Coming out to a stranger

I went to a party with my friend and we ended up talking to a girl there who was slightly drunk. Somehow, the conversation ended up on the topic of exes and then the drunk girl asked me if I had any ex-girlfriends since they both decided to talk a bit. I decided to just come out with it and told her and my friend about my ex-boyfriend. My friend kind of knew about me being gay because she and my roommate are really close, but that was the first time I "came out" to her as well. I suppose it was kind of funny because the stranger girl had an "oh shit" look which was only made funnier by her drunkenness. xD

 

I was at a kick-back party once at my gay friend's apartment(none of his roommates knew I was gay, though). There were about 15 people there. We were playing kings cup and after a while, me and him started exempting ourselves to the rules that required guys to do things. There were several times throughout the night that we high fived each other while yelling "gay immunity!" or something similar. Of course, his roommates weren't even phased with me being gay and the night turned out to be really fun.

 

I can picture that scene in my head lol "You don't like boobies?!" lol.

 

The first time I ever came out to a stranger was to my neighbour (who I became good friends with afterwards, but who was a total stranger at the time). She had noted that I was single and the first or second time we got talking, she asked if I would be interested in going on a blind date with a (female) friend of hers.
I mentioned: "well, I don't really object to blind dates, but it would never work ut with a girl, I'm afraid".
She was totally unfazed and proceeded to try and set me up with a gay friend of hers :lol:
(and before you ask, no, the gay date never materialised, alas).

 

I was with a group of friends at the station, and for some reason, someone handing out audition information for Beauty and the Geek approached us. (Context: about 70% guys 30% girls, almost all gay or bi, half or more underage.) I joked that I doubted any of us would be what they're looking for, and in my case I doubted they were looking for female geeks. She said "You never know, we need all types!" and I added "I also think I'm a bit too lesbian." She was a little bit taken aback. Everyone else thought it was hilarious.

 

The only time that I probably came out to a stranger was my college librarian. I was writing a paper on sexual diversity and need some books for research. At the sign out desk, I had like eight books and the weirdest look from the librarian ever. Meh...

 

I came out to my ER doctor after my friend took me there. He assumed she was my girlfriend and corrected him and called her my "future egg donor".

 

Ahhaha, this past Saturday night I went out on a date again. I showed up at the restaurant first (fairly nice Italian restaurant) and told the host a table for 2, and the place is somewhere where if you're getting a table for 2 it's def a date lol. The host reached down to give me a pager and then goes "oh sorry bro, I'm all out of pagers, can I get your number? Not in any kind of gay way, dont worry" and I just smiled, laughed and gave him my number, cuz duh I know you need to contact me somehow, jackass lol. I went to the bar and had a drink and then my date showed up and we talked for a little, then the host called my phone. I showed up at the desk with Nick and it was clear we were together and the guy looks at me and says "Oh, this is awkward......right this way guys" and I just laughed and said don't worry about it. Haha.

 

Guy (as he walks past): Are you a lesbian?
Me: yes
Guy: Awesome! (or something to that effect) *carries on walking*
Me: *carries on walking also*

This was some dude I'd never even seen before. These sort of enounters amuse me so

I come out to strangers all the time But most of the time I just assume they already know (I'm quite gay )

 

That's pretty much why we exempted ourselves, we didn't want to drink much more than we already had.

 

a similar thing happened to me the other day.

During part of my lunch, I help run a thing at my school where we sell foods the cafeteria doesn't (ie: chinese, bbq, and taco bell to name a few). Anyway, the other day, during a break, I had bought some of the dominos pizza we had that day, and while I was eating, one of the other workers, C, sat down on the other side of the table, and started talking to me. He was talking to me about me being a vegetarian. after a moment of talking, he looked over at one of the female workers (we will call her A), and said "I love it when A wears shirts like that. It makes her boobs look AMAZING." I smiled and continued eating, and he then asked "you do like boobs right? right?". I giggled a bit, then said "nope. I'm gay". he then was like "oh now not only are you a vegetarian, but you're gay too" (the expression on his face was great lol). then he asked if the other workers knew, and if I was dating anyone. he seemed ok with it, but I didn't see him at school the next day, so I am not fully sure.

 

I've never came out to a stranger.

Also, just curious but where can you buy the "I <3 Boobies" bracelets at?? I would buy one because the money goes to charity and plus I love how ironic it would be to wear it.

 

It happens. A couple days ago, I was at a sandwich shop, and the clerk asked me where I got my T-shirt. I said, "Oh, I got in Europe a couple months ago when we were over there on vacation." He said, "Who'd you go with?" I found that a bit of an odd question, but I answered, "My boyfriend. We had a great time." He said, "Cool"...and made my sandwich.

Lex

 

At a pride parade, with a close friend, and a couple of his friends.
One of these friends-of-friends turns to me, and says:
Her: "So, are you gay?"
Me: Amused expression, grin - "Yeah"
Her: Surprised expression - "Really?"

lol, even when I go out of my way to be gay I still come across straight