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XxToshixX · 16th Nov 2010, 10:17 AM

What Do You Guys Think About Cuddling? Personally, I Absolutely Love It To Death, but there are some people that don't really like to cuddle. So yeah...How About You Guys/Girls?

Moonstrike · 16th Nov 2010, 10:18 AM

I love it. I dont understand how anyone doesnt.

malachite · 16th Nov 2010, 10:40 AM

I like a good cuddle, especially now thats it colder out.

**Owen** · 16th Nov 2010, 10:42 AM

I thoroughly enjoy it. It's really nice to be able to get that close with someone you like. Not much else to say, really.

malachite · 16th Nov 2010, 10:44 AM

I like the hair stroke, when he's running his fingers through your hair.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

musican · 16th Nov 2010, 10:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Moonstrike

I love it. I dont understand how anyone doesnt.

This. Even if it's just with friends it's great.

MMAnick · 16th Nov 2010, 10:58 AM

I so would love to fall asleep in the arms of a guy i could call my bf right now.......cuddling is good anytime

RainbowJay · 16th Nov 2010, 11:25 AM

I like cuddling, it always makes me feel better

British Lad · 16th Nov 2010, 11:32 AM

I love being cuddled and I love to snuggle up to that person and one day my boyfriend/husband.

malachite · 16th Nov 2010, 02:37 PM

I'm wanna find me someone to cuddle with right now!

16th Nov 2010, 02:40 PM

I LOVE CUDDLING

excitement :3

maverick · 16th Nov 2010, 02:42 PM

I'm torn about cuddling or touching, even amongst friends. I crave touch but at the same time gender dysphoria has always made me really uncomfortable letting people into my personal space.

Hopefully now that I'm semi-out, I'll get better about being so aloof. I definitely feel better in my own skin after accepting myself. I managed to get in a wrestling match/tickle fight with my roommate last night without tensing up, so maybe I'm getting better?

Z3ni · 16th Nov 2010, 03:01 PM

The closest I've been is a small hug.. I'd love to cuddle though, I'm sure it amazing lol

Rikudo · 16th Nov 2010, 04:17 PM

Not a big cuddler.

x2x2x2x2y2 · 16th Nov 2010, 04:30 PM

Never cuddled, but it sounds really good.

**TheEdend** · 16th Nov 2010, 05:39 PM

I like to cuddle, but I can't stand falling asleep or sleeping while you cuddle xD

malachite · 16th Nov 2010, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheEdend

I like to cuddle, but I can't stand falling asleep or sleeping while you cuddle xD

understandable, someone always rolls over on someone's arm and then you have wake them up before your arms falls off

Dare2bProud · 16th Nov 2010, 06:07 PM

*sigh* I need someone to cuddle with!

GoinStag · 16th Nov 2010, 06:15 PM

I want and need to cuddle so badly.

*SIGH*

stad90 · 16th Nov 2010, 09:03 PM

I LOVE the idea of cuddling... which is strange, since I'm not a really touchy-feely kind of person (unless it's with somebody that I'm VERY close to). But with somebody special? That sounds amazing!

*sigh* now I feel even more lonely... :/

16th Nov 2010, 10:17 AM	#1
XxToshixX The One With The ♫♫♫ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 Out Status: For The Most Part Location: Battle Creek, MI Age: 17 Posts: 61 Join Date: Jun 2010	Cuddling? What Do You Guys Think About Cuddling? Personally, I Absolutely Love It To Death, but there are some people that don't really like to cuddle. So yeah...How About You Guys/Girls? __________________ "What I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction."

16th Nov 2010, 10:18 AM	#2
Moonstrike Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: England Posts: 360 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Cuddling? I love it. I dont understand how anyone doesnt.

