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Is porn cheating?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Holmes, Dec 3, 2010.

  1. Holmes

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    I've been going out with a boy since May, and things are still going well, I see no reason not to presume we'll still be together for a good while. There's a good sexual chemistry between us as well as everything else, but for logistical reasons (we both live at home), we can't sleep together as often as we'd like.

    Lately, I've started to watch porn more than I used to. Certainly for the first few months we were together, I hardly did at all. Is this a problem? I'm kind of trying to make a stab at what is usual for someone in a relationship. Watching boys at it online does mainly remind me of us being together, rather than me wanting to be either of them, and I don't think it effects how I am with him. At the same time, I feel I should probably scale down how much I do watch it online, even aside from the waste of time side of things.
     
  2. Lady Gaga

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    No it's not cheating. Either you watch porn or you imagine it. Both are basically the same.

    I wouldn't tell my boyfriend to stop watching porn, because I don't see how it could be cheating
     
  3. Shevanel

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    It's up to the individual and also the couple's dynamic.
     
  4. QuietDude

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    I wouldn't say it's cheating.
     
  5. midwestblues

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    No.
     
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    Lenape [Delaware] (United States) Ku
    Lenape [Delaware] (United States) Mata
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Kuta
    Lenape (Delaware United States) U mayay
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ta hashi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ta chich
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Mahchikwi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Alalan
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ku kesi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ku nkesi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ku ktakohchi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Ku ntakohchi
    Lenape (Delaware United States) Okeksene
    Leningitij (Australia) Ngga'
    Lingala (Congo, Angola) Té
    Lingua Franca (Mediterranean) No
    Lingua Franca (Mediterranean) Non
    Lithuanian (Lithuania) Ne
    Lithuanian (Lithuania) [very informal] A'a
    Lithuanian (Lithuania) [very informal] M'm
    Livonian (Latvia, Estonia) Äb
    Livonian (Latvia, Estonia) [you] Ät
    Livonian (Latvia, Estonia) [me/I] Äb
    Loglan (international) No
    Low Saxon (Eastern Friesland) Nee
    Low Saxon [Northern Low Saxon] (Germany) Nee
    Low Saxon [Westphalian] (Germany) Ne
    [Luganda, see Ganda]
    Luiseño (Southern California USA) Qay
    Luiseño (Southern California USA) Gai
    Lunda (Zambia) Inehi
    Lunyankole (South Uganda) Ngaaha
    Lunyoro (West Uganda) Nangwa
    Lunyoro (West Uganda) Kwaha
    Luo (Sudan, Kenya) Ooyo
    Lushootseed (Seattle Washington USA) Xwí?
    Luvale (Zambia) Kagute
    Luxemburgish (Luxemburg) Neen
    Luxemburgish (Luxemburg) Nee

