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what should i do

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by jimmy124, Dec 21, 2010.

  1. jimmy124

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    ive recently met this guy who lives about 10mile away from me.

    we've had some fun with one another but now he wants to take things further and i'm not sure about it. im really nervous about it all

    anybody got any advice on what i should do, cos i do really like him and don't want to disapoint him

    any advice would be great?
    x
     
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    see where it goes. If you want to take it a bit slower let him know. Tell him how you feel and explain to him where you stand. If he is interested in you like you are in him he will do what it takes to stay with you.

    I myself have been in similar situations where my nerves come into play, those darn butterflies need to just relax sometimes :icon_bigg.

    Hope this helps (*hug*)
     
  3. jimmy124

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    thanks, that's really gud advice.

    i'll speak to him soon and tell him my feelings.

    thanks mate
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    follow your heart
     
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    I know its a cliche, but talking with the guy is always the best action to take. Explaining your feelings to someone is 99% of the time going to give a better outcome than not saying anything :slight_smile:

    hope it goes well.
     
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    Forgive me for not understanding the terms. By "had some fun", do you mean had sex? And "take things further", do you mean "become boyfriends"? It'd help me give better advice, I think. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Just fuck him.
     
  8. jimmy124

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    by had some fun i mean just fooling around with him. and by take things further i mean want to have sex.