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TheJoker · 23rd Feb 2011, 09:02 AM

I had 2 girlfriends, having active sex life didn't help my confusion.I told my confusion one of them, other had no idea.Both of them were homophobic.The one i told my confusion convinced me about that i am not gay however after broke up she was very homophobic against me.

So how many of you had experience with opposite sex? Did you come out to them,if so how were their reactions?

roborama · 23rd Feb 2011, 02:33 PM

oh geez yeah actually just came out to my exboyfriend. he took it alright but it was the whole was our relationship a lie sort of thing and then he got really immature but we're actually good now but i know thats lucky

James · 23rd Feb 2011, 05:27 PM

My ex girlfriend is bisexual and a member here, so she took it fine.

23rd Feb 2011, 05:31 PM

- So how many of you had experience with opposite sex?
I have! I am technically not a virgin, but I still say I am because I've never had enjoyable sex. :P

- Did you come out to them,if so how were their reactions?
I did come out to one of my older girlfriends, when I thought I was just bisexual. I told her that I thought I was gay and she said, "Eeew!" then smacked me. :3 How sweet.

Flyers2011 · 23rd Feb 2011, 05:42 PM

All 3 of my boyfriends were fine with it. I was completely out when I met my last boyfriend. He thought it was awesome. . . Like most typical teenage boys do when a girl is attracted to other girls.

Holliepop · 25th Feb 2011, 11:19 AM

Came out to my current boyfriend a while a go. Turns out he's Bisexual too, so I think I've been very lucky with that. (:

InaRut · 25th Feb 2011, 03:09 PM

My ex-girlfriend during post/pre/or during sex would call me gay.

I have never talked to her after our break-up so I don't know how she would take it but I think she would probobly say, "I told you so..."

Come to think of it I've never had a bad coming out story, besides what happened for a few years with mum.

Aya McCabre · 25th Feb 2011, 03:48 PM

The closest I have to a male ex lasted about two days.... he knew at the start that I consider myself a lesbian, so he knew what he was getting into. I still kinda feel bad for leading him on though.
....and then I said it wasn't going to work cos he was a guy and he said that was OK and then he got really creepy and started sending weird texts to friends of friends and gave me some tough questions to answer at parties. x.x
Glad I didn't stick around longer lol

23rd Feb 2011, 09:02 AM	#1
TheJoker Clown Prince of EC Full Member Gender: clown Orientation: bats Out Status: Not out at all Location: Circus Posts: 416 Join Date: Feb 2011	Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... I had 2 girlfriends, having active sex life didn't help my confusion.I told my confusion one of them, other had no idea.Both of them were homophobic.The one i told my confusion convinced me about that i am not gay however after broke up she was very homophobic against me. So how many of you had experience with opposite sex? Did you come out to them,if so how were their reactions?

23rd Feb 2011, 02:33 PM	#2
roborama EC's Teenage Grandma Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Fluid Out Status: Out to everyone Location: MA Age: 17 Posts: 397 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... oh geez yeah actually just came out to my exboyfriend. he took it alright but it was the whole was our relationship a lie sort of thing and then he got really immature but we're actually good now but i know thats lucky __________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. Harvey Fierstein

23rd Feb 2011, 05:27 PM	#3
James EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: PEI, Canada Age: 20 Posts: 927 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... My ex girlfriend is bisexual and a member here, so she took it fine. __________________ “My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world.” - Jack Layton

23rd Feb 2011, 05:31 PM	#4
Gothitil Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... - So how many of you had experience with opposite sex? I have! I am technically not a virgin, but I still say I am because I've never had enjoyable sex. :P - Did you come out to them,if so how were their reactions? I did come out to one of my older girlfriends, when I thought I was just bisexual. I told her that I thought I was gay and she said, "Eeew!" then smacked me. :3 How sweet.

23rd Feb 2011, 05:42 PM	#5
Flyers2011 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone. And I mean EVERYONE. Location: O-H-I-O! Posts: 886 Join Date: Sep 2010	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... All 3 of my boyfriends were fine with it. I was completely out when I met my last boyfriend. He thought it was awesome. . . Like most typical teenage boys do when a girl is attracted to other girls. __________________ "We are born with a scream; we come into life with a scream, and maybe love is a mosquito net between the fear of living and the fear of death."- Francis Bacon

25th Feb 2011, 11:19 AM	#6
Holliepop The world is waiting for you. Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: on FB, so everyone? Location: Wiltshire, UK. Age: 19 Posts: 362 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... Came out to my current boyfriend a while a go. Turns out he's Bisexual too, so I think I've been very lucky with that. (:

25th Feb 2011, 03:09 PM	#7
InaRut EC's Nu-Disco Walrus Full Member Gender: IRL Yaoi Character Orientation: (｡◕‿◕。) Out Status: ㅎ_ㅎ Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 7,111 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... My ex-girlfriend during post/pre/or during sex would call me gay. I have never talked to her after our break-up so I don't know how she would take it but I think she would probobly say, "I told you so..." Come to think of it I've never had a bad coming out story, besides what happened for a few years with mum. __________________ "The first duty of every Starfleet Officer is to the truth. Whether it's scientific truth, historical truth, or personal truth. It is the guiding principle to which Starfleet is based. If you can't find it within yourself, to tell the truth about what happened, then you don't deserve to where that uniform."

25th Feb 2011, 03:48 PM	#8
Aya McCabre Beware of the Metaphor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dunedin, New Zealand Age: 21 Posts: 613 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Ex Wife,Husband,Girlfriend,Boyfriend... The closest I have to a male ex lasted about two days.... he knew at the start that I consider myself a lesbian, so he knew what he was getting into. I still kinda feel bad for leading him on though. ....and then I said it wasn't going to work cos he was a guy and he said that was OK and then he got really creepy and started sending weird texts to friends of friends and gave me some tough questions to answer at parties. x.x Glad I didn't stick around longer lol __________________ Time is on my side she said. He may be on your side I said, but it makes no difference in the end, He's coming after you my friend........

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