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oisin23 · 7th Dec 2010, 06:05 AM

I am in so much bother i have had the worst feww weeks of my life.

i was talking in college to a freind and this asshoel overheard me talking bout not having came out to my parents yet. this guy has hated me for years.

well me invites over to his house , i think to patch things up but no i was way wrong.

as soon as i get not his house he tells me to get into his room or he will beat me up, he forces me to give him a bj and films it. next he brnigs me down stairs and tells me to go into the kitchen.

this s where i get jumped by three other guys and they grab me and duct atpe me to a chair , he then proceeds to shave me with clippers with no guard on it , after this he and his mates put shaving cream all over my head and use razors to shave my head.

they untape me and he tells me that everyday i have to keep my head completely shaved with no growth not even stubble or he will release the video and tell me parents.

what should i do

FizzDurand · 7th Dec 2010, 06:18 AM

This sounds slightly fictional but i must say there is no stopping with bullies you should let your hair grow then say 'well if you release that video i will go straight to the police and get you done for rape' that should stop him

hope i was some help xx

Moonstrike · 7th Dec 2010, 06:27 AM

Call the police on him. What are you waiting for?

Kerze · 7th Dec 2010, 06:40 AM

Call the police.

GoinStag · 7th Dec 2010, 07:06 AM

Well, let's see.....He raped you (which there's proof for), jumped you, shaved your head, and is now blackmailing you. How bout calling the police......?

**Filip** · 7th Dec 2010, 07:39 AM

Like FizzDurand I must confess this sounds more like a fiction than something that really happened. This guy would have to be mighty stupid to keep evidence of rape with him, and even more so to shave your head. How do you even explain the suden change in hairstyle?

That said, the best option here is to give him what's coming. Because blackmail is never worth it and only gets worse in the end. So the only option here is to go to the police and tell them everything. Awkward, maybe, but ask yourself: is it really worth it to put yourslf at the mercy of a guy that will keep blackmailing (and worse) for as long as he's able to?

Remk · 7th Dec 2010, 09:03 AM

My $.02....

Call the police. What they did to you is just flat out wrong.

On the parents not knowing part of the deal.... My parents would be more pissed off and upset that I let someone do that to me and not report it than me telling them that I'm gay.

maverick · 7th Dec 2010, 09:04 AM

Call the police.

**Chip** · 7th Dec 2010, 01:28 PM

Sorry, but this sounds like a load of crap.

Anyone who is stupid enough to FILM a felony and then force-cut someone's hair would be caught in a second.

EC is a community for people who are genuinely seeking help and support. A brand-new poster that's never posted before, offering a story that sounds more like something out of a porn fan fiction forum than a genuine request for assistance will not be well received here.

And seriously, why on earth would anyone who has been through such an event post to a brand new community they've never been part of instead of calling the police?

Darkwing65 · 7th Dec 2010, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chip

Sorry, but this sounds like a load of crap.

Anyone who is stupid enough to FILM a felony and then force-cut someone's hair would be caught in a second.

EC is a community for people who are genuinely seeking help and support. A brand-new poster that's never posted before, offering a story that sounds more like something out of a porn fan fiction forum than a genuine request for assistance will not be well received here.

And seriously, why on earth would anyone who has been through such an event post to a brand new community they've never been part of instead of calling the police?

Exactly!

Beachboi92 · 7th Dec 2010, 07:53 PM

if this is serious you need to tell the police and honestly, your parents. I know it might be hard but you are going to have to do this for your own safety and to stop this guy.

Rape is a serious thing and that is what has happened and if he filmed it and you inform the police and your parents so they can also account for the hair style change then that needs to happen. Also inform the cops of everyone involved so they can get them before he has any chance of destroying evidence.

I'm taking this seriously and i think others should on the basis of an accusation of rape is incredibly serious and the situation is incredibly serious. If this is not a true story i would come clean now because this is a very serious matter.

**Chip** · 8th Dec 2010, 05:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beachboi92

If this is not a true story i would come clean now because this is a very serious matter.

