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Old 9th Dec 2010, 12:56 AM   #1
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Default Describe your dream date.

I have several ideas and I posted tidbits of them in other posts. My favorite would probably be a whole weekend in a cabin with HUGE windows looking out over the snow-capped mountains in front of a warm fire. Add some great music and fine wine and it may be as close to heaven as I could imagine. Of course there is a hot tub outside that we would frequent as well. What's in your imagination?
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Out for burgers, then back to either his or my place to play some video games and listen to music, and talk (of course).

I'm very romantic.

I like it because it's simply.
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Old 9th Dec 2010, 02:06 AM   #3
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Out for burgers, then back to my place to play some video games and listen to music, and talk (of course).
This is exactly how my first date is going to be. I'm not even lying.

Except those burgers are going to be the biggest burgers that are available at Fat Burger.

(I've finished one before, I can do it again )
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My dream date would definitely not be able to be a first date - and it's set in the winter time too. It would entail making a homemade meal together, eating it out in the living room in front of the fireplace (or space heater - both work). It would be snowing outside, which we'd be able to see through large windows as we ate our meal, sipped our wine, and later played games. Also - candle light for everything after preparing the meal. Enjoying warm glögg or Irish cocoa is a must as we cuddle and watch the snow fall.
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Old 9th Dec 2010, 04:20 AM   #7
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My Perfect date would be: to take him out on a cold winters night to a nice home-made dinner that I cooked then light a log fire in the living room, and then snuggle together in front of the fire. Then awhile later light some candles in my room and lead him up. The rest you can work out for your self.
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We meet at my place or his in the afternoon, where we'd watch a movie or watch videos online or play video games, something along those lines. As evening approached, we'd walk to an inexpensive eatery (I'm not the type to equate expensiveness with a show of true love), talking the whole way. Driving is fine, too, and if we do that, we'd spend the whole time listening to music each other's music. We'd eat, then head back to one of our places, where we would eventually get intimate. That's my dream date, and it has happened, too. ^_^
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My dream date would probably be the one I actually had a dream about. It was me and my crush, A, in a cosy and intimate restaurant setting. I think in the dream the walls were red and the tables were square with white table cloths and dark wooden chairs (Wow that's detailed for a dream). Anyway, A was talking to me and I remember her saying that she needed the honest truth about how I felt because she couldn't stand the uncertainty any longer. It was all cute and romantic...and then I woke up. Gah. I wish it was real Maybe one day I'll make it real.
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Old 9th Dec 2010, 06:41 PM   #11
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My Perfect date would be: to take him out on a cold winters night to a nice home-made dinner that I cooked then light a log fire in the living room, and then snuggle together in front of the fire. Then awhile later light some candles in my room and lead him up. The rest you can work out for your self.
This is nice!

Another dream of mine would be to take him out to the middle of this gigantic field on our property. No lights can be seen or sounds can be heard except the crickets chirping in the night. Make a little fire and spread out a blanket and watch the show (the show being a beautiful meteor shower that happens every November there).

*sigh* I miss home.

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My dream date would definitely not be able to be a first date - and it's set in the winter time too. It would entail making a homemade meal together, eating it out in the living room in front of the fireplace (or space heater - both work). It would be snowing outside, which we'd be able to see through large windows as we ate our meal, sipped our wine, and later played games. Also - candle light for everything after preparing the meal. Enjoying warm glögg or Irish cocoa is a must as we cuddle and watch the snow fall.
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Old 9th Dec 2010, 07:36 PM   #12
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Two fucking words...

JOE fucking JONAS

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Old 9th Dec 2010, 08:31 PM   #13
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Going through the woods or by a lake or somewhere surrounded by nature, taking pictures with each other and talking, and then going out to eat at a nice restaurant Simply lovely.
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>>>JOE fucking JONAS

And you just watch those two go at it?

My dream date?

Tropical island.
Warm but not overly hot.
Sightseeing.
A bit of shopping, maybe a museum trip.
Dinner at a small quaint local place.
Hotel.
Hot tub.
Slow, hot make-out session and sex.

And yes. I've done it. More than once.

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Old 9th Dec 2010, 10:52 PM   #15
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My dream date would one that manage not to turn it into a total cock-up.
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This wouldn't be a first date also this is a few dates down and we starting to know eachother.

It would be during the summer time nice hot day with the cool nights

We would go to Atlantic city on the board walk spend all day there Go eat at at the restaurants and go to the carnival and go on the rides and stuff. Walk around and go shopping at the outlets. And Toward the end we will go to the beach and cuddle near the water and watch everyone.
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Old 10th Dec 2010, 12:29 AM   #17
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Less romantic, but tons of fun.....fishin' in the dark.
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Less romantic, but tons of fun.....fishin' in the dark.
You have a theme song then.
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Out for burgers, then back to my place to play some video games and listen to music, and talk (of course).
This is exactly how my first date is going to be. I'm not even lying.

Except those burgers are going to be the biggest burgers that are available at Fat Burger.

(I've finished one before, I can do it again )
no joke me too, spooky a little.
And, it turns out he is into all the same nerd stuff I am.
Then a little making out would be nice
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>>>JOE fucking JONAS

And you just watch those two go at it?

My dream date?

Tropical island.
Warm but not overly hot.
Sightseeing.
A bit of shopping, maybe a museum trip.
Dinner at a small quaint local place.
Hotel.
Hot tub.
Slow, hot make-out session and sex.

And yes. I've done it. More than once.

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I like it...hot tub and some champaign.
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