I am Paul here from New Jersey 47 yrs old, I was wondering how do you go about making gay friends if a person is sort of still not our completly with there lifestyle because of work and I never like to mix work and socialzing together at the same time. I do like to keep my personal life private away from work.If someone asks me at work why I am not still married it is because i tell them I still looking for the right person to come around and sweep me off my feet. Is this the proper way of saying it as work?:smilewave