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Old 19th Oct 2010, 12:33 AM   #1
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Default Coming out to a brother

Hi everyone!!!

This is my first posting. I am not sure if this question has been posted before. So pretty much Sunday, October 17 I finally told 2 of my best friends that I am gay and they have been supportive about it. But they told me that they have suspected it from the beginning (7 years ago) that i am gay. they just waited for me to say it to them. Anyhow, i'm going to try to come out to my brother soon. I was hoping I can get an advise from you. what is the best way to approach this? My brother is in the navy and he is station in Japan. There is a time difference and he gets home pretty late so i don't want to wait for him to get home and talk to him . i think if i do call him it will be a lot harder for me to say it to him. I was thinking of just sending him an email and explain to him what is going on with me. Any advise will help. Thanks!!!
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Old 19th Oct 2010, 12:54 AM   #2
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Default Re: Coming out to a brother

An email sounds great. Just be honest with him about whatever you're feeling.

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Old 19th Oct 2010, 08:51 PM   #3
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Default Re: Coming out to a brother

Hai thurrr.

An e-mail is a fine way to come out, especially in your situation. I'd take a look at the resource section, there's a few coming out letters on there that may be able to help you. http://emptyclosets.com/home/pages/r...ut-letters.php

Also, if and when you write it, and you're comfortable to post it here we can give you feedback before you send it off.

Good luck!
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