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How long have you known?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Dexter17, Feb 21, 2011.

  1. Dexter17

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    How long have you known your gay? How did you find out?
     
  2. silvousplait

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    I knew since... I'm not sure. It feels as if I've always subconsciously known, and consciously since I was ten years old. I found out when I wanted to suck my friend's dick when we were masturbating together lol xD
     
  3. Witchcraft

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    ^ 0_0 wowz XD

    umm I found out when I was 13 but a little while back I sometimes liked boys
     
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    I discovered comparatively late, at the age of fifteen. It wasn't until (very) recently that I embraced, identified, and took full notice of my bisexuality.
     
  5. MusicIsLife

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    since i was 12. nbd.
     
  6. Ethan

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    I first felt attraction beyond friendship in the 6th grade. And then exclusively towards guys.
    I acknowledged those feelings last year.
    This year I accepted myself as exclusively gay.
     
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    I have known since I was 16. Focused on Education & Career until I had to face it and came out at 26.
     
  8. Owen

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    I've known since I was sixteen. I began to suspect some time around when I was 12, but it took me a while to figure it out because I was never quite sure on the differences between the concepts of homo- and heterosexuality.
     
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    About 13-14ish, maybe. Just estimating. I don't really think there was a moment that told me I was definitely gay. I just sorta realized it, I guess.
     
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    When I was born, the doctor slapped me on the ass and I winked at him! :icon_wink
     
  11. GoinStag

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    I kinda always knew, but I played it off as admiration for guys. I got my first crush (and knew it was a crush) when I was 13, but I didn't accept that I was gay until I was 15.
     
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    I remember having a crush on my best guy friend in the fourth grade, but I didn't know what being gay was then. I think I started to realize that I was actually gay when I was 12 or 13. But didn't accept it until I was 19
     
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    i've known since i was about 14 or 15 but didnt i was kinda weirded out and confused but i finally pretty much figured it out when i was 16 but when i was younger i was a huge tomboy. all my friends were guys and i remember seeing girls in elementary school and thinking " wow shes pretty, i'd really like to know her" but i never really thought of it as anything
     
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    Consciously: 11. Subconsciously: As early as I can remember.
     
  15. BlueDuck

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    Honestly, since I was 11 and introduced to porn by a friend I've been wondering because I was always drawn to the gay stuff. (somehow I never realized that that was pretty damning evidence. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) Just about a month ago was when I really fully realized it.
     
  16. DustinD

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    I remember in 4th grade there were a couple boys I thought were cute. I would guess around 6th grade I actually figured out that I was gay. And looking back, I think 4th grade is right around the time when the whole "girls/boys are icky" thing starts to go away for kids, so that would make sense (in my head at least!)
     
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    im gay :confused:?! no one told me! oh nah, i think i figured it out years and years ago ;3
     
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    hmm .. I've been not normal for as long as I can remember (3-4 maybe) .. but I knew what gay means when I was in grade 1 .. and that's when I knew >.< :grin:
     
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    I've finally found it xD the best post in any forum on the whole, wide world xD thank you dude, you made my day xD or should I say my gay forum life? xD

    as to the question:

    I kind of always have known that i was attracted to boys just as to girls. but ever since i have never had the guts to take the first step yet xD weeheee xD
     
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    i knew in like 7th grade