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Dirty talk during sex?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by pianomike, Nov 13, 2010.

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Do you like dirty talk during sex?

  1. Yes

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    23.5%

  2. No

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    29.4%

  3. I like to hear it but don't do it myself.

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  4. I don't mind it.

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  1. pianomike

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    What do you think of dirty talk during sex, I personally don't understand it. :***:This one guy i was with always talked dirty during sex.:confused:
     
    #1 pianomike, Nov 13, 2010
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    i personally love it , but the guy would probably be too busy to make up smart comments :wink:
     
    #2 booby, Nov 13, 2010
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    I'm not really sure what you concider "dirty talk" but a little playful banter is good with me.
     
    #3 malachite, Nov 13, 2010
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    "I'm gonna take all of your dirty clothes and throw them on the floor. Then, after I finish my dinner, I'm gonna put my unwashed plate in your cupboard."

    Jk lol I think a little dirty talk would be good with me.
     
    #4 GoinStag, Nov 13, 2010
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    Never had sex, but dirty talk sounds really hot. Seen it in porn and liked it a lot.
     
    #5 x2x2x2x2y2, Nov 13, 2010
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    Personally, I've always found it a little silly, and it seems sort of contrived to me, but I know some people that absolutely love it.

    I also remember there was some famous gay porn star in the 1980s who was widely known for his exceptionally good dirty talk (whatever that means, and in any case, I'm not sure that's what I'd want to be known world-wide for, but that's another story!) The interesting part was, this guy was apparently straight, but just knew how to play the role really well.

    So to each his own... I can see how it would be a total turn-on to some people and more power to them, but I personally feel a little silly either saying it or having someone say stuff like that to me.
     
    #6 Chip, Nov 13, 2010
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    yeah i quite like it, though i'm not majorly into it like some are. It's good fun.
     
    #7 Pseudojim, Nov 13, 2010
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    Never had sex either, but it does seem really hot. That & things getting physical. Like hitting. :icon_redf
     
    #8 Zach1992, Nov 13, 2010
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    I agree with Chip. Its all very well watching it in porn but, in my experience, it feels a bit forced and awkward in real life.
     
    #9 Moonstrike, Nov 14, 2010
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    I'd rather him use his mouth to do something more productive. Like using it on my body.
     
    #10 Kirakishou, Nov 14, 2010
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    A little bit of it is allright, however, too much is just a turn off. And I second what Cheria said :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #11 Heyitsme, Nov 14, 2010
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    ugh, that is so unsanitary
     
    #12 malachite, Nov 14, 2010
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    Yeah, that and "I'm gonna lick your spoon, then put it back in your draws" <<< Notice the wordplay? lol

    But yeah, I think while dirty talk would be nice (never had sex, so I wouldn't really know 100%), too much of it could be awkward and boring.
     
    #13 GoinStag, Nov 14, 2010
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    no. way too weird.
     
    #14 thevre, Nov 14, 2010
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    I like it to get me going but after that, don't talk about it do it and JFDI. (btw I am a virgin)
     
    #15 British Lad, Nov 15, 2010
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    Agreed but i like it. Only problem is my boyfriend doesn't know how to say words other than penis lol he is soo sheltered.
     
    #16 Miss Bubbles, Nov 15, 2010
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    I don't like it, myself, because it usually sounds so fake. For far too many people, dirty talk seems to fall into two categories.

    1. Commands for me to do precisely what I'm already doing. "Fuck me"? Um, I HAVE been. For the last five minutes. Are you telling me you can't tell? Way to make me feel inferior.

    2. Rhetorical questions that sound like an attempt to bolster sagging self-esteem. "You love it when I do that to you, don't you?" "You want some of this, don't you?" Sure, if it makes you feel better.

    The first time I got intimate with my partner, I did something to him that cause his whole body to shudder while he barely breathed the words "Oh God..." THAT was hotter than absolutely everything my previous partner had ever said put together. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    ACK!!! This is the opposite of sexy!!!!!
     
    #18 malachite, Nov 15, 2010
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    I'm sorry, but if you start cursing me out in the middle of things I will get offended and leave.

    What's wrong with heavy breathing? And "Do you like that?" Well obviously I do. Otherwise I would stop.
     
    #19 Daniel, Nov 15, 2010
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    Agree. That would seem to be a lot sexier than just random phrases you'd only see in an x-rated flick.
     
    #20 stad90, Nov 15, 2010
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