I wouldn't hold my breath.

midwestblues · 8th Dec 2010, 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by oisin23

I am in so much bother i have had the worst feww weeks of my life.

i was talking in college to a freind and this asshoel overheard me talking bout not having came out to my parents yet. this guy has hated me for years.

well me invites over to his house , i think to patch things up but no i was way wrong.

as soon as i get not his house he tells me to get into his room or he will beat me up, he forces me to give him a bj and films it. next he brnigs me down stairs and tells me to go into the kitchen.

this s where i get jumped by three other guys and they grab me and duct atpe me to a chair , he then proceeds to shave me with clippers with no guard on it , after this he and his mates put shaving cream all over my head and use razors to shave my head.

they untape me and he tells me that everyday i have to keep my head completely shaved with no growth not even stubble or he will release the video and tell me parents.

what should i do

GoinStag · 8th Dec 2010, 08:46 AM

Tyra says "blah blah blah" to this post.

midwestblues · 8th Dec 2010, 09:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beachboi92

I'm taking this seriously and i think others should on the basis of an accusation of rape is incredibly serious and the situation is incredibly serious.

Except this is the Internet, where your average "Help, I was raped" B-porno scenario can be taken as seriously as this widespread gem:

Quote:

I am a single mother in her early thirties. Recently, I had a surgery that requires me to take high dosages of sleeping pills at night. They are very powerful and make me sleep heavily.

Starting about a week ago, I began waking up feeling sore, and agitated around my anus. I first thought that it was a possible side effect of the medication, but after consulting my doctor i was assured this was not the case.

It continued, and several nights later i forgot to take my medication. I fell asleep without much problem. I was shocked to be woken up later that night to sharp pains in my abdomen. I quickly realized that it was caused by my son (16 years old) penetrating me anally. I was so shocked i pretended to be asleep because I did not know how to deal with it at the time.

Please I am desperate. I do not know how to confront my son about this, and I am afraid of going to sleep with my medication again. I love my son, but i feel violated and lost. How should i handle this?

Revan · 8th Dec 2010, 11:48 AM

Wow that's even more hilarious....and yeah, notice the dude hasn't made a post since this one...anywhere on the site. This is like his one and only site. I bet he was some idiotic homophobic straight guy >_> I mean come on, would any of you actually go to the house of the guy who hates you? Really?

Connor22 · 8th Dec 2010, 12:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by midwestblues

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beachboi92

I'm taking this seriously and i think others should on the basis of an accusation of rape is incredibly serious and the situation is incredibly serious.

Except this is the Internet, where your average "Help, I was raped" B-porno scenario can be taken as seriously as this widespread gem:

Quote:

I am a single mother in her early thirties. Recently, I had a surgery that requires me to take high dosages of sleeping pills at night. They are very powerful and make me sleep heavily.

Starting about a week ago, I began waking up feeling sore, and agitated around my anus. I first thought that it was a possible side effect of the medication, but after consulting my doctor i was assured this was not the case.

It continued, and several nights later i forgot to take my medication. I fell asleep without much problem. I was shocked to be woken up later that night to sharp pains in my abdomen. I quickly realized that it was caused by my son (16 years old) penetrating me anally. I was so shocked i pretended to be asleep because I did not know how to deal with it at the time.

Please I am desperate. I do not know how to confront my son about this, and I am afraid of going to sleep with my medication again. I love my son, but i feel violated and lost. How should i handle this?

What would you do if that was true?

**Filip** · 8th Dec 2010, 12:47 PM

Okay, guys, let's keep this from becoming a gallery of internet stories you read somewhere or character assessments of the OP.

The OP has his answer, and it's unanymous: it's best to contact the police.
If he wants to discuss further, the OP is always welcome to PM myself or any other staff member about it!

7th Dec 2010, 06:05 AM	#1
oisin23 oisin23 Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: belfast ireland Posts: 1 Join Date: Dec 2010	bullied I am in so much bother i have had the worst feww weeks of my life. i was talking in college to a freind and this asshoel overheard me talking bout not having came out to my parents yet. this guy has hated me for years. well me invites over to his house , i think to patch things up but no i was way wrong. as soon as i get not his house he tells me to get into his room or he will beat me up, he forces me to give him a bj and films it. next he brnigs me down stairs and tells me to go into the kitchen. this s where i get jumped by three other guys and they grab me and duct atpe me to a chair , he then proceeds to shave me with clippers with no guard on it , after this he and his mates put shaving cream all over my head and use razors to shave my head. they untape me and he tells me that everyday i have to keep my head completely shaved with no growth not even stubble or he will release the video and tell me parents. what should i do

7th Dec 2010, 06:18 AM	#2
FizzDurand Currently Puking Glitter Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay But Prefers The Term Sparkley ;) Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Guernsey, UK Posts: 79 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: bullied This sounds slightly fictional but i must say there is no stopping with bullies you should let your hair grow then say 'well if you release that video i will go straight to the police and get you done for rape' that should stop him hope i was some help xx

7th Dec 2010, 06:27 AM	#3
Moonstrike Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: England Posts: 360 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: bullied Call the police on him. What are you waiting for?