    Mabuiag (Australia) Lawnga
    Macedonian (Macedonia) Ne
    Mae [Emwae] (New Hebrides Pacifc Islands) Ikai
    Magindano (New Guinea) Dele
    [Magyar, see Hungarian]
    Malagasy (Madagascar) Tsia
    Malagasy (Madagascar) An, an
    Malay (Malaysia, Brunei) Tidak
    Malay (Malaysia, Brunei) Bukan
    Maltese (Malta) Le
    Mam (Guatemala) Mi
    Mam (Guatemala) Min
    Mampruli (Ghana) Ai
    Mamu (Queensland Australia) Yimba
    Manchu (China) Waka
    Manchu (China) [not] Aku
    Mandarin [Chinese] (China) Bu shi zhe yang
    Mandarin [Chinese] (China) Bu dui
    Mandarin [Chinese] (China) Meiyou
    Mandarin [Chinese] (China) Bu shi
    Mandinka (Senegal, Gambia) Hani
    Mang (China, Thailand, Vietnam) Ham
    Mansi [Vogul] (Russia) Aat
    Maohi (South Pacific) Aita
    Maori (New Zealand) Kao
    Maori (Cook Islands) Kare
    [Mapuche, see Mapudungun]
    Mapudungun [Mapuche] (Chile) Mü
    Marathi (Maharashtra India) Nahi
    Mari (Russia) Uke
    Maridjabin (Australia) Ampi
    Marimanindji (Australia) Mampi
    Maringgar (Australia) Ampu
    Marshallese (Marshall Islands) Jaab
    Masai (Kenya, Tanzania) Mme
    Mashi (Bukavu Congo-Kinshasa) Nanga
    [Mayan, see Yucatec Maya]
    Mayupampa (Bolivia) Aepotá?a
    Mende (Sierra Leone) A-a
    Meriam Mir (Australia) Nole
    [Miao, see Hmong]
    Michahay Yokuts (California USA) Gâmu
    Michif [Turtle Mt. Chippewa Cree] (Canada) Noo
    Michif [Turtle Mt. Chippewa Cree] (Canada) Pa miyeur
    Mien (Laos, Thailand) Mv [+ subject]
    Mien (Laos, Thailand) Maiv [+ subject]
    Mien (Vietnam) M´i mái
    Mikmaq (Canada) Moqwa
    Mina (Togo) Ao
    Minangkabau (West Sumatra Indonesia) Indak
    Mingo (North America) Hë'ë
    Miskito (Nicargua, Honduras) Apia
    Miwok [Amador] (NE Sierra California USA) Ewutû
    Miwok [Bodega] (West Coast California USA) Hama
    Miwok [Lake] (N Coast Califorina USA) Hella
    Miwok [Marin] (S Coast Califorina USA) Huma
    Miwok [Mariposa] (S Sierra California USA) Ken
    Miwok [N Sierra] (N Sierra California USA) 'Ewyty'
    Miwok [N Sierra] (Calif. USA) [informal] 'E'eh
    Miwok [Plains] (NW Sierra California USA) Hela
    Miwok [Tuolomne] (Central Sierra Cal. USA) Ewutu
    Mixe (Mexico) Ka'p
    Mixe (Juquila Mexico) Kiáp
    Mixe (Totontepec Mexico) Ka
    Mixtec (Santa Catarina Estetla Mexico) Ña d+u
    Mixtec (Xicayan Mexico) Koó
    Mixtec (Oaxaca Mexico) Tú'
    Mixtec (Oaxaca Mexico) Túu
    Mlabri (Laos, Thailand) Met
    Mobilian (North America) Ekshu
    Modoc (Northern California) Q'ay
    Möhineyam (California United States) Nau
    Mon (Burma) H&ugravee;'
    Mon (Thailand) Ha
    Monegasque (Monaco) Non
    Mongolian (Mongolia) Ügüi
    Mongolian (Mongolia) [not this] Bish
    Mono (Inyo California USA) Karu
    Mono (North Fork California USA) Gadu
    Mono (North Fork California USA) Garu
    Mòoré (Burkina Faso) Ayo
    Mopá-maya (Guatemala) Ma'
    Mordvin (Russia) Aras
    Mordvin (Russia) Ajaš
    Mordvin (Russia) Aš
    Mullukmulluk (Australia) Akana

    Náhuatl [Aztec] (Mexico, El Salvador) Amo
    Nakota (USA, Canada) Hiya
    Nanai (Russia) Edi
    Nanai (Russia) Ana:
    Nandi (Kenya) Achicha
    Nangikurrunggurr (Australia) Minta
    Nauruan (Nauru Oceania) Iòk
    Nauruan (Nauru Oceania) Deò ei
    Navajo (United States) Dooda
    Navajo (United States) Ndaga'
    Naxi (Yunnan China) Me waq
    Ndebele (Southern Africa) Hayi
    Ndjebbana (Australia) Koma
    Ndjuka (Suriname) Nono
    Nenets (Russia) Ya'ngo
    Nepali (Nepal) Ahaa
    Nepali (Nepal) [definition] Hoina
    Nepali (Nepal) [location] Chaina
    Newari (Nepal) Makhu
    Ngadjonji (Australia) Ngarru
    Ngadjunma (Australia) Jowandjan
    Ngbaka (Africa) Ùú
    Nhirrpi (Australia) [lit. don't] Warrayi
    Nigerian Pidgin (Nigeria) No
    Norwegian [Nynorsk, Bokmaal] (Norway) Nei
    Norwegian [Sortlandsk] (Sortland Norway) Næi
    Nukuoro (Pacific Islands) Deai
    Nupe (Africa) Áà
    Nupe (Africa) Àwâ
    Nutúnutu Yokuts (Kings River Calif. USA) Ohò'm
    Nyungar (Australia) Juat

