3. I don't have much money at all, which is directly related to the fact that I have no job. Not to mention my dad just lost his job, so my family's not really doing too well right now. Leisure: 9. I've actually had lots of time and resources to do stuff I like to do lately, which is nice. I have a lot of new art supplies and sewing stuff and food. xD So I'm not really complaining in that aspect. __________________ Overly emotional five-foot-tall vegetarian gamer girl who procrastinates way too much. Loves food, art, cats, and making people smile.