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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by oisin23, Dec 7, 2010.

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  1. oisin23

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    I am in so much bother i have had the worst feww weeks of my life.

    i was talking in college to a freind and this asshoel overheard me talking bout not having came out to my parents yet. this guy has hated me for years.

    well me invites over to his house , i think to patch things up but no i was way wrong.

    as soon as i get not his house he tells me to get into his room or he will beat me up, he forces me to give him a bj and films it. next he brnigs me down stairs and tells me to go into the kitchen.

    this s where i get jumped by three other guys and they grab me and duct atpe me to a chair , he then proceeds to shave me with clippers with no guard on it , after this he and his mates put shaving cream all over my head and use razors to shave my head.

    they untape me and he tells me that everyday i have to keep my head completely shaved with no growth not even stubble or he will release the video and tell me parents.

    what should i do
     
    #1 oisin23, Dec 7, 2010
  2. FizzDurand

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    This sounds slightly fictional but i must say there is no stopping with bullies you should let your hair grow then say 'well if you release that video i will go straight to the police and get you done for rape' that should stop him :grin: hope i was some help xx
     
    #2 FizzDurand, Dec 7, 2010
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    Call the police on him. What are you waiting for?
     
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    Call the police.
     
    #4 Kerze, Dec 7, 2010
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    Well, let's see.....He raped you (which there's proof for), jumped you, shaved your head, and is now blackmailing you. How bout calling the police......?
     
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    Like FizzDurand I must confess this sounds more like a fiction than something that really happened. This guy would have to be mighty stupid to keep evidence of rape with him, and even more so to shave your head. How do you even explain the suden change in hairstyle?

    That said, the best option here is to give him what's coming. Because blackmail is never worth it and only gets worse in the end. So the only option here is to go to the police and tell them everything. Awkward, maybe, but ask yourself: is it really worth it to put yourslf at the mercy of a guy that will keep blackmailing (and worse) for as long as he's able to?
     
    #6 Filip, Dec 7, 2010
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    My $.02....

    Call the police. What they did to you is just flat out wrong.

    On the parents not knowing part of the deal.... My parents would be more pissed off and upset that I let someone do that to me and not report it than me telling them that I'm gay.
     
    #7 Remk, Dec 7, 2010
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    Call the police.
     
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    Sorry, but this sounds like a load of crap.

    Anyone who is stupid enough to FILM a felony and then force-cut someone's hair would be caught in a second.

    EC is a community for people who are genuinely seeking help and support. A brand-new poster that's never posted before, offering a story that sounds more like something out of a porn fan fiction forum than a genuine request for assistance will not be well received here.

    And seriously, why on earth would anyone who has been through such an event post to a brand new community they've never been part of instead of calling the police?
     
    #9 Chip, Dec 7, 2010
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    Exactly!
     
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    if this is serious you need to tell the police and honestly, your parents. I know it might be hard but you are going to have to do this for your own safety and to stop this guy.

    Rape is a serious thing and that is what has happened and if he filmed it and you inform the police and your parents so they can also account for the hair style change then that needs to happen. Also inform the cops of everyone involved so they can get them before he has any chance of destroying evidence.

    I'm taking this seriously and i think others should on the basis of an accusation of rape is incredibly serious and the situation is incredibly serious. If this is not a true story i would come clean now because this is a very serious matter.
     
    #11 Beachboi92, Dec 7, 2010
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    I wouldn't hold my breath.
     
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    Tyra says "blah blah blah" to this post.

    [​IMG]
     
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    Except this is the Internet, where your average "Help, I was raped" B-porno scenario can be taken as seriously as this widespread gem:

     
    #15 midwestblues, Dec 8, 2010
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    Wow that's even more hilarious....and yeah, notice the dude hasn't made a post since this one...anywhere on the site. This is like his one and only site. I bet he was some idiotic homophobic straight guy >_> I mean come on, would any of you actually go to the house of the guy who hates you? Really?
     
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    What would you do if that was true?
     
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    Okay, guys, let's keep this from becoming a gallery of internet stories you read somewhere or character assessments of the OP.

    The OP has his answer, and it's unanymous: it's best to contact the police.
    If he wants to discuss further, the OP is always welcome to PM myself or any other staff member about it!
     
    #18 Filip, Dec 8, 2010
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