7th Dec 2010, 06:40 AM	#4
Kerze Formerly Concretehands Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: two Location: London Town Age: 17 Posts: 1,297 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: bullied Call the police. __________________ Please Understand. We don't want no trouble, we just want the right to be different. That's all. - Pulp/Different Class

7th Dec 2010, 07:06 AM	#5
GoinStag I'm straight now............sikeeee Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guy fetish Out Status: Parents, siblings, and therapist Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 1,485 Join Date: May 2010	Re: bullied Well, let's see.....He raped you (which there's proof for), jumped you, shaved your head, and is now blackmailing you. How bout calling the police......? __________________ *I've been thinking 'bout this all day long, Never felt a feeling quite this strong...I can't believe how much it turns me on, Just to be your man...*

7th Dec 2010, 07:39 AM	#6
Filip Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: bullied Like FizzDurand I must confess this sounds more like a fiction than something that really happened. This guy would have to be mighty stupid to keep evidence of rape with him, and even more so to shave your head. How do you even explain the suden change in hairstyle? That said, the best option here is to give him what's coming. Because blackmail is never worth it and only gets worse in the end. So the only option here is to go to the police and tell them everything. Awkward, maybe, but ask yourself: is it really worth it to put yourslf at the mercy of a guy that will keep blackmailing (and worse) for as long as he's able to? __________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...

7th Dec 2010, 09:03 AM	#7
Remk Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Philly Suburbs. Age: 27 Posts: 41 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: bullied My $.02.... Call the police. What they did to you is just flat out wrong. On the parents not knowing part of the deal.... My parents would be more pissed off and upset that I let someone do that to me and not report it than me telling them that I'm gay.

7th Dec 2010, 09:04 AM	#8
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: bullied Call the police. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

7th Dec 2010, 01:28 PM	#9
Chip EC Advisor EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: northern CA Posts: 5,579 Join Date: May 2008	Re: bullied Sorry, but this sounds like a load of crap. Anyone who is stupid enough to FILM a felony and then force-cut someone's hair would be caught in a second. EC is a community for people who are genuinely seeking help and support. A brand-new poster that's never posted before, offering a story that sounds more like something out of a porn fan fiction forum than a genuine request for assistance will not be well received here. And seriously, why on earth would anyone who has been through such an event post to a brand new community they've never been part of instead of calling the police?

7th Dec 2010, 07:53 PM	#11
Beachboi92 Occasionally Caddy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: bullied if this is serious you need to tell the police and honestly, your parents. I know it might be hard but you are going to have to do this for your own safety and to stop this guy. Rape is a serious thing and that is what has happened and if he filmed it and you inform the police and your parents so they can also account for the hair style change then that needs to happen. Also inform the cops of everyone involved so they can get them before he has any chance of destroying evidence. I'm taking this seriously and i think others should on the basis of an accusation of rape is incredibly serious and the situation is incredibly serious. If this is not a true story i would come clean now because this is a very serious matter. __________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe

8th Dec 2010, 08:46 AM	#14
GoinStag I'm straight now............sikeeee Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guy fetish Out Status: Parents, siblings, and therapist Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 1,485 Join Date: May 2010	Re: bullied Tyra says "blah blah blah" to this post. __________________ *I've been thinking 'bout this all day long, Never felt a feeling quite this strong...I can't believe how much it turns me on, Just to be your man...*

8th Dec 2010, 11:48 AM	#16
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: bullied Wow that's even more hilarious....and yeah, notice the dude hasn't made a post since this one...anywhere on the site. This is like his one and only site. I bet he was some idiotic homophobic straight guy >_> I mean come on, would any of you actually go to the house of the guy who hates you? Really? __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

8th Dec 2010, 12:47 PM	#18
Filip Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: bullied Okay, guys, let's keep this from becoming a gallery of internet stories you read somewhere or character assessments of the OP. The OP has his answer, and it's unanymous: it's best to contact the police. If he wants to discuss further, the OP is always welcome to PM myself or any other staff member about it! __________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...

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