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Connor22 · 21st Sep 2010, 01:24 PM

well I've met someone, no I can't believe it either but apparantly this country is too damn small, you see I come from the tangled hair around the arse hole of nowhere, but it turns out news of me being gay has gone far indeed, theres a guy in a town a bout 40 miles away near the big city (belfast) and he's gay too, 15, sweet and nice, we've chatted on webcam etc so i'm really sure he's legit, anyway I asked him out on a date in two weeks, he's not quite sure if he can miss football but anyway WOO!!! umm anyone got any advice?

peaceandlies · 21st Sep 2010, 02:17 PM

hmm. ask a friend to go with you. kind of awkward, but its for safety purposes. not likely, but the guy could be payed to seduce people. but apart from that, go, and if he cant make it, rearrange, and enjoy yourself.

malachite · 21st Sep 2010, 02:34 PM

ask him what he wants to do, try to find some common ground. He will probably something like: "I don't know" or "I don't care" but just tell him you want him to have fun so it might take a little fishing but you'll find something you both enjoy.

Connor22 · 21st Sep 2010, 02:34 PM

ok thanks I'll try and get a friend to come with

24th Sep 2010, 10:57 PM

even if you cant get a friend with you you can still be safe. just make sure your always in a public place and that someone knows where you are at all times.

21st Sep 2010, 01:24 PM	#1
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	First Date well I've met someone, no I can't believe it either but apparantly this country is too damn small, you see I come from the tangled hair around the arse hole of nowhere, but it turns out news of me being gay has gone far indeed, theres a guy in a town a bout 40 miles away near the big city (belfast) and he's gay too, 15, sweet and nice, we've chatted on webcam etc so i'm really sure he's legit, anyway I asked him out on a date in two weeks, he's not quite sure if he can miss football but anyway WOO!!! umm anyone got any advice? __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

21st Sep 2010, 02:17 PM	#2
peaceandlies Survivor Full Member Gender: Genderqueer, leaning male Orientation: I like GIRLS Out Status: Out to everyone Location: In a Dream. Age: 17 Posts: 372 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: First Date hmm. ask a friend to go with you. kind of awkward, but its for safety purposes. not likely, but the guy could be payed to seduce people. but apart from that, go, and if he cant make it, rearrange, and enjoy yourself. __________________ S'not eaten for days. Who cares what they say Your love is a joke, you're a walking cliche When she starts to cry, And you don't know why It's 'cause you're a part of her little lie

21st Sep 2010, 02:34 PM	#3
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: First Date ask him what he wants to do, try to find some common ground. He will probably something like: "I don't know" or "I don't care" but just tell him you want him to have fun so it might take a little fishing but you'll find something you both enjoy. __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

21st Sep 2010, 02:34 PM	#4
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: First Date ok thanks I'll try and get a friend to come with __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

24th Sep 2010, 10:57 PM	#5
gaz83 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: First Date even if you cant get a friend with you you can still be safe. just make sure your always in a public place and that someone knows where you are at all times.

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