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7th Dec 2010, 05:39 PM
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| Newbie Regular Member  Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Posts: 1 Join Date: Dec 2010 |  Coming Out is Hard.... I just came out to my best friend, and I'm not sure how she's reacted yet. I gave her a letter explaining that I'm bi, and gave very specific instructions to read it after school in a private place where she can react accordingly to it. I also told her to please email me after she read it, but she hasn't emailed back...so now I'm really worried that she's scared of me or something. I also told her that I didn't have a crush on her, so she shouldn't have to worry about that. But still, this is alternately the most nerve wracking thing yet elating thing that I've ever done. Nerve wracking because she might be homophobic or something, but elating because I am out of the dank dark closet. So wish me luck that she accepts and loves me for who I am  |
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7th Dec 2010, 07:00 PM
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| EC's realist Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009 | Re: Coming Out is Hard.... Good luck 
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7th Dec 2010, 07:07 PM
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| ♫♥☼☮♫ Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Woman Out Status: Some people Location: Boston Age: 29 Posts: 187 Join Date: Sep 2010 | Re: Coming Out is Hard.... I hope you hear back at some point. When do you see her again? Keep us updated. |
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7th Dec 2010, 11:15 PM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,161 Join Date: Dec 2008 | Re: Coming Out is Hard.... Aww good luck, im sure it will be ok, perhaps she has just been busy and hasnt read it yet. We will be thinking of you. |
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8th Dec 2010, 05:13 AM
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| Cecile's sidekick EC Advisor   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Belgium, EU Age: 28 Posts: 3,366 Join Date: Feb 2009 | Re: Coming Out is Hard.... I'll keep my fingers crossed! Don't be too conerned about her not replying back immediately. Writing an e-mail after someone comes out is not exactly something people are used to doing, so it might take her a bit of time to formulate her thoughts and get them sent.
__________________ To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world... |
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8th Dec 2010, 08:19 AM
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| I'm straight now............sikeeee Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Guy fetish Out Status: Parents, siblings, and therapist Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 1,485 Join Date: May 2010 | Re: Coming Out is Hard.... She probably just needs a little time to take it all in. If it helps, I think guys are often more homophobic than girls. I could be wrong, but it just seems like more often than not, if you even look in the direct of a guy, your straight guy friends will "Dude what the fuck are you gay?". I could be wrong, but that's how I see it.
__________________  I've been thinking 'bout this all day long, Never felt a feeling quite this strong...I can't believe how much it turns me on, Just to be your man... |
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