    [Occitan, see Provencal]
    [Ocuilteco, see Tlahuica]
    Ofo (North America) Ni
    Ojibwe [Chippewa] (United States) Gaawesa
    Opata (Mexico) Kai
    Orok (Russia) Ana
    Osage (North America) Hon'-ka-zhi
    Osage (North America) On'ka-zhi
    Ossetian (Caucasus) Nö
    Ossetian (Caucasus) Næ
    Ossetian (Caucasus) Noun
    Otetela (Lodja Congo-Kinshasa) Mbu
    !O!ung (Angola) |kwa
    !O!ung (Angola) |kwi
    !O!ung (Angola) Kwi

    Paamese (Vanuatu) Vuo
    Paamese (Vanuatu) Vuol
    Paamese (Vanuatu) Vuel
    Pakanh (Australia) Ya'a
    Palewyami Yokuts (Poso Creek Calif. USA) K'ami
    [Palpamadramadra, see Nhirrpi]
    Pame (Mexico) Mwi
    Pame (Mexico) Pame
    Pangan (Ulu Aring Malaysia) Ning
    Pangan (Kerbat Malaysia) Neng
    Papago (United States, Mexico) Pia'a
    Pappua (Papua New Guinea) Roba
    Parana (Bolivia) Aní
    Parintintin (Brazil) Nãhã
    Pashto (Afghanistan, Pakistan) Na
    Pashto (Afghanistan, Pakistan) Nakhayr
    Passamaqoddy (Maine USA) [polite] Kotama
    Passamaqoddy (Maine USA) [slang] Konotiri
    Passamaqoddy (Maine USA) [slang] Ne
    Paumarí (Brazil) [answer to question] Iniani
    Paumarí (Brazil) [forbidding] Hari'a
    Pauserna (Bolivia) Áni
    Paviotso (California United States) Karu
    Pende (Congo-Kinshasa) M'khu
    [Penobscot, see Abenaki]
    [Persian, see Farsi]
    Phorhépecha [Purépecha] (Mexico) Ámbe
    Phorhépecha [Purépecha] (Mexico) Ástarhu
    Phorhépecha [Purépecha] (Mexico) Ási
    [Pidgin English, see Nigerian Pidgin, Pijin and Tok Pisin]
    Pijin (Solomon Islands) No
    Pijin (Solomon Islands) Nomoa
    [Pikanii, see Blackfoot]
    Pima (Mexico) Pia'a
    Pipil (El Salvador) Inte
    Pipil (El Salvador) Tesu
    Pipil (El Salvador) Tee
    Pitjantjatjara (Australia) Wiya
    Pikern (Pitcairn Island) Eeno
    Plattdeutsch (Germany) Nau
    Plattdeutsch (Germany) Nee
    [Plautdietsch, see Plattdeutsch]
    Pocomam (Guatemala) Ma
    Pocomam (Guatemala) Ntaj
    Pocomam (Guatemala) Ntax
    Pocomam (Guatemala) Ta
    Pocomchi (Guatemala) Maa
    Pocomchi (Guatemala) Ma...ta
    Polish (Poland) Nie
    Polynesian (Polynesia) Si'ai
    Polynesian (Polynesia) Siei
    Pomo (California USA) Kui
    Popoloca (Mexico) Da'
    Popoluca (Mexico) Caj
    Portuguese (Portugal, Brazil) Não
    Potawatomi (North America) Co
    Provencal [Occitan] (France) Non
    Provencal [Occitan] (France) [formal] Nani
    [Pular, see Fulani]
    Punjabi (India) Naheen
    Punjabi (India) Nahi
    Pulawat (Micronesia) Yaapw
    Pulawat (Micronesia) Mmm
    Pulawat (Micronesia) Yeehee
    Puoc (Australia) Pa

    Quechua Ancashino (Ancash Peru) Manam
    Quechua Cochabambino (Cochabamba Bolivia) Mana
    Quechua Cuzqueño (Cuzco Peru) Manan
    Quechua (Andes South America) [forbidding] Ama
    Quiché [K'iche] (Guatemala) Ma-
    Quiché [K'iche] (Guatemala) Man...taj
    Quichua (Ecuador, Argentina) Mana

