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Old 20th Oct 2010, 02:20 PM   #1
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Default Excuse me, this is the Ladies!

Has anyone ever been told to get out of the bathroom they're supposed to be in?

How do you react?
How do you feel?

Apart from this, I often get talked to as a 'sir', 'mate' and 'dude'.

I dont really have a problem with sir mate and dude, but i really dislike being kicked out of the ladies.

Also, How do trans people deal with bathroom issues? I'm curious
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Old 20th Oct 2010, 10:16 PM   #2
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Default Re: Excuse me, this is the Ladies!

I'm bisexual, so if someone calls me a lesbian or tells me to get out, I just tell them off. They don't know what they're talking about. Works pretty well for me, but this rarely happens.
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Old 21st Oct 2010, 12:57 AM   #3
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If I was female and getting kicked out of the ladies', I would just be like "giiiiiiiirl what you chattin I ain't no penis owner"

...that's just me though
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Old 21st Oct 2010, 06:46 AM   #4
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Default Re: Excuse me, this is the Ladies!

On one or two occasions, a couple fake tough guys told me that this was the MEN's room, so I shouldn't be in it. I just said "Don't worry - I won't tell the girls how small your dick is."

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Old 21st Oct 2010, 12:25 PM   #5
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On one or two occasions, a couple fake tough guys told me that this was the MEN's room, so I shouldn't be in it. I just said "Don't worry - I won't tell the girls how small your dick is."
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I haven't been told to get out of the female bathroom, but there has been people who give me a once over when I'm in the ladies. Once, a middle aged lady spoke up and said "Umm, sorry but this is the ladies?", to which I replied, "Yea, and?" She mumbled an apology and I went my merry way.
I have a androgynous haircut, and when I go through the airport (which is often), I like to dress comfortable ie. baggy trousers, hoodies. I often get mistaken for and addressed as male until they check my passport. I don't mind.

I've been lucky so far.
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