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Old 25th Apr 2011, 06:26 PM   #1
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Normally, I'm not one too complain about being single.
But lately it's kinda affecting my mood and such, since girls from here are... meh.
Even if they are ( by some lucky chance) bi, or lesbian. They end up not liking me because I'm not "butch". >n>
I do, do long distance. Though, again. It hasn't turned out so well lately. : /

What is a girl too do?
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Old 25th Apr 2011, 06:31 PM   #2
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Try posting in the support thingy But otherwise, Idk sorry.
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Old 25th Apr 2011, 06:35 PM   #3
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support? ;n;
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Old 25th Apr 2011, 07:34 PM   #5
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Support forum, meaning.

In any case, dunno. I'm occasionally singing the singles blues, so to speak, though it's not that I can't find people who seem interested and who I see potential interest in myself, it's just that it's always on campus and at school and I feel totally lost when it comes to approaching girls in that setting. It's sad. I mean, there's one girl who sometimes practically follows me after class but she never engages me in convo and I feel I have nothing to say to her...And other things. But I am completely worthless when it comes to making conversation, conversing back, and getting anything going regardless how many girls are thrown my way (and this semester and last semester, it's been a lot. D:
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 07:58 AM   #6
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Support forum, meaning.

In any case, dunno. I'm occasionally singing the singles blues, so to speak, though it's not that I can't find people who seem interested and who I see potential interest in myself, it's just that it's always on campus and at school and I feel totally lost when it comes to approaching girls in that setting. It's sad. I mean, there's one girl who sometimes practically follows me after class but she never engages me in convo and I feel I have nothing to say to her...And other things. But I am completely worthless when it comes to making conversation, conversing back, and getting anything going regardless how many girls are thrown my way (and this semester and last semester, it's been a lot. D:
Looks like i'm not the only one with this problem.
I'm the same way with conversation, I just have no idea what to say or do when it comes to all that junk...
they should make classes for this. @_@
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 08:13 AM   #7
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they should make classes for this. @_@

they probably do somewhere


I'm finding it tough lately to find the energy or will power to talk to people I might be interested, let alone keeping up conversation with them. I need to figure out why and fix that.
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Old 26th Apr 2011, 08:17 AM   #8
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they should make classes for this. @_@

they probably do somewhere


I'm finding it tough lately to find the energy or will power to talk to people I might be interested, let alone keeping up conversation with them. I need to figure out why and fix that.
Maybe you should just start with a topic thats kinda mello and non-chalant.
That usually works for me; at least its better than standing there awkwardly. ( even though i do that most of the time.)

I'm kinda scared about GSA next year;
Standing in front of a crowd and talking. o.e
I think I might faint...
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