    Rapanui (Easter Island) Ina
    [Rarámuri, see Tarahumara]
    Rarotongan (South Pacific) Kare
    Redondo Tupi-Guarani (South America) Haeñum´
    Resígaro (Peru) Nií
    Resígaro (Peru) Niíkó
    Resígaro (Peru) Niíkámí
    Romani [Vlax] [Gypsy] (Europe) Na
    Romani [Sofia Erli] (Bulgaria) Na
    Romanian (Romania) Nu
    Romansch (Switzerland) Na
    Rotuman (Pacific Islands) 'Igka'i
    Rotuman (Pacific Islands) 'Igke'i
    [Runasimi, see Quechua]
    [Rundi, see Kirundi]
    Russian (Russia) Nyet

    Saanich (Vancouver Island Canada) ?ewe
    Sacapultec (Guatemala) Taj
    Saami [Lappish] (Scandinavia, Russia) Ále
    Saami [Davvi Saami] [Lappish](Scandinavia) Ii
    Saami [Inari Saami] [Lappish](Scandinavia) Ij
    Saami [Skolt Saami] [Lappish](Scandianvia) Ij
    Sa'dan Toraja (Indonesia) Tae
    Sakai (Sungai Raya Malaysia) Täto to
    Sakai (Sungai Raya Malaysia) Tahatna
    Sakao (Espiritu Santo Vanuatu) Meré
    Sakao (Espiritu Santo Vanuatu) Öhö
    Samoan (Samoa) Leai
    San Juan Capistrano (California USA) Kai
    Sango (Central Africa Republic) Ipo
    Saramaccan (Suriname) Nõnö
    Saramaccan (Suriname) Ná
    Sara-Ngambay (Chad) Waà
    Sardinian (Italy) No
    Sarnami (Suriname, Holland) Na
    Sasak (Indonesia) Nde
    Savonian (Ylä-Savo Finland) Ee
    Scots (Scotland) Naw
    Scots (Scotland) Nae
    Scots [Ulster Scots] (Northern Ireland) Na
    Sema (India) Mo
    Sepedi (South Africa) Aowa
    Serbian (Bosnia, Yugoslavia) Ne
    Seri (Mexico) Saate
    Serrano (California United States) Nou
    Seselwa [Seychelles Creole] (Seychelles) Non
    Sesotho (Lesotho, South Africa) Tjhe
    Sesotho (Lesotho, South Africa) Tjhee
    Sesotho (Lesotho, South Africa) Aikona
    Setswana (Botswana, South Africa) Nyaa
    Setu (Estonia) Õiõ
    Sherpa [Helambu] (Nepal, Tibet) Ahha
    Sherpa [Helambu] (Nepal, Tibet) Mecheye
    Sherpa [Solu] (Nepal, Tibet) Me sheki
    Shimasiwa (Comoros) Uh uh
    Shikaviyam (California United States) Gè
    Shina (India, Central Asia) Neh
    Shipibo (Peru) Icáma
    Shona (Zimbabwe) Aiwa
    Shona (Zimbabwe) Kwete
    Shoshoni (United States) Kai
    Shuar (Ecuador, Peru) Atsa
    Sicilian (Sicily Italy) Nuddu
    Sicilian (Sicily Italy) Nessunu
    Silozi (Zambia) Baatili
    Sindhi (Pakistan) Na
    Sindhi (Pakistan) Ma
    Sinhalese (Sri Lanka) Natha
    Sipacapa (Guatemala) Qa
    Siswati [Swazi] (Swaziland) Ha
    Slovak (Slovakia) Nie
    Slovenian (Slovenia) Ne
    Solresol (old; international) Do
    Somali (East Africa) Maya
    Soninke (Mali, Senegal) Ayi
    Sorbian (eastern Germany) Ne
    Spanish (Spain, America) No
    Spokane (United States) Tá
    Sranan (Suriname) Nono
    Sundanese [Basa Sunda] (Indonesia) Heunteu
    Sundanese [Basa Sunda] (Indonesia) Sanes
    Sundanese [Basa Sunda] (Indonesia) [don't] Ulah
    Sursilvan (Switzerland) Na
    Swabian (Central Europe) Noe
    [Swahili, see Kiswahili]
    [Swazi, see Siswati]
    Swedish (Sweden, Finland) Nej

