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Androgyny

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Frer3, Mar 20, 2011.

  1. Frer3

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    I've been wanting to experiment with androgyny for some time now, but I honestly have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to even dressing myself normally. I have no doubt that some of you will know a thing or two about androgynous dressing, and would be more than willing to share some tips. Any advice?
     
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    Umm, why are you trying to dress a certain way? Just freaking dress the way you want to... I don't get it. Wear what you're comfortable in and what you think looks good on you. Why would you want to do anything else?
     
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    Because the way I dress now is rather uninspiring. It doesn't fit me as a person. I need to find something else. And, as I said, I've been tossing around the idea of experimenting with androgyny. Also, as of date, I have not found a personal style that "looks good on me."
     
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    my advice:.... PLEASE do! i LOVE androgyny. I'm doing a photoshoot in 2 days where i'm going to try to do a reverse julie andrews (man playing a woman playing a man), not sure how it will turn out (i don't think i can pull it off) but it's going to be so much fun!
     
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    I want to begin doing this soon! I just have no idea where to start! Any ideas or advice that you have will be greatly appreciated!
     
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    I'll let you know after the shoot. at the moment, i wouldn't have a clue! I'm not into being andro myself to be honest, i just love it in everyone else.
     
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    androgyny isn't something that everyone can pull off. The main question is do you actually have a level of androgyny in your appearance? For example i am often told i am sort of androgynous looking by friends and have been confused for a girl on a number of occasions xD One of my lesbian friends actually thought i was a cute girl when she first saw me haha.

    If you are then you can play up your androgynous features. Things i do if i want to this are make-up and form fitting clothing. I also have long hair (think lesbians that look like justin bieber) and when i am being more androgynous i carry myself more femininely. I tend to do this more when i go to a gay club or something as i find it fun and generally i feel comfortable acting in that way but i will often times switch back to my masculine throughout the night as i feel comfortable doing so. I also style my hair, choose colors like pink and purple to wear, V-necks, form fitting cloths. Of course i apparently also have the benefit of having an androgynous voice xD

    I think of it as sort of dressing in clothes i could see an androgynous girl dress in. Just take what feminine and masculine things you like and roll them all together. But like i said being androgynous doesn't work for everyone, you have to find what parts of it fit best with you. Styles like the emo kid/scene kid looks take a page out of the androgyny book and so do metro styles. The real defining thing that separates those styles from actual androgyny in a person is wether the person themselves has a level of androgyny in their appearance.
     
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    Yeah, i could never pull it off full time. I'm too damn tall for it, no one would believe a 6'3" woman. And then imagine the heels.... !
     
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    well androgyny doesn't necessarily mean going to heels and looking like a girl. It is gender neutral so you can go both ways. It is very dependent on the person, different people have to do different things to achieve it if they can. A guy in a dress and heels could look just like a guy in a dress and heels or like an androgynous person in a dress and heels. Androgyny is much more in the actually physical appearance of a person than their clothing. Without a level of natural androgyny you will look like either a man or a woman.

    I'd seen drag queens in full drag look more like a man than i ever will and i've seen girls in mens cloths that still just look like girls. Yet you can put me in either and people will do a double take or more because they can't tell at least at first glance xD
     
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    haha, yeah i know, poor attempt at humour =P
     
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    I'll put up some regular pictures of me from my facebook. You might be able to tell me if I have any hope...
     
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    Okay. I have some semi-recent pictures in my album nao. Any input as to whether androgyny is viable???
     
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    you could dress in more gender neutral or metro clothing and look semi-andro but i don't know if you are necessarily androgynous in appearance.
     
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    I reckon you're way pretty.

    and you'd look great with short hair, jeans, a flannelette shirt and big nasty boots!
     
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    It's been FOREVER since my hair's been short! And, the director of the play I'm in has temporarily forbidden me to cut my hair.
     
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    i'm not allowed to cut mine either at the mo =(
     
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    So yeah. I'm really at a loss of what to do when it comes to my hair, my clothes and everything. If I had some outfit ideas I would at least have something to work off of...
     
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    you could try something small first... like a black leather jacket?
     
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    Already have one of those. Wear it every day. It's already broken in, so it's really soft.