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25th Apr 2011, 06:44 AM
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| Banned  Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Kentucky Age: 17 Posts: 60 Join Date: Apr 2011 |  Issues T_T Something that appears to annoy me lately is that, no one took me seriously when I came out. Now, I understand that some people in my school, say they are bi; possibly just for guys attention. But i'm really serious about it. Coming out was one of the hardest things i've ever really done. And to think that after all this crap I went through to come out, people wont take it seriously... it just makes me think if it was worth it or not. Last edited by Izumi; 25th Apr 2011 at 06:50 AM.. |
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25th Apr 2011, 06:53 AM
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| Flying on broken wings Full Member   Gender: Ask again later? (physically female) Orientation: Panromantic Lesbian Out Status: Closet? What closet? Location: Palmerston North, New Zealand Age: 17 Posts: 1,487 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T That's exactly what just happened to me :/ I came out to someone and got a rather negative reaction saying "you aren't bi, you're just attention seeking" etc etc.. What she actually said I posted in the thread "what are you thinking".. I think tho the best thing to do is to be confident with who you are and just ignore all the people who try and bring you down because of your sexuality. Because in the end, they don't matter. Hope this helps..
__________________  "I wanna celebrate and live my life, saying heyyooo, I live the rainbow" ~[Fairybread] 3:23pm: I'm attracted to personalities, unless the personality comes with a penis  ~ |
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25th Apr 2011, 06:56 AM
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| Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Kentucky Age: 17 Posts: 60 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Yes it does. also, i HATE using bi for me... I want to make up a new word. lol the last paragrapgh in my blog entry explains me. lol check it out~ owo |
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25th Apr 2011, 07:26 AM
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| Flying on broken wings Full Member Gender: Ask again later? (physically female) Orientation: Panromantic Lesbian Out Status: Closet? What closet? Location: Palmerston North, New Zealand Age: 17 Posts: 1,487 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Lol I read that. You're the same age as me... And your sig... *their Sorry, it was annoying me...
__________________ "I wanna celebrate and live my life, saying heyyooo, I live the rainbow" ~[Fairybread] 3:23pm: I'm attracted to personalities, unless the personality comes with a penis ~ |
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25th Apr 2011, 09:37 AM
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| Filip's sidekick EC Advisor  Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,401 Join Date: Feb 2009 | Re: Issues T_T Hi Izumy, I am really sorry people don't seem to take you seriously when you come out to them as bisexual. I think you're dealing with two issues here. The first one is that, unfortunatly, many people have misconceptions about bisexuality. Some pretend it doesn't exists, some pretends bisexuals are just greedy people, other are going to tell you you're too young to know... and I'm sure there are other stupid things that are said. The second thing is that you're 16 and still in high school, wich means that unfortunatly, you're dealing with the "high school stuff" (boys and girls more worried about the way they look and their popularity than about getting good grades). I think that the best option (as frustrating as it is) is just to ignore the stupid comments made by stupid people. You know who you are, you come out to them, that is your business. They believe you or not, that is their business. You don't owe them anything. If they choose not to believe you, then they don't, but guess who will look stupid once you'll get a girlfriend  And don't worry, high school doesn't last forever (fortunatly !!!) Take care, Cécile
__________________ "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a means." Immanuel Kant |
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25th Apr 2011, 02:28 PM
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| Well Known Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A large group of friends Location: Massachusetts Age: 18 Posts: 150 Join Date: Feb 2011 | Re: Issues T_T I don't understand why people don't take others seriously about stuff like this, guys love bi girls, straight girls are bitchy about it, but what happens when a guy comes out. the girl loves it and the guys are bitchy about it.
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25th Apr 2011, 04:54 PM
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| Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Kentucky Age: 17 Posts: 60 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Quote:
I keep reminding myself to change it... but i'm too lazy. >_> *ignores sig* | |
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25th Apr 2011, 05:02 PM
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| Flying on broken wings Full Member Gender: Ask again later? (physically female) Orientation: Panromantic Lesbian Out Status: Closet? What closet? Location: Palmerston North, New Zealand Age: 17 Posts: 1,487 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Quote:
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25th Apr 2011, 05:04 PM
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| Banned Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Kentucky Age: 17 Posts: 60 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Quote:
I have some too. :O | |||
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25th Apr 2011, 05:07 PM
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| Flying on broken wings Full Member Gender: Ask again later? (physically female) Orientation: Panromantic Lesbian Out Status: Closet? What closet? Location: Palmerston North, New Zealand Age: 17 Posts: 1,487 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Re: Issues T_T Quote:
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