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Old 6th Jan 2011, 12:02 AM   #1
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Default What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

Here, basically, there's a question number and you have to choose which one you think is hotter. Basically, choose what you'd want an ideal boyfriend to be like. Here goes >_< If you can't choose, go on a whim XD And tell me if you wanna add something, maybe I can add it (if I can learn my way around forums and stuff, maybe I can add it>_< )
1. boxers or briefs XD
2. short hair or long hair
3. lean and fit or muscly but not SUPER muscly
4. shorter than you or taller than you
5. cocky or modest
6. jock or drama/musicals person
7. makes the first move, or waits for the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced or inexperienced
9. soccer player or football player
10. shy or outgoing
11. smoker or drinker (I don't like either of these, but I can't think of anything else XD)
12. ehh, this is kinda weird: smells like cinnamon, or something sweet like sweet pea or warm vanilla sugar from bath and body works XD >_<
That's all for now, I ran out of ideas XD

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Here's my answers:
1. ehh, hard to choose for me, but I'll go on a whim and say briefs cause my non-existant ideal bf is muscularish XD
2. Short hair : P I don't really like long hair for some reason I don't know o_O
3. lean and fit
4. taller than me XD
5. cocky for some reason o_O
6. hard again, but I'll say, I guess, jock
7. makes the first move : P
8. experienced >_<
9. soccer player : P football players are too big I guess. That, and I had a big crush on this nice soccer player DX impossible to be reciprocated and he doesn't even know I like him : (
10. outgoing
11. ehh, why'd I put this question in. I guess... a drinker >_>
12. cinnamon : D I want my bf to smell like... kinda manly. I wanna smell like sweet peas or whatever from bath and body works XD
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 12:10 AM   #2
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. Briefs
2. Short hair
3. Lean and fit
4. Taller than me
5. Cocky
6. Jock
7. Makes the first move
8. Inexperienced
9. Soccer player
10. Shy
11. Smoker
12. Umm lol, I guess smells like something sweet.
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 12:24 AM   #3
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. boxer briefs
2. short hair
3. lean and fit
4. either
5. modesttt
6. neither. if i had to pick one, jock.
7. i usually make the first move, though there are times where i'd rather not so it'd be helpful if he had a dominant streak in him
8. not a big deal, inexperienced
9. soccer player if i had to pick one
10. outgoing,
11. preferably neither, though drinker if i had to pick one
12. i actually find natural body scent to be really appealing. out of your choices though, sweet pea from bath and body works. that stuff smells amazing. cinnamon doesn't sound bad either.
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 04:09 AM   #4
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1. boxers
2. short hair
3. muscular
4. taller than me
5. modest
6. Neither. If I had to pick one, jock. Otherwise, I'm more into artists, writers, and political activists.
7. makes the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced
9. Either.
10. outgoing
11. smoker (I know enough functioning alcoholics already, thanks)
12. I like manly smells. I don't even like flowery stuff on women.
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 07:38 AM   #5
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1 - Briefs
2 - Short Hair, not really a big fan of long hair on guys.
3 - Lean and Fit
4 - I think either but not way taller or way shorter.
5 - Modest
6 - Probably a drama/musical person, because I have like nil interest in sport.
7 - Makes the first move definitely, because at least at this point in my life there is no way that I would make the first move.
8 - Either, don't really have a preference either way.
9 - Soccer player.
10 - I'm not really sure, I'm more of a shy person so I think someone outgoing would be better, but then again my best friend is outgoing and I don't always like that about him, so I suppose it's an either.
11 - I think neither, but I suppose drinker if it's more social drinker than alcoholic.
12 - For me I think, out of those you mentioned probably vanilla, I love the smell of vanilla.
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 07:50 AM   #6
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. Briefs. Soaking wet. Ready to be torn off. In close proximity.
2. short hair or long hair, or no hair. Not really a factor.
3. Muscular. I'll even take stocky or fat over really skinny. But that's me.
4. Most guys are shorter than me, but it really doesn't matter.
5. Self-assured. Not overly timid, nor overly cocky.
6. Interests don't matter so long as they love loving them.
7. I prefer them to make the first move.
8. I've had both, and love both. But I honestly prefer them to be inexperienced. It's fun getting to do the training.
9. Football, I guess - less likely to be rail-thin.
10. Shy or outgoing - doesn't matter.
11. Drinking's fine so long as I don't have to drag them home very often. I'd rather they didn't smoke.
12. I like smells. That can be a bodyworks type of smell, or a more "masculine" smell like Old Spice. Or even sweat.

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Old 6th Jan 2011, 08:21 PM   #7
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. boxerbriefs
2. short hair
3. lean and fit
4. taller than me
5. cocky...to an extent
6. jock
7. makes the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced
9. soccer player
10. outgoing
11. drinker
12. I prefer masculine smells, but if I had to choose one of those I guess I would go with vanilla.
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Old 6th Jan 2011, 09:39 PM   #8
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. Either
2. I like long hair as long as he's taken care of it and it's not dirty looking
3. Lean and fit I guess
4. Taller than me. It's a bit of a long shot lol
5. Modest (I HATE COCKY PEOPLE)
6. Little bit of both I guess
7. Definatly make the first move
8. experienced
9. UGH!!! Neither
10. Outgoing
11. Either (So long as the drinking is in moderation and doesn't boarder on alcoholism)
12. Neither

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13. Eyes or Smile?
Blue Eyes
14. Hair Color?
Dark
15. Serious or Childish?
Little of both
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1. Briefs
2. In between but I prefer longer hair
3. Lean and fir
4. I'm 6' so I prefer shorter :P
5. Modest
6. Drama/musicals person
7. Makes the first move
8. Inexperienced. It just seems more romantic to me that way
9. I love football, but I think a soccer player would be awesome
10. Shy
11. Neither
12. Vanilla
13. That's an extremely tough choice but I'll pick smile.
14. Brown
15. Serious
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Default Re: What do you guys think is hot >_< ?

