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VinnySR97 · 6th Apr 2011, 08:30 PM

my home is renovated and everything is new i feel out of my comfort zone, anyone have any ideas of how i can back to my comfort zone?

I feel like im in a strange house

MusicIsLife · 6th Apr 2011, 08:47 PM

I feel like that is something that just takes a little time to get used to, imo not much you can do about it :/

Daryn · 6th Apr 2011, 08:48 PM

You could try setting up a small area like the way it was before. Sometimes a little familiarity helps a lot.

VinnySR97 · 6th Apr 2011, 08:52 PM

Thank you for the awsome reply but i cant set up the way it was, a wall is gone and i cant reset that

fragomatrick · 7th Apr 2011, 11:10 AM

Change is always good! Welcome it with open arms.....

TyRawr · 7th Apr 2011, 09:23 PM

Time perhaps?
Change is hard for most people. Im sure it will just take some getting used to.

Gumtree · 8th Apr 2011, 07:43 AM

Make a lot of mess!

Nothing permanent of course

It seems that when people are unsettled by change, it's because they have little control/power in the situation.

Don't resist change, but don't concede to it. Compromise.

Make a lot of mess, then clean it up.

It will help you realize that you have the power to make YOUR space feel/look/smell(don't leave the mess THAT long)/taste? however you want.

Don't hesitate!

VinnySR97 · 8th Apr 2011, 10:54 PM

thanks for the suggestions but i feel better about it now

6th Apr 2011, 08:30 PM	#1
VinnySR97 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family and a few friends Location: Massachusetts Posts: 74 Join Date: Mar 2011	I feel very uncomfortable. my home is renovated and everything is new i feel out of my comfort zone, anyone have any ideas of how i can back to my comfort zone? I feel like im in a strange house

6th Apr 2011, 08:47 PM	#2
MusicIsLife EC Addict Full Member Gender: Not even sure anymore. Something in between. Orientation: I like girls :) Out Status: Everyone on orientation 7 people on trans issue. Location: Montréal, QC Age: 23 Posts: 1,595 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. I feel like that is something that just takes a little time to get used to, imo not much you can do about it :/

6th Apr 2011, 08:48 PM	#3
Daryn ^_^ Full Member Gender: Girl. Orientation: Girls. Out Status: whoever asks Location: Why are there eggs scrambling in the street? Age: 18 Posts: 238 Join Date: Mar 2011	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. You could try setting up a small area like the way it was before. Sometimes a little familiarity helps a lot. __________________ "That's the trouble with loving a wild thing: You're always left watching the door."

6th Apr 2011, 08:52 PM	#4
VinnySR97 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family and a few friends Location: Massachusetts Posts: 74 Join Date: Mar 2011	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. Thank you for the awsome reply but i cant set up the way it was, a wall is gone and i cant reset that

7th Apr 2011, 11:10 AM	#5
fragomatrick Perpetually Bored! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 21 Posts: 732 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. Change is always good! Welcome it with open arms..... __________________ The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch Last edited by fragomatrick; 7th Apr 2011 at 11:14 AM..

7th Apr 2011, 09:23 PM	#6
TyRawr Now tell me how you really feel. :) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Fair Oaks CA Age: 18 Posts: 396 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. Time perhaps? Change is hard for most people. Im sure it will just take some getting used to. __________________ ~Tyler

8th Apr 2011, 07:43 AM	#7
Gumtree EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Sydney - Australia Posts: 944 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. Make a lot of mess! Nothing permanent of course It seems that when people are unsettled by change, it's because they have little control/power in the situation. Don't resist change, but don't concede to it. Compromise. Make a lot of mess, then clean it up. It will help you realize that you have the power to make YOUR space feel/look/smell(don't leave the mess THAT long)/taste? however you want. Don't hesitate! __________________ Life is like driving, go too fast and you will miss the scenery, then one day you won't know where you are or what you've missed.

8th Apr 2011, 10:54 PM	#8
VinnySR97 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Family and a few friends Location: Massachusetts Posts: 74 Join Date: Mar 2011	Re: I feel very uncomfortable. thanks for the suggestions but i feel better about it now

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