    Tachi Yokuts (Tulare Lake California USA) Ohom
    Tagalog (Philippines) [to elder] Hindi po
    Tagalog (Philippines) [same age/younger] Hindi
    Tahitian (Tahiti) Aita
    Taino (Caribbean, Florida USA) U'a
    Taino (Caribbean, Florida USA) [emphatic] Wu'a
    Tajik (Tajikstan) Ne
    Taki-taki (French Guyana) Nono
    Tamashek (West Africa) Kala-kala
    Tamil (India, Southeast Asia) Illai
    Tamil (India, Southeast Asia) Venda
    Tapiete (Argentina, Bolivia, Paraguay) Baety
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Ké
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Que
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Quetasi
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Tásirapé
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Tasi
    Tarahumara [Rarámuri] (Mexico) Tarapé
    [Tarasco, see Phorhepecha]
    Tarawan (Oceania) Akêa
    Tashkorghani (Central Asia) Nay
    Tatar (Russia) Yuk
    Tay (Vietnam) Boomi
    Tehuelche (Argentina) Gom
    Telefol (Papua New Guinea) Umbae
    Telefol (Papua New Guinea) Bae
    Telugu (India) Kaddu
    Telugu (India) Ledu
    Tepehua (Mexico) Maitague
    Tetum (East Timor) Lae
    Tetum (East Timor) [before a verb] La
    [Teuso, see Icetot]
    Thai (Thailand) Mai
    Thai (Thailand) Maidai
    Thai (Thailand) Maichai
    Thai (Thailand) Maioua
    Thangmi [Thami] (Himalayas) Ma-ja
    Tibetan (Tibet, China) Yo
    Tibetan (Tibet, China) Marey
    Tibetan (Tibet, China) Meyin
    Tigre (Ethiopia) La'
    Tigre (Ethiopia) [emphatic] Lala'
    Tigrinya (Ethiopia) Ay-[+verb root]-n
    Tjalkadjara (Australia) Tailpa
    Tlahuica [Ocuilteco] (Mexico) T'akwha
    Tlingit (Canada) Klek
    Tlingit (Southeastern Alaska) Tleix
    Tojolabal (Chiapas Mexico) Miyuc
    Tojolabal (Chiapas Mexico) Mi
    Tok Pisin (Papua New Guinea) Nogat
    Tongan (Tonga Pacific Islands) 'Ikai
    Tongva (USA) Hí-ekh
    [Torres Strait Broken, see Yumpla Tok]
    Totonac (Veracruz Mexico) Nichuna
    Trobes Tokples (Trobriand Papua N. Guinea) Gala
    Tsafiqui (Ecuador) Te
    [Tsalagi, see Cherokee]
    Tschiluba (Kasai Occidental Region, Zaire) To
    Tseshaht (British Columbia Canada) Wik
    Tübatulabal (California United States) Haic
    Tukang Besi (Indonesia) Mbe'ae
    Tulamni Yokuts (Buena Vista Lake Cal. USA) Anhan
    Tulu (India) Ijji
    Tulu (India) Iddi
    Tupi [Nheengatu] (Brazil) Mbaa
    Tupi [Tembé Tenetéhar] (Amazon Brazil) Naani
    Tupi [Tembé Tenetéhar] (Brazil) [emphatic) Naanikwaw
    Tupi [Tembé Tenetéhar] (Brazil) [by women] Naani-mia
    Turkish (Turkey, Northern Cyprus) Hayir
    Turkmen (Turkmenistan) Yok
    Tuvan (Russia) Chok
    Twi (Ghana) Daabí
    Tzeltal (Chiapas Mexico) Ju'uk
    Tzeltal (Chiapas Mexico) [there isn't] Ma'yuk
    Tzotzil (Chiapas Mexico) I'i
    Tzotzil (Chiapas Mexico) Mo'oj
    Tzotzil (Chiapas Mexico)[before consonant] Mu
    Tzotzil (Chiapas Mexico)[before vowel] Muc
    Tzutujil (Mexico) Ma
    Tzutujil (Mexico) Maan

