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Old 23rd Feb 2011, 11:39 PM   #1
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in 15 words or less describe how you felt the first time you came out to someone.
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 03:54 AM   #2
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Felt extremely nervous because I was not sure of how they were going to react
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 05:51 AM   #3
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Scared then relieved.
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 06:08 AM   #4
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if myself counts as someone, i felt sad,disappointed,desperate,disgusted,excited,free, happy,sad,disappointed,desperate,disgusted,excited ,free,happysad,disappointed,desperate,disgusted,ex cited,free,happysad,disappointed,desperate,disgust ed,excited,free,happysad,disappointed,desperate,di sgusted,excited,free,happysad,disappointed,despera te,disgusted,excited,free,happysad,disappointed,de sperate,disgusted,excited,free,happysad,disappoint ed,desperate,disgusted,excited,free,happy.. Total emotional roller coaster..
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 06:31 AM   #5
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Embarrassing. xD
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 07:09 AM   #6
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Scared as FUCK.
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 07:46 AM   #7
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I almost couldn't speak, like when I tried to get it out, I physically couldn't.
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 12:18 PM   #8
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It didn't feel real until I came out to my mom. When I came out to my mom I felt scared, nervous, overwhelmed relieved and finally at peace with myself.
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Old 24th Feb 2011, 03:50 PM   #9
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I didn't come out so much as hook up in front of my friends. Drunk.

I wasn't thinking much lol
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Shit, I'm going to die right after this, aren't I?
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Old 25th Feb 2011, 02:43 AM   #11
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YOU LIKE BOYS?!
I like boys too!
I KNOW you're a girl. What's your point?
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Old 25th Feb 2011, 05:20 AM   #12
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Drunk.
So a combination of happy/nauseous.
And then blackout.
Then apparently really good. Wink wink.

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Old 25th Feb 2011, 05:25 AM   #13
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terrified and excited at the same time, It was a true rush...
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Old 25th Feb 2011, 02:06 PM   #14
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My heart's going to explode but who cares? She knows anyway
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surprised at their surprise.
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I was scared of losing my best friend.
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Old 26th Feb 2011, 01:08 PM   #17
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I was ready to die inside, then it wasn't as bad compared to expectation.
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Old 27th Feb 2011, 01:51 PM   #18
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Tense and Sick a whole lotta sick.
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Old 27th Feb 2011, 08:22 PM   #19
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I was very nervous, but relieved. Sick, curious about the future. Wondered what was next.
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Old 27th Feb 2011, 08:45 PM   #20
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I can do it in one word...terrified! lol
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