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Old 21st Feb 2011, 06:50 PM   #1
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How long have you known your gay? How did you find out?
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 07:29 PM   #2
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I knew since... I'm not sure. It feels as if I've always subconsciously known, and consciously since I was ten years old. I found out when I wanted to suck my friend's dick when we were masturbating together lol xD
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 07:36 PM   #3
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^ 0_0 wowz XD

umm I found out when I was 13 but a little while back I sometimes liked boys
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I discovered comparatively late, at the age of fifteen. It wasn't until (very) recently that I embraced, identified, and took full notice of my bisexuality.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 07:55 PM   #5
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since i was 12. nbd.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 07:57 PM   #6
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I first felt attraction beyond friendship in the 6th grade. And then exclusively towards guys.
I acknowledged those feelings last year.
This year I accepted myself as exclusively gay.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 07:57 PM   #7
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I have known since I was 16. Focused on Education & Career until I had to face it and came out at 26.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:03 PM   #8
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I've known since I was sixteen. I began to suspect some time around when I was 12, but it took me a while to figure it out because I was never quite sure on the differences between the concepts of homo- and heterosexuality.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:08 PM   #9
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About 13-14ish, maybe. Just estimating. I don't really think there was a moment that told me I was definitely gay. I just sorta realized it, I guess.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:10 PM   #10
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When I was born, the doctor slapped me on the ass and I winked at him!
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:13 PM   #11
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I kinda always knew, but I played it off as admiration for guys. I got my first crush (and knew it was a crush) when I was 13, but I didn't accept that I was gay until I was 15.
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:13 PM   #12
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I remember having a crush on my best guy friend in the fourth grade, but I didn't know what being gay was then. I think I started to realize that I was actually gay when I was 12 or 13. But didn't accept it until I was 19
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Old 21st Feb 2011, 08:27 PM   #13
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i've known since i was about 14 or 15 but didnt i was kinda weirded out and confused but i finally pretty much figured it out when i was 16 but when i was younger i was a huge tomboy. all my friends were guys and i remember seeing girls in elementary school and thinking " wow shes pretty, i'd really like to know her" but i never really thought of it as anything
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Old 22nd Feb 2011, 01:19 PM   #14
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Consciously: 11. Subconsciously: As early as I can remember.
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Old 22nd Feb 2011, 01:28 PM   #15
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Honestly, since I was 11 and introduced to porn by a friend I've been wondering because I was always drawn to the gay stuff. (somehow I never realized that that was pretty damning evidence. :P) Just about a month ago was when I really fully realized it.
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Old 22nd Feb 2011, 07:53 PM   #16
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I remember in 4th grade there were a couple boys I thought were cute. I would guess around 6th grade I actually figured out that I was gay. And looking back, I think 4th grade is right around the time when the whole "girls/boys are icky" thing starts to go away for kids, so that would make sense (in my head at least!)
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Old 22nd Feb 2011, 07:55 PM   #17
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im gay O_o?! no one told me! oh nah, i think i figured it out years and years ago ;3
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 07:45 AM   #18
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hmm .. I've been not normal for as long as I can remember (3-4 maybe) .. but I knew what gay means when I was in grade 1 .. and that's when I knew >.<
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 11:02 AM   #19
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I knew since... I'm not sure. It feels as if I've always subconsciously known, and consciously since I was ten years old. I found out when I wanted to suck my friend's dick when we were masturbating together lol xD
I've finally found it xD the best post in any forum on the whole, wide world xD thank you dude, you made my day xD or should I say my gay forum life? xD

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I kind of always have known that i was attracted to boys just as to girls. but ever since i have never had the guts to take the first step yet xD weeheee xD
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i knew in like 7th grade
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