I did it!!!! (!) - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Energizerbunnay · 9th Jan 2011, 10:01 PM

I found out on Friday that another girl in my school is Bi and we are kinda friends and TODAY like 5 MINS ago, I asked her out and she said YES!!!

Sry for the smilies but I am just SOO excited about this!! She is my 1st GF

starfish · 9th Jan 2011, 10:02 PM

YAY, that is great news.

Energizerbunnay · 9th Jan 2011, 10:08 PM

Thanks

Z3ni · 10th Jan 2011, 11:58 AM

Awww! Congrats

malachite · 10th Jan 2011, 12:09 PM

congrats, have fun

Connor22 · 10th Jan 2011, 01:08 PM

nice one

straal1972 · 10th Jan 2011, 04:24 PM

that is so great. i feel butterflies inside for you

itzjoe · 10th Jan 2011, 04:35 PM

thats nice

im happy for you

mnguy · 10th Jan 2011, 06:01 PM

How cool for you! That's gotta feel good

Energizerbunnay · 10th Jan 2011, 06:53 PM

Thank you to Z3ni, malachite, Connor22, straal1972, itzjoe, and mnguy

I really appreciate the support

Today was REALLY fun for me because I got to hang out with her during lunch and after school at my house and we had a LOT of fun with hanging out with 2 of my other friends. It was funny because the straight girl was the minority

There was my girlfriend, my guy friend (gay) and then my straight friend

we kept poking fun at her

Then after my 2 friends left, we just layed down on the bed together cuddling

The only thing that slightly brought me down was when I found out my bro is homophobic. He saw us cuddling and was like " He said "Were you having a foursome?" and I said "I am dating the girl that just left and the guy is gay and the other girl is straight." And then he was like O.o "Are you...?" I said "I'm Bi." And then he was like "OK." And then a little later he was like "You know you're going to get AIDS right?" And I said "SHUT UP!!" Grr :P Well, whatever I don't care anymore...it just bugged me for a few minutes after.

nickmc · 10th Jan 2011, 07:06 PM

Congrats on being brave enough to ask her out! So stoked that she said yes

And glad that today has gone great for you as well. Shame about your brother but just remember that it's a new concept to him so it may take him a wee bit to get used to the idea of you dating a girl. Woo exciting times ahead for the Energizerbunnay!

Energizerbunnay · 10th Jan 2011, 09:56 PM

Yeah you've got a point there thanks

ToTheCeilingFan · 11th Jan 2011, 11:13 AM

So jealous...but crazy proud of you. <3

Energizerbunnay · 12th Jan 2011, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ToTheCeilingFan

So jealous...but crazy proud of you. <3

Thanks

confusedgirl · 12th Jan 2011, 07:16 PM

congrats to you both

Aeon · 12th Jan 2011, 07:45 PM

awwh I'm so happy for you (: Obv from all this excitement you like her very much so congrats and just enjoy her haha.

Energizerbunnay · 13th Jan 2011, 10:06 PM

Katalina (the girl I asked out) broke up with me because "she still likes her ex" and ever since we broke up, she hasn't talked to me and when I tried chatting with her, she ignored me :/ So I am thinking that her "bro" who is also my ex said something to her to make her break up with me

starfish · 13th Jan 2011, 10:14 PM

That sucks.

I wouldn't read anymore into it than what she said. Someone still carrying a flame for their ex happens all to often. Best thing to do is just move on.

Energizerbunnay · 13th Jan 2011, 10:32 PM

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking that I should do...

9th Jan 2011, 10:01 PM	#1
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	I did it!!!! (!) I found out on Friday that another girl in my school is Bi and we are kinda friends and TODAY like 5 MINS ago, I asked her out and she said YES!!! Sry for the smilies but I am just SOO excited about this!! She is my 1st GF

9th Jan 2011, 10:02 PM	#2
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: I did it!!!! (!) YAY, that is great news. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

9th Jan 2011, 10:08 PM	#3
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Thanks

10th Jan 2011, 11:58 AM	#4
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,082 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Awww! Congrats __________________ Through pain, lies success.

10th Jan 2011, 12:09 PM	#5
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: I did it!!!! (!) congrats, have fun __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

10th Jan 2011, 01:08 PM	#6
Connor22 Stopped being (as) vague Full Member Gender: yes Orientation: up the bender Out Status: burned Narnia :D Location: Norn Iron Age: 17 Posts: 1,547 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: I did it!!!! (!) nice one __________________ Kindness is a gift. Share it.

