*~Strong Feelings 4 A Str8 Guy*~

Um, that's like saying how does a straight girl get a gay guy to be a heterosexual and I'm pretty sure that's kinda unfair to the gay guy...but hey, if you wanna try, that's up to you

 

Uhmm yeah, that's also like trying to lick your elbow. You can't just 'turn' someone like that! It sounds like you have a straight person's mentality lol jk

 

Yes - if you're sure he's straight...well, I'd suggest you have no more likelihood of "changing" his orientation that a gay person does of becoming straight.

Also bear in mind that if he is straight...unwanted advances from a person of the same sex could lead to all sorts of unpleasant drama...so I'd just try to enjoy his friendship.

 

I totally agree with TriBi. That is a good way to get lose the friendship.

 

I can't tell you strongly enough how much I think that is a bad idea...basically, the way im getting this, is that you would rather kiss him once and possibly ruin your friendship forever than keep him as a friend

Seriously, admire him from afar, but don't ruin what you have, or at least that's what I think

 

Yeah man, I've got the same problem right now. I really like a straight guy. It's a sad reality, but we just have to deal with it and move on.

 

Just because you really like some guy (person) doesn't mean you can have them or make them like you. That is up to them and I hate to say the truth but if he is straight then I wouldn't risk it.

 

All that would do is make the whole situation worse for you.

Consider the embarrassment when he tells all his mates at school or wherever about what you tried to do to him.

 

Why do u want to turn him bi?

 

Lol.
Unless you are firm ( no pun intended ), then you wont be "turning him" bisexual.
A guy has to wonder what it would be like to even try anything with another guy.
Unless he is going through that bi-courious phase I suggest you back away.
If you think he might be in that phase, dont try to seduce him.
Talk to him about it.
Let him know its okay.

 

Do not do any physical contact liek kissing or touching private parts. That makes him feel more disgusting bout gay and thinsk you are a slut

Make sure he dosent hate you or anything, if you are his favorite boy then it'll be easier to get close

Hmm, hmmm, you could try
(Hard way)
1: A bi movie, not gay movie strongly not recommended
2: Make him drunk( dang, that is too bad and ugly) but dont do nothing crazy just make him drunk and test him by doing little things(but that's still unfair)
3: (If you stay over)next mornng ask bout last night or hwo he feels and stuffs

(Easy way)
1: Wait when he is alone, make a conversation
2: Twist teh conversation around to gay topic and talk bout it
3: Do not do physical contacts if he dosnet show any signs in interested, if he dose, dont do crazy things, just go along with the talk, sit closer, eyes to eyes(if he asks why, just smile or say soemthing you want, lol)
4: Um, oh yeah, then go with the flow

Of course my recipes may not workign but you're the oen who handles this

Do Not do crazy things or he'll kick your butt

Some straight guys do want to experienece, but teh thing is to find out who

Remember that sometimes, you can not turn a straight person to bi/gay in one night, it takes time

One of another thing is love, if 2 guys being close together for an amount of time, teh guys may create a bond call sexual intention. And liek in Brokeback Mountain, love solves all

But it's not fair to change someone's orientation by forcing, if you could do it in a lovely comfy way, that is better

 

Weird....

 

I actually can lick my elbow. :lol:

 

Are you certain that he's straight, or are you not sure?

Re what SpikySpice said, please do not actually try to do that. I too have a severe crush on a straight guy, but I would never try hitting on him. You could try doing some of the suggestions in the "Easy Way," as I don't see a ton of harm in that. I do have some issues with a few of the other things said, though.

First off, I am a strong believer in, once someone's sexuality is set, there is no way to change it (at least with guys). Ok, at your age, I can see guys being willing to experiment a little bit. Also, many people may not have discovered their sexuality yet, or may be hiding it. But if you and he both genuinely know he's straight, than I don't believe there's any way to change that. If you were to honestly start hitting on him, that could get him really uncomfortable. I know I absolutely hate it when I think girls are hitting on me.

Re getting him (or anyone) drunk, while that may get someone to have sex with you, that certainly will not change their sexual orientation.

Be careful what lessons you try to take from movies. Yes, in Brokeback Mountain, you did have two straight guys that made out together. But, consider their situation. They were in the middle of the mountains, with pretty much no other human contact. Like any straight guys, they had sexual urges, but unlike most straight guys, they had nowhere to focus their attentions towards besides each other. So, if you can get him to live up in the mountains with you for a couple months, without any other human contact, you might be able to get him to have some feelings towards you. But, take him out of the mountains, where he's around other people, both male and female, and you'll find that he's still straight. He might have some feelings towards you, but he certainly wouldn't for any other guys.

So xzacbearloverx, I know I haven't really answered your question. That's mainly because I don't believe there's any real way to do it. If you're lucky, he may not have figured out what he is, yet. Or, he might be hiding it. But, if he is in fact straight, then there is nothing you can do, and you really should try to move on (or at least realize that he won't ever have those kinds of feelings towards you).

SpikySpice, no offense, I just had a few issues with your post that I felt compelled to address.

 

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haha I did see you stick your tongue out real long in your vid:roflmao:

 

Viagra and Sleeping Pills...

 

Damnit! Lol now that's one good party trick you've got there!
But it ruined the effect of my analogy :tears:
Oh well I think he gets the point from what everyone else has said anyway

It concerns me that you're giving advice to someone based on what a movie 'taught' you.