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7th Sep 2010, 01:57 AM

I have been having this odd fantasy lately. By odd I mean, very different from my usual teenage, horny, raging hormone type fantasies.
I imagine I am being held, in a tight but gentle grasp. I feel the warm embrace of an unnamed and generally faceless lover. We are in bed together on a crisp morning. I look up into his face, and stare endlessly into his bottomless eyes. I feel so very safe and secure, I never want the feeling to end. But then I snap out of my crazy daydreams.

I dont feel as though this is normal. I mean to say, of course it is normal. I'm sure people past the teenage years would feel perfectly normal daydreaming something like this. But to me, it just feels like too much of a deviation from the usual teenage hormonal daydreams. The kind that involve what happened the night before. :P
It isnt a bad thing, it just feels odd. Does anyone else have this sort of fantasy from time to time?
I wasnt sure where this would belong, so I decided that general chit chat was as good a place as any.

peaceandlies · 7th Sep 2010, 03:19 AM

i dont usually dream, but i've had sex dreams before. they're usually more erotic though - less staring and more sex

Leon481 · 7th Sep 2010, 03:47 AM

Sounds really nice.

You're dreaming about romance instead of sex. Nothing wrong with that. One often does lead into the other so it's not that far removed from the normal teenage fantasies if you think about it.

Just Adam · 7th Sep 2010, 04:47 AM

romantic dreams are always nice.

fragomatrick · 7th Sep 2010, 04:48 PM

There's nothing wrong with it. As long as it doesn't interfere with your normal day to day routine, it's perfectly fine.

malachite · 8th Sep 2010, 09:04 AM

the only odd thing about sexuality is to have none - Freud

Root · 8th Sep 2010, 10:34 AM

I daydream and dream like that. Actually, from the onset of puberty, most of my fantasies and dreams were more romantic than erotic.
I like romance, it just doesn't like me.

**Lexington** · 8th Sep 2010, 11:24 AM

One of my favorite fantasies from years ago involved a naked guy standing in a doorway, looking out onto a sunny field in the morning, sipping a cup of coffee. And I laid in bed and just looked at him. I think part of the reason it was exciting to me was that I felt comfortable enough around him to just lay there looking at him...and he felt comfortable enough around me to let me do it.

Lex

7th Sep 2010, 01:57 AM	#1
Bario Guest Posts: n/a	Strange fantasies I have been having this odd fantasy lately. By odd I mean, very different from my usual teenage, horny, raging hormone type fantasies. I imagine I am being held, in a tight but gentle grasp. I feel the warm embrace of an unnamed and generally faceless lover. We are in bed together on a crisp morning. I look up into his face, and stare endlessly into his bottomless eyes. I feel so very safe and secure, I never want the feeling to end. But then I snap out of my crazy daydreams. I dont feel as though this is normal. I mean to say, of course it is normal. I'm sure people past the teenage years would feel perfectly normal daydreaming something like this. But to me, it just feels like too much of a deviation from the usual teenage hormonal daydreams. The kind that involve what happened the night before. :P It isnt a bad thing, it just feels odd. Does anyone else have this sort of fantasy from time to time? I wasnt sure where this would belong, so I decided that general chit chat was as good a place as any.

7th Sep 2010, 03:19 AM	#2
peaceandlies Survivor Full Member Gender: Genderqueer, leaning male Orientation: I like GIRLS Out Status: Out to everyone Location: In a Dream. Age: 17 Posts: 372 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: Strange fantasies i dont usually dream, but i've had sex dreams before. they're usually more erotic though - less staring and more sex __________________ S'not eaten for days. Who cares what they say Your love is a joke, you're a walking cliche When she starts to cry, And you don't know why It's 'cause you're a part of her little lie

7th Sep 2010, 03:47 AM	#3
Leon481 EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out Online Location: Southeast of Atlanta, Georgia Age: 26 Posts: 343 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Strange fantasies Sounds really nice. You're dreaming about romance instead of sex. Nothing wrong with that. One often does lead into the other so it's not that far removed from the normal teenage fantasies if you think about it.

7th Sep 2010, 04:47 AM	#4
Just Adam Just passing through Full Member Gender: Something Orientation: Dunno Out Status: If they ask i will tell them Location: Wherever Age: 23 Posts: 6,002 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Strange fantasies romantic dreams are always nice. __________________ There Used To Be A Point Of Things.

7th Sep 2010, 04:48 PM	#5
fragomatrick Perpetually Bored! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 732 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: Strange fantasies There's nothing wrong with it. As long as it doesn't interfere with your normal day to day routine, it's perfectly fine. __________________ The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch

8th Sep 2010, 09:04 AM	#6
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Strange fantasies the only odd thing about sexuality is to have none - Freud __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

8th Sep 2010, 10:34 AM	#7
Root Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Been with a lady, but like guys too Out Status: Mother, Brother, 2 long distance friends Location: South Africa Age: 22 Posts: 68 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: Strange fantasies I daydream and dream like that. Actually, from the onset of puberty, most of my fantasies and dreams were more romantic than erotic. I like romance, it just doesn't like me.

8th Sep 2010, 11:24 AM	#8
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Strange fantasies One of my favorite fantasies from years ago involved a naked guy standing in a doorway, looking out onto a sunny field in the morning, sipping a cup of coffee. And I laid in bed and just looked at him. I think part of the reason it was exciting to me was that I felt comfortable enough around him to just lay there looking at him...and he felt comfortable enough around me to let me do it. Lex

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