10th Jan 2011, 04:24 PM	#7
straal1972 EC chat slayer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm out to everyone who's important to me Location: Outside of Barrie On Age: 39 Posts: 510 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) that is so great. i feel butterflies inside for you __________________ Sweat, baby, sweat, baby. Sex is a Texas drought Me and you do the kind of stuff that only Prince would sing about. So put your hands down my pants and I'll bet you'll feel nuts! Do it now! You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals . So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel -Bloodhound Gang

10th Jan 2011, 04:35 PM	#8
itzjoe EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: mostly gay Out Status: 10 friends and parents Location: London Age: 14 Posts: 355 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) thats nice im happy for you __________________ “The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown” ― H.P. Lovecraft

10th Jan 2011, 06:01 PM	#9
mnguy EC Regular Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: People likely assume Location: MN Age: 36 Posts: 895 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: I did it!!!! (!) How cool for you! That's gotta feel good

10th Jan 2011, 06:53 PM	#10
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Thank you to Z3ni, malachite, Connor22, straal1972, itzjoe, and mnguy I really appreciate the support Today was REALLY fun for me because I got to hang out with her during lunch and after school at my house and we had a LOT of fun with hanging out with 2 of my other friends. It was funny because the straight girl was the minority There was my girlfriend, my guy friend (gay) and then my straight friend we kept poking fun at her Then after my 2 friends left, we just layed down on the bed together cuddling The only thing that slightly brought me down was when I found out my bro is homophobic. He saw us cuddling and was like " He said "Were you having a foursome?" and I said "I am dating the girl that just left and the guy is gay and the other girl is straight." And then he was like O.o "Are you...?" I said "I'm Bi." And then he was like "OK." And then a little later he was like "You know you're going to get AIDS right?" And I said "SHUT UP!!" Grr :P Well, whatever I don't care anymore...it just bugged me for a few minutes after.

10th Jan 2011, 07:06 PM	#11
nickmc Survivor! WOOT! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks. I'm not hiding it Location: Wellington, NZ Age: 23 Posts: 473 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Congrats on being brave enough to ask her out! So stoked that she said yes And glad that today has gone great for you as well. Shame about your brother but just remember that it's a new concept to him so it may take him a wee bit to get used to the idea of you dating a girl. Woo exciting times ahead for the Energizerbunnay! __________________ Be yourself. Everyone else has already been taken~ Oscar Wilde

10th Jan 2011, 09:56 PM	#12
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Yeah you've got a point there thanks

11th Jan 2011, 11:13 AM	#13
ToTheCeilingFan crazed Full Member Gender: let's just say...grrrl Orientation: as straight as a side view of Christina Aguilera Out Status: completely out as lesbian, not out at all as GQ Location: Somewhere over the rainbow... Age: 18 Posts: 185 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) So jealous...but crazy proud of you. <3 __________________ "Abercrombie isn't about helping people. It's about playing rugby with your best buds in a fresh green field, only you both forgot your clothes."

12th Jan 2011, 07:16 PM	#15
confusedgirl EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Panaexual Out Status: kinda lost count lol Location: nothin but dry desert here no beach either Age: 19 Posts: 263 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: I did it!!!! (!) congrats to you both __________________ you wanna know more more more about me I'm the one thats sweepin you off your feet hey hey get tangled up in me

12th Jan 2011, 07:45 PM	#16
Aeon Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Posts: 68 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: I did it!!!! (!) awwh I'm so happy for you (: Obv from all this excitement you like her very much so congrats and just enjoy her haha.

13th Jan 2011, 10:06 PM	#17
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	Not Such a Great Change :/ Katalina (the girl I asked out) broke up with me because "she still likes her ex" and ever since we broke up, she hasn't talked to me and when I tried chatting with her, she ignored me :/ So I am thinking that her "bro" who is also my ex said something to her to make her break up with me

13th Jan 2011, 10:14 PM	#18
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: I did it!!!! (!) That sucks. I wouldn't read anymore into it than what she said. Someone still carrying a flame for their ex happens all to often. Best thing to do is just move on. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

13th Jan 2011, 10:32 PM	#19
Energizerbunnay Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Surrey, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 20 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: I did it!!!! (!) Yeah, that's what I'm thinking that I should do...