16th Nov 2010, 10:40 AM	#3
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Cuddling? I like a good cuddle, especially now thats it colder out. __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

16th Nov 2010, 10:42 AM	#4
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,872 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Cuddling? I thoroughly enjoy it. It's really nice to be able to get that close with someone you like. Not much else to say, really. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

16th Nov 2010, 10:44 AM	#5
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Cuddling? I like the hair stroke, when he's running his fingers through your hair. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

16th Nov 2010, 10:58 AM	#7
MMAnick MMA Nick Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 30% BI and 70% Gay i do belive at this point Out Status: 1 person :) Location: GA Age: 23 Posts: 137 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Cuddling? I so would love to fall asleep in the arms of a guy i could call my bf right now.......cuddling is good anytime __________________ "But they ALL didn't see...the little bit of sadness in me..." - Kid Cudi

16th Nov 2010, 11:25 AM	#8
RainbowJay The one that got away Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Facebook, a few friends, hopefully more peeps soon Location: New York Age: 19 Posts: 683 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: Cuddling? I like cuddling, it always makes me feel better

16th Nov 2010, 11:32 AM	#9
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: Cuddling? I love being cuddled and I love to snuggle up to that person and one day my boyfriend/husband. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

16th Nov 2010, 02:37 PM	#10
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Cuddling? I'm wanna find me someone to cuddle with right now! __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

16th Nov 2010, 02:40 PM	#11
Lady Gaga Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Cuddling? I LOVE CUDDLING excitement :3

16th Nov 2010, 02:42 PM	#12
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Cuddling? I'm torn about cuddling or touching, even amongst friends. I crave touch but at the same time gender dysphoria has always made me really uncomfortable letting people into my personal space. Hopefully now that I'm semi-out, I'll get better about being so aloof. I definitely feel better in my own skin after accepting myself. I managed to get in a wrestling match/tickle fight with my roommate last night without tensing up, so maybe I'm getting better? __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

16th Nov 2010, 03:01 PM	#13
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,082 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Cuddling? The closest I've been is a small hug.. I'd love to cuddle though, I'm sure it amazing lol __________________ Through pain, lies success.

16th Nov 2010, 04:17 PM	#14
Rikudo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: Cuddling? Not a big cuddler. __________________ "Out of love, sacrifice is born... Hate is born... and we are able to know pain!"

16th Nov 2010, 04:30 PM	#15
x2x2x2x2y2 PARAWHORE!!!!!! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: ~I like guys~ Out Status: Everyone, pretty much. Location: Wonderland (and California, USA) Age: 18 Posts: 3,971 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: Cuddling? Never cuddled, but it sounds really good. __________________ "THINGS ARE LOOKING UP, OH FINALLY!!" "I believe that there's hope buried beneath it all and...Hiding beneath it all and... GROWING beneath it all!!" -Paramore ...and the lesbians

16th Nov 2010, 05:39 PM	#16
TheEdend Hope will never be silent EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Extended family still doesn't know Location: Orlando, Florida Age: 21 Posts: 2,831 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: Cuddling? I like to cuddle, but I can't stand falling asleep or sleeping while you cuddle xD __________________ “You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no result” -Gandhi

16th Nov 2010, 06:07 PM	#18
Dare2bProud Theatre Scholar Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: MO Age: 28 Posts: 627 Join Date: Mar 2009	Re: Cuddling? sigh I need someone to cuddle with!

16th Nov 2010, 06:15 PM	#19
GoinStag I'm straight now............sikeeee Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guy fetish Out Status: Parents, siblings, and therapist Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 1,485 Join Date: May 2010	Re: Cuddling? I want and need to cuddle so badly. SIGH __________________ *I've been thinking 'bout this all day long, Never felt a feeling quite this strong...I can't believe how much it turns me on, Just to be your man...*

16th Nov 2010, 09:03 PM	#20
stad90 Your neighbourly nutball. Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 20 Posts: 101 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: Cuddling? I LOVE the idea of cuddling... which is strange, since I'm not a really touchy-feely kind of person (unless it's with somebody that I'm VERY close to). But with somebody special? That sounds amazing! sigh now I feel even more lonely... :/