    Udmurt (Russia) Övöl
    Ukrainian (Ukraine) Ni
    Ulcha (Russia) Ana
    Urdu (Pakistan, India, Central Asia) Nahin
    Urdu (Pakistan, India, Central Asia) NehiiN
    Urubu (Brazil) Anin
    Uspantec (Guatemala) Ta'
    Ute (Colorado and Utah USA) Kach
    Ute (Colorado and Utah USA) Ka-
    Uyghur (Central Asia) Jyok
    Uyghur (Central Asia) Yaq
    Uzbek (Uzbekistan, Afghanistan) Yuk
    Uzbek (Uzbekistan, Afghanistan) Yöq

    Valencian (Spain) No
    Veps (Russia) Ei
    Vietnamese (Vietnam) Không
    Vietnamese (Vietnam) Thưa không
    Villamontes Tupi-Guarani (Bolivia) Awigi
    Visayan [Cebuano] (Philippines) Dili
    Visayan [old Cebuano] (Philippines) [old] Tifale
    [Vlaams, see Dutch (Belgium)]
    [Vogul, see Mansi]
    Votic (Russia) Ei
    Votic (Russia) EB
    Votic (Russia) Ep

    Wagiman (Australia) Wihya
    Waigali (India) Mi
    Wakhi (Central Asia) Neis
    Wali [Wa] (Northern Ghana) Aye
    Waljen (Australia) Wandi
    Walpiri (Australia) [literally: 'nothing'] Lawa
    Walpiri (Australia) [in negative commands] Walku
    Wangaaybuwan-ngiyambaa (Australia) Wangaay
    Wangaaybuwan-ngiyambaa (Australia) Wayil
    Washo (California United States) Ès
    Waura (Brazil) A
    Waura (Brazil) Aitsa
    Wayilwan (Australia) Wayil
    Wechihit Yokuts (Sanger California USA) Ohòm
    Welsh (Wales) Na
    Welsh (Wales) [no I didn't] Naddo
    Welsh (Wales) [no I didn't] Nage
    Welsh (Wales) [no I don't want] Nagoes
    Welsh (Wales) [no I am not] Nac ydw
    Wik-mungkan (Australia) Ya'a
    Winnemem Wintu (California United States) El-eh-oh
    Wintu (California United States) Min
    Wintu (California United States) Mina
    Wiradjuri (Australia) Wirraay
    Wiyot (California United States) Kia
    Wo'lasi Yokuts [Wo'ladji] (Calif. USA) Ohom
    Wolof (West Africa) Deedeet
    Wükchamni Yokuts (Kaweah River Calif. USA) K'amu

    /Xam (South Africa) |na
    //Xegwi (South Africa) K'au
    //Xegwi (South Africa) K'auki
    Xerente (Brazil) Anrê
    Xetá (Brazil) Ñiá
    Xhosa (South Africa) Hayi

    Yamagata (Japan) Nne
    Yao (Africa) Ngava
    Yaqui (Mexico, United States) 'É'e
    Yawdanchi Yokuts (foothills Californ. USA) K'amu
    Yawelmani Yokuts (Kern River Calif. USA) Ohom
    Yiddish (Europe) Nit
    Yiddish (Europe) Neyn
    Yindjibarndi (Australia) Mita
    Yokuts [Buena Vista] (foothills Calif.) Anhan
    Yokuts [Poso Creek] (foothills Calif. USA) K'ami
    Yokuts [Tule] (foothills California USA) K'amu
    Yokuts [Kings River] (foothills Calif.) K'amu
    Yokuts (north valley California USA) Ohom
    Yolngu Matha (Australia) Yaka
    Yoruba (Benin, Nigeria) Rara
    Yoruba (Benin, Nigeria) Oti
    Yoruba (Benin, Nigeria) Béè kó
    Yucatec Maya (Yucatán Mexico) Ma'
    Yucatec Maya (Yucatán Mexico) Maa
    Yugur [Western Yugur] (Gansu China) Yahq
    Yuki (California United States) Tan
    Yuki (California United States) Mi-tang-keh
    Yumpla Tok (Torres Strait Australia) No
    Yupik (Alaska USA) Ganga

