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Revan · 27th Dec 2010, 05:05 PM

This is a rant on behalf of all the nice gay men out there to all the idiots, jerks, self-absorbed, self-obsessed, narcissistic, young, old, fake, pretentious, arrogant, pretty-boys out there.

After years of dealing with your bullshit, we are sick and tired of all of it. You may think that you have the rights to keep treating us, your friends, your boyfriends, your husbands, or even that odd guy in the club that was just trying to be friendly, you don't. It is because of us that give you that power, and we're done. You have no power over us because unless we fear you, unless we adore you, unless we treat you like Gods; you are nothing but that piece of toilet paper on the bottom of our shoe, that garbage we kick to the side, or that pile of dog s**t that we accidentally step in.

So before you think that you can ride on your looks and your attitude, remember that the longer you treat us this way, the harder the fall will be. Remember that just because you're pretty now, doesn't mean you always will be. So you need to decide now what's more important to you: treating people like shit and riding on your looks? Or treating the one you're with, or even the one you're not with with caring and kindness, because in the long run, they're the ones who will be there for you when you've lost your looks, and you can't count on your attitude anymore to get you places. Remember that we're the ones who may give you the best chance for a good future. We could become your boss some day, or the person who manages your finances, or simply the one who can provide you with love in the future.

So stop being an asshole, stop being absorbed with yourself, and start being kind to people and your partner. Remember, looks only last a short time, kindness and love last forever.

Please Note: I am in a loving relationship with my boyfriend, this is more both for those who have been treated like crap by all those hot men and their former boyfriends/husbands/partners and have always wanted to say something. It's also for me who in the past has dealt with guys who think they're better than me.

Also this isn't directed to anyone at EC, unless you are the type of guy who treats people like crap, and maybe it'll allow you to think about what you've been doing to people.

malachite · 27th Dec 2010, 06:08 PM

Z3ni · 27th Dec 2010, 06:12 PM

Yeah!! Screw you sexy mofos!!!

Miyaga · 27th Dec 2010, 06:29 PM

I like this post, you spoke your true feelings, for this i applaud you.

Revan · 27th Dec 2010, 07:52 PM

Glad you guys enjoyed it.

27th Dec 2010, 05:05 PM	#1
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	A Rant On Behalf of All the NICE Gays This is a rant on behalf of all the nice gay men out there to all the idiots, jerks, self-absorbed, self-obsessed, narcissistic, young, old, fake, pretentious, arrogant, pretty-boys out there. After years of dealing with your bullshit, we are sick and tired of all of it. You may think that you have the rights to keep treating us, your friends, your boyfriends, your husbands, or even that odd guy in the club that was just trying to be friendly, you don't. It is because of us that give you that power, and we're done. You have no power over us because unless we fear you, unless we adore you, unless we treat you like Gods; you are nothing but that piece of toilet paper on the bottom of our shoe, that garbage we kick to the side, or that pile of dog st that we accidentally step in. So before you think that you can ride on your looks and your attitude, remember that the longer you treat us this way, the harder the fall will be. Remember that just because you're pretty now, doesn't mean you always will be. So you need to decide now what's more important to you: treating people like shit and riding on your looks? Or treating the one you're with, or even the one you're not with with caring and kindness, because in the long run, they're the ones who will be there for you when you've lost your looks, and you can't count on your attitude anymore to get you places. Remember that we're the ones who may give you the best chance for a good future. We could become your boss some day, or the person who manages your finances, or simply the one who can provide you with love in the future. So stop being an asshole, stop being absorbed with yourself, and start being kind to people and your partner. Remember, looks only last a short time, kindness and love last forever. Please Note: I am in a loving relationship with my boyfriend, this is more both for those who have been treated like crap by all those hot men and their former boyfriends/husbands/partners and have always wanted to say something. It's also for me who in the past has dealt with guys who think they're better than me. Also this isn't directed to anyone at EC, unless you are the type of guy who treats people like crap, and maybe it'll allow you to think about what you've been doing to people. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi** Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

27th Dec 2010, 06:08 PM	#2
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: A Rant On Behalf of All the NICE Gays __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

27th Dec 2010, 06:12 PM	#3
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,082 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: A Rant On Behalf of All the NICE Gays Yeah!! Screw you sexy mofos!!! __________________ Through pain, lies success.

27th Dec 2010, 06:29 PM	#4
Miyaga EC 's Gay Chef Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Who Doesn't Know? Location: New York City Age: 23 Posts: 452 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: A Rant On Behalf of All the NICE Gays I like this post, you spoke your true feelings, for this i applaud you. __________________ "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." "Live today like it is your last, no regrets, no second guesses, just truth and happiness."

27th Dec 2010, 07:52 PM	#5
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: A Rant On Behalf of All the NICE Gays Glad you guys enjoyed it. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

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