1. boxers/boxer briefs
2. short hair
3. either, but muscle's a plus
4. taller
5. i don't mind some cockiness
6. jock if i have to pick one of those 2
7. i'm sick of making the first move. you do it
8. i'd prefer that he have my amount of experience, more or less
9. that's a tough one. maybe football player?
10. more outgoing than me but not too much
11. non-smoker. drinking's fine
12. i think i'd like a sweet smell
13. Both have to work well with eachother
14. Dark's hot but i've never been picky with that
15. A little of both, but knows the right time to be which
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Old 7th Jan 2011, 12:56 AM   #11
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1. completely irrelevant. whatever makes him comy
2. short hair.
2a. straight hair, curly is a turn off *has curly hair *
3. lean and fit
4. shorter than me, though the closer to my height the better (makes for easier kissing)
5. cocky. I wish it were modest, but cocky arrogance is a major turn-on even though I know it's a bad character trait
6. drama/musicals person
7. makes the first move
8. that's a tricky one, slight preference for experienced, but it really depends on what sort of a person that experience has made him
9. soccer player. *drools*
10. I prefer more reserved and introverted people
11. cigarette or pot? cause if cigarette than drinker, but if pot I don't really care
12. smells like new books
13. eyes (preferably blue)
14. blond (I'm the Jewish kid who likes Aryans, what gives?)
15. false dichotomy
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Old 7th Jan 2011, 10:12 AM   #12
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1. boxers
2. long hair
3. lean and fit
4. taller than you
5. modest
6. jock
7. makes the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced or inexperienced
9. soccer player
10.outgoing
11. drinker
12. smells like cinnamon
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Old 7th Jan 2011, 11:28 AM   #13
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1. Boxers.
2. Hmm ... short.
3. Lean and fit.
4. Either I suppose.
5. Modest.
6. Musical.
7. Makes the first move.
8. Either.
9. Soccer if I must choose.
10. Either.
11. Neither.
12. Hmm ... cinnamon.
13. Charming, however it is.
14. Any.
15. Neither alone; both.
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Old 7th Jan 2011, 11:32 AM   #14
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1. briefs
2. short hair
3. lean and fit
4. taller than you
5. cocky/modest(balance is good)
6. jock
7. makes the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced
9. soccer player
10.outgoing
11. drinker (I don't like either of these, but I can't think of anything else XD)
12. ehh, this is kinda weird: smells like cinnamon
13. eyes - have sparkle
14. dirty blonde or black
15. Serious or Childish?
Little of both
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Hmm anything above 85 degrees.
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1. boxers or briefs XD
Nothing!

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2. short hair or long hair
I love long hair on guys.

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3. lean and fit or muscly but not SUPER muscly
Lean and fit.

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4. shorter than you or taller than you
Shorter.

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5. cocky or modest
Cocky.

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6. jock or drama/musicals person
Anything but jock.

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7. makes the first move, or waits for the first move
I can't make the first move worth shit.

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8. sexually and physically experienced or inexperienced
You gotta be around the block a few times!

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9. soccer player or football player
Anything's fine with me.

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10. shy or outgoing
Outgoing!

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11. smoker or drinker (I don't like either of these, but I can't think of anything else XD)
Drinkers way before any smoker.

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12. ehh, this is kinda weird: smells like cinnamon, or something sweet like sweet pea or warm vanilla sugar from bath and body works XD >_<
Sweet!
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1. Boxer Briefs
2. Short Hair
3. Lean and fit with some muscle
4. Shorter, but doesn't matter too much
5. Mostly modest with a bit of cockiness
6. Jock
7. Makes the first move, but doesn't matter too much
8. Probably just slightly experienced
9. Soccer player
10. Slightly outgoing
11. Drinker
12. Probably vanilla, but that'd make me hungry more than anything
13. Probably eyes
14. Lighter
15. A bit of of both, when appropriate
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Old 7th Jan 2011, 12:18 PM   #18
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1. Boxers
2. Medium
3. Lean and fit
4. Shorter, though not by much.
5. Cocky
6. Musical type, but I'd like that he knows a little about sports.
7. Makes the first move.
8. Inexperienced.
9. Soccer player.
10. Outgoing
11. Casual drinker.
12. Sweet.
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Hmm anything above 85 degrees.
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WOOT I'm considered hot XD : D

Anyways,

13. ughhh so hard to choose, but I'll say smile I guess >_<
14. Anything : ) If I had to choose.... probably blond. But that's more because I wish I had blond hair XD
15. Probably serious
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1. briefs
2. short hair
3. muscly but not SUPER muscly (I actually like my guys just average but that's my choice between the two)
4. taller than you
5. modest
6. jock (I hate that word...."jock" translates to "asshole")
7. makes the first move
8. sexually and physically experienced (not a slut tho)
9. football player (neither one does a whole lot for me, but if I had a choice...)
10. outgoing
11. smoker (By FAR)
12. smells like cinnamon
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