What do you find attractive?

[British Lad]

So what do you find attractive in a man or woman (whatever your poison)?
Please non sexual and try to list.
Me:
-plain shirt and tie with a pair of jeans
-longish (shoulder length) straight dark hair.
-skinny or straight cut jeans
-A slim body
-Dark eyes
-intelligent
-more masculine then feminine
-tanned
-White (general but there are exceptions, I am not a racist just I like white guys)
-soft skin
-Emo
-nice V neck shirt
-swimming shorts (h8 speedos)
-a bit of muscle (no to much just enough to define his arms)
I can not think of anything else.
Post what turns you on underneath.

[rayban]

I like guys with slim bodies, maybe a little muscle - but not too much, i don't like bodybuilders or guys with too much muscles, neither do I find attractive fat guys.
As for the hair, i like medium-lenght or short hair. I also like it when a guy has hairy legs and arms. That's a major turn on. And I melt if I see a guy in skinny jeans, but only the ones that actually look good in them.
Also I'm only attracted to white guys ( I'm not a racist ).
As for personalty, he needs to be funny and to be honest.

[Miss Bubbles]

I like guys who ae manlier than me, are smaller then me weight wise, usually older than me(Hate teenagers but will make exceptions), hair no longer then the chin and cute butt lol

[Rawrs92]

its all in the face...
- Blue eyes
- Beautiful smile
- Sharp nose (lol)

- short hair
- tall

I cant expain exactly but when all of these come together, it makes the best lookin guy..


EXAMPLE:

[kettlkorn]

In the body, it's all in the legs. Well, almost. Some is in the abs I guess. But the face is always more complex. Deep, hypnotizing blue eyes. Long hair and an inviting smile. I don't really care about what he's wearing all that much. I think that if someone is hot they're hot, regardless if they are wearing a speedo or a snowsuit. Or a v neck with loose fitting jeans... and a few tattoos... and... smiling... *passes out from sheer attractiveness of said person*

[Eric]

I'm not sure how good I am at listing this stuff. Here goes nothing.
-lightly-colored eyes (blue for example)
-about 6'-6.2' (I want to be the taller one. xD)
-kinda manly, but with a few eccentricities
-somewhat slim
-likes sports, but not as much as me
-smart
-good sense of humour
-short hair
-hair color isn't important, but I tend to prefer guys with darker hair.
That's, uhh, about it.

[Berbasexy]

I like young looking boys with medium-length hair, soft facial features, with the exception of sharp eyebrows, red lips, a beautiful smile and blue eyes filled with childish enthusiasm. Muscle is good... but as long as they have a healthy heart it's alright. I like a slim waist. Height of around 5 foot 10.

As for girls, I'm not sure. Most of them are obviously attractive but I feel like I have to behave like such a gentleman around them and there's too much sexual tension. They're generally not very witty either and it's such a turn-off when they make a bad joke and find themselves hilarious.

[heatqueen]

~Eyes. Wide, alluring ones e.g. Melina Kanakaredes (Stella in CSI: New York)
~People who carry an air of sophistication (e.g. Paget Brewster, [Criminal Minds] / Lisa Edelstein, [House])
~People who are deep and full of substance
~People who respect me for being exactly the way I am and don't expect me to try and be anyone else

Lol I just realized I love citing my drama TV stars. Now why are they all older women..?

[SaturdaySaviour]

Shorter girls with nice (which does not mean large >_>) breasts and a good sense of humour. There's usually stuff like a longer nose, dyed hair, braces, hairiness etc. that I find cute in somebody. Also, fashion sense.

BTW, there was a thread like this already.

[GoinStag]

-A good sense of humor
-Blue eyes
-Good smile
-Accepting/Understanding/Not judgmental
-Romantic
-Honest
-Any body type
-Make you feel secure and safe

[peaceandlies]

In girls I am attracted to three types.

Latina

-Curves
-Baseball tee, thats kind of tied at the waist, to show off.
-Denim shorts with shredded bottoms
-A coulple of tattoos, for instance, on her back, near the butt.
-Long dark hair - usually wavy
-Baseball caps with the hair coming down underneath.
I couldn't get everything, but that is the basic material.

'Vampire'/Goth type.

-Leather
-Corsets
-Dead white skin
-Chokers
-Hot leather pants
-Long straight black hair
-Lots of eyeliner possibly red lipstick
-Knee high leather boots
-Fishnets
-Black Gloves


Dyke

-Jeans
-Tshirt
-Chains
-Mainly white, but not always
-Biker boots/Converse
-Muscles - but not so much as a guy or I get repulsed
-Tshirt and checkeed shirt on top
-Bandana
-Cool and laid back, hard to read
-Blue eyes
-Dark hair
-Quite tall (not compulsary)


I also like black girls, don't get me wrong. They just don't slip so well into my categories.

[malachite]

Personality:
-I NEED a guy who can make me laugh, who can take that bad situation and make me laugh.
- Someone who isn't afraid to argue with me and put me in my place (I'm known to be stubborn).

physical:
-I love a guy who has a nice smile, really the sexiest part of the man.
-Blue eyes GOD I love blue eyes.
-I've been on this kick with black hair lately, don't know why but it seems really sexy.

[zoeee]

maybe a lip piercing/nose piercing
cool hair (dreadlocks!)
hippie-type clothes, alternative style in general
good music taste
fun to be with, spontaneus
not stingy, not too busy all the time
cute smile
not too much taller than me
interested in politics and on the same page as me politics-wise

[RaRa]

It's all in the arms. I love nice, sculpted, built arms....yum. I also love eyes and the nose, I look at these immediately. To me a nice smile is also important. I wouldn't find a guy frowning continuously attractive at all.

I love contrasting features. Blond hair with brown eyes and blue/green eyes with black or brown hair. Red hair and green eyes is just a free invitation to my bed basically....I also love guys with facial hair, and tattoos turn me on like no other.

This is all for now.

[rocking23]

- Back of guys neck
- Their Calfs
- Leg hair
- Treasure Trail
- Neck / Adam's Apple
- Skater type hair
- Perfect teeth / nice smile
- The area / indent between the bicep and triceps...

[GoinStag]

Gotta have a nice ass.

[Pseudojim]

Anybody different.

[fragomatrick]

-Big Arms


- That's it!

[Smile]

I usually look at a guy's eyes and hair first.

The four main things I like:
-Blonde Hair
-Awkward/Quirky/Energetic personality
-Blue Eyes
-Optimism

However I know that it is very possible for me to like a guy without these traits. Well, maybe not if they were pessimistic. That is a major turn off!

[Danielle]

Intelligence.