    Zapotec (Oaxaca Mexico) Que
    Zapotec (Oaxaca Mexico) Ka'á
    Zapotec (Oaxaca Mexico) Ko'
    Zapotec (Oaxaca Mexico) Akti
    Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico) Bi
    Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico) Bito
    Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico) Cabi
    Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico) Abi
    Zapotec (Zoogocho Mexico) Bi
    Zapotec (Zoogocho Mexico) Bibi
    Zapotec (Zoogocho Mexico) Bitw
    Zapotec (Zoogocho Mexico) Cabi
    Zhuang (China) Bow
    Zhurzhen (China) Ejxe
    Zoque (Mexico) Watkáh
    Zoque (Mexico) Ja'ne
    Zoque (Mexico) N@7tti
    Zulu (South Africa, Lesotho) Cha
    Zulu (South Africa, Lesotho) Tsha
    Zulu (South Africa, Lesotho) Haai ngeko
    Zuñi (Southwest United States) 'Ella
     
  7. malachite

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  8. Paradox

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    That would be hapana (I represent the Swahili community :dry:slight_smile: but yeah no. :icon_bigg
     
  9. Gerry

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    No. It's definitely not cheating.
     
  10. Lexington

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    Let me tell you about two guys I actually know.

    K is married and lives with his wife. One night while she was out of town, he looked at some porn and jerked off to it.

    P is married and lives with his wife. While he was in another town for a business trip, he met a girl at a bar. He took her home, made out with her, and had sex with her.

    Which one of these guys cheated?

    Believe it or not, it was K. Why? Because he and his wife had an agreement. She had a major issue with pornography, as she felt it was degrading to women. And so K promised her that he wouldn't look at pornography anymore. Maybe that wasn't a smart thing to do, and maybe that wasn't a promise he meant to keep. But the thing is - he promised to do it. And he broke that promise. Therefore, he cheated by looking at porn.

    P, on the other hand, has an open relationship with his wife. I'm not sure what the (ahem) ins and outs are when it comes to this relationship, but they came to an agreement early in their relationship. They both are able to meet other people, and have sex with them, within the confines of their relationship. And therefore, P wasn't cheating by having sex with this other woman.

    So back to you. Are you cheating by looking at porn? That depends. Did you promise to stop? Did you tell him you weren't going to look at porn and/or jerk off now that you were in a relationship with him? If you did, you're cheating. If you didn't, you aren't.

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    That's not cheating. That's just disloyalty. What is she going to tell her girlfriends; "He was cheating on me with his hand/Butt Quest 2"?
     
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    You are missing the point.
     
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    No, I got the point. Jerking off to porn, in some extreme relationships, may entail a gravity similar to cheating. That doesn't make it cheating.
     
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    If you don't follow rules in a board game, what are you called?? A cheater. Same thing.
     
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    I don't see how porn can be cheating...at all.
     
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    No, definitely not.
     
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    I don't consider porn cheating, and I do believe in open relationships if that's something the other person wants (I think swinging is healthy for monogamous relationships between people with diverse sexual appetites and good communication skills). However, it goes without saying that anything you do on the downlow - sneaking around and lying - is probably disloyal on some level.

    However, if I was dating someone and they told me they didn't want me to look at porn, I would give them a really weird look, because that's controlling on a level I don't want to deal with. To be honest, even though I don't watch porn often or anything, it would make me want to do it out of spite.

    Porn is fantasy - nothing more. In fact, a lot of it is outrageous and silly to emphasize that fact.
     
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    Please do not mention porn movies, actors or production companies.
     
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    I think Lex really got at what I'm getting at. Call it cheating, call it disloyalty, I'm wondering if it is something I shouldn't do while I'm with him, or should at least try not to do.

    I don't know what he'd think, because I haven't asked him. We've never talked about porn, the closest was in some general conversation, with others there, he mentioned that Sylvester Stallone had done porn. I asked if he'd seen them. He said no. The few of us went on talking.

    Is it something that I should ask him about in a moment of serious conversation, or just presume most boys know that other boys sometimes watch porn? As I said before, it's not like I spend that much time, but more than once a week.
     
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    I'd go with the latter, just presume he knows. If you haven't talked with him about it, it's more likely that he's okay with the idea of you looking at porn. If you have no problem with the idea of him looking at porn, then you should have no problem with the idea of yourself looking at porn.