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being bitter... :O I joined the club

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Izumi, Apr 25, 2011.

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  1. Izumi

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    Normally, I'm not one too complain about being single.
    But lately it's kinda affecting my mood and such, since girls from here are... meh.
    Even if they are ( by some lucky chance) bi, or lesbian. They end up not liking me because I'm not "butch". >n>
    I do, do long distance. Though, again. It hasn't turned out so well lately. : /

    What is a girl too do? :eusa_doh:
     
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    Try posting in the support thingy :slight_smile: But otherwise, Idk sorry.
     
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    support? ;n;
     
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    Yea :slight_smile:
     
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    Support forum, meaning.

    In any case, dunno. I'm occasionally singing the singles blues, so to speak, though it's not that I can't find people who seem interested and who I see potential interest in myself, it's just that it's always on campus and at school and I feel totally lost when it comes to approaching girls in that setting. It's sad. I mean, there's one girl who sometimes practically follows me after class but she never engages me in convo and I feel I have nothing to say to her...And other things. But I am completely worthless when it comes to making conversation, conversing back, and getting anything going regardless how many girls are thrown my way (and this semester and last semester, it's been a lot. D:
     
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    Looks like i'm not the only one with this problem.
    I'm the same way with conversation, I just have no idea what to say or do when it comes to all that junk...
    they should make classes for this. @_@
     
    #6 Izumi, Apr 26, 2011
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    they probably do somewhere


    I'm finding it tough lately to find the energy or will power to talk to people I might be interested, let alone keeping up conversation with them. I need to figure out why and fix that.
     
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    Maybe you should just start with a topic thats kinda mello and non-chalant.
    That usually works for me; at least its better than standing there awkwardly. ( even though i do that most of the time.)

    I'm kinda scared about GSA next year;
    Standing in front of a crowd and talking. o.e
    I think I might faint...
     
    #8 Izumi, Apr 26, 2011
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