Is it just me who thinks this way?

What people are you chatting to???

I don't think that it's true, atleast for the most part. I think like 98% of all people want a relationship deep down, whether they acknowlege that want or not, is up to them.

 

That seems to be a commonality among my friends too (and I, too, want more than just sex), but I think that's just because people are more likely to talk about their sex-capades than their relationships, so you're more likely to hear about someone's conquests if they just want sex than their relationships if they are looking for that.

 

I think a lot of it has to do with where you are looking. It is going to be hard to find a Ford at the Chevy dealer. Sure you might find one eventually but the easiest way to find one is to go to the Ford dealer.

 

i dont care about sex infact i almost dislike sex...its awkward... i only care about relationships .

sadly its almost impossible to have a relationship without sex.

 

I think a lot of people are scared to admit all they want is to have someone so instead they make a joke about it and cover it up. Also, it's a bit of a social thing, a competition. so people often feel they have something to prove. It's lot easier to talk about something more...trivial like sex, isn't it? So I guess it could be any of those. or none. What I will say is, don't go looking for a relationship. Look instead for a friend, and if something more is an option, it will find you

 

Hi,i totaly agree with starfish on this one.This is also how it works for straight couples aswell,90% of clubbers are out for a 1 night stand, gay/bi/straight they just want sex.

Just try looking elsewere or even try looking on a gay dating site to see if there are others in your area looking for the same as you.

Good luck

 

I sort of find that gay men in their teens/early 20s do want sex more often, but I think this has to do with finally being free in college/university/whatever. They are just trying out what sex life is like before deciding to settle down.