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Makaio1 · 27th May 2011, 05:34 AM

I've just been thinking about this...

Where would you go for your perfect date?

Who would be your perfect date?

Give us details!

For me? It would be sitting on a car hood and watching the sunset/gazing at the stars without a care in the world. The sound of crickets in the background and a gentle warm breeze. <3

Dream Date? Shannon Kook-Chun

RedKnight · 27th May 2011, 07:09 AM

A night time gondola ride down the canals of Venice with my dream man that is yet to appear in my life

Tristar · 27th May 2011, 07:23 AM

Resting on a beach on a warm summer night with the moon peeking out from behind a barely-clouded sky, a slight breeze faintly carrying the sounds of Billie Holiday from across the lake, I can envision myself entwined with a kind, gentle soul.

Now to find him....

Z3ni · 27th May 2011, 08:13 AM

Sitting on top of a cliff at night, looking down into city nightlife and night sky, like this :

I just hope we don't get pushed down..

27th May 2011, 08:36 AM

That's easy! Somewhere out in nature. We'd both be on the beach or in the woods like the poconos or some other very secluded area cuddling under a blanket late at night under a full moon, falling asleep around a fireplace. ^^ I'm a hopeless romantic.

---------- Post added 27th May 2011 at 11:41 AM ----------

I forgot my dream guy. He would be my crush of two years! He wears a doggie chain necklace, spikey hair, clean shaven, toned but not crazy muscular over 6'. He looks kind of like Pierre from Simple Plan but hotter!

Kelseygoesrawrr · 27th May 2011, 09:10 AM

I would spend a good amount of the day with her at the dunes or the beach, then it would (hopefully) start raining so I can take her to the movies, and then to her favourite place to eat. Anywhere she wants.(: We'd end it off by going home to snuggle on the couch under a blankie. Maybe I could sing to her...<3 Oh, and dream date? Demi Lovato.(:

lemoncookies · 27th May 2011, 09:13 AM

Coffee. I would love to go out and drink coffee with him. I love coffee. The darkness, the bitterness, the hotness. It is like...drinking truth. Then we will go up on a sky scraper and view the city under moonlight. Then I move closer to them...then...

No, I am not Godot.

Also, I know who I would go out with. They are my beau. <3

Steve712 · 27th May 2011, 09:13 AM

I wouldn't want anything fancy. Inexpensive, romantic surprises make the best date ideas, because there's beauty in simplicity and it shows that they don't focus too much on money as an end.

Tomorrow night I have something planned for my boyfriend. We're going to make pizza from scratch together, then we'll take a candlelight bubble bath and then we're going to watch a movie (10 Things I Hate about You). That's all you need to know.

He has no idea what's going to happen, other than that some sort of surprise is in store for him. Those are the perfect dates for me: personal, quiet, romantic and simple.

Of course, I still like dinner dates, going to the movies and seeing shows, but they're slightly lower in ranking to me.

BloodyRose3000 · 27th May 2011, 10:16 AM

I have 2. For the expensive one

First, we'd go to the Metropolitan Museum of Art for a short time

Then we'd go for a romantic stroll and hang out in Central Park

Followed by dinner at Tavern On The Green (assuming it didn't close about a year ago)

Then we'd go home

For the cheap one:

I'd meet the person at their house and we'd hang out there for a bit.

Then we'll go out to Battery park and just hang around

Or maybe Coney Island

Then go for a hot dog

Or pizza

Then we'd go home

manpants · 27th May 2011, 11:26 AM

obviously ill ask her to go get ice cream with me at the store, and then well sit somewhere on corner of some street and then ill get her to go to the trainstation and well get on ant train that cakes our fancy and spend the night trying to find our way back- or a little inn to sleep in for the night

also im def taking my crush of a year

higby442 · 27th May 2011, 12:49 PM

Here's my ideal date:

A nice romantic dinner-not fancy, but not a dive-one of those nice quiet small places off the beaten path, where the food is great and you can bring your own bottle of wine. Then go window shopping and see some sights. Follow up with a cup of good coffee and a walk hand in hand either in a cool part of the city, a nice beach, or something like that watching the sun set. Just being together but in a series of great environments and sharing that with eachother would be awesome. Oh, and some laughs mixed in with some mellow conversations as well.

I'm pretty boring eh? What can I say...that's what I dream of.

Just wish I could find someone to share that with.

27th May 2011, 01:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by higby442

Here's my ideal date:

A nice romantic dinner-not fancy, but not a dive-one of those nice quiet small places off the beaten path, where the food is great and you can bring your own bottle of wine. Then go window shopping and see some sights. Follow up with a cup of good coffee and a walk hand in hand either in a cool part of the city, a nice beach, or something like that watching the sun set. Just being together but in a series of great environments and sharing that with eachother would be awesome. Oh, and some laughs mixed in with some mellow conversations as well.

I'm pretty boring eh? What can I say...that's what I dream of.

Just wish I could find someone to share that with.

Usually boring just means being romantic lol so it's a good thing

higby442 · 27th May 2011, 01:37 PM

Usually boring just means being romantic lol so it's a good thing

[/QUOTE]

Right on!

Jaason · 27th May 2011, 06:17 PM

I would like a whole day out with the perfect guy, a friend of mine whose orientation I have no idea of but on whom I have an immense crush.

But the details...I would agree completely with the above posts, haha

We'd meet up somewhere, head together to the beach, enjoy the sunshine/sea/sand, and have a nice coffee somewhere. Then, we could walk on the streets/sidewalk and window-shop/pretend we're tourists and look at the city from an entirely new light, and generally have fun by sharing good times with one another, talking and laughing. Simple things in life are often the best, I think. Of course, there could then be a delicious lunch/romantic dinner.. so just a pleasant, relaxing day out.

nathan123 · 27th May 2011, 07:01 PM

id have tosay that my dream date would have to be me and my bf sitting on the beach watching the the sunset and then maybe just talk so original i know ha ha ...i ned a boyfirend first lol...im singal ha ha..xoxo message me if you want to talk

Emberstone · 27th May 2011, 09:19 PM

neil patrick harris playing doctor with me in my bedroom.

Kidd · 27th May 2011, 11:29 PM

For me a perfect date would have to be a total surprise, nothing planned. Just simple things...going for a walk to the beach or in a park, eating at my favorite restaurant, just laying in the grass somewhere and listening to music--peaceful, and beautiful. I would love to slow dance under the stars.

I'm a total sap. >.>

Revan · 28th May 2011, 12:25 AM

My ideal date? This

+ YouTube Video

kettlkorn · 28th May 2011, 12:46 AM

Eating at Arrivederci then going back to his place to play dead space.

Raeil · 28th May 2011, 12:59 AM

I had some ideas, but Revan brought up the Whole New World video.

At this point, I'd say a perfect date would be a wonderful dinner followed by a mix of Disney and Pixar films. We'd both have to be singing along, of course!

The person? Eh, I don't really know. There is this one guy, who I had pretty much given up on, but I found out he's actually very likely to be gay due to a conversation I had with a mutual friend earlier. So, him! If not him, then I don't know, honestly.

27th May 2011, 05:34 AM	#1
Makaio1 Now officially OUT OF THE CLOSET! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 Out Status: Out to the people important in my life. Location: USofA Age: 21 Posts: 132 Join Date: Jan 2011	Your Dream Date? I've just been thinking about this... Where would you go for your perfect date? Who would be your perfect date? Give us details! For me? It would be sitting on a car hood and watching the sunset/gazing at the stars without a care in the world. The sound of crickets in the background and a gentle warm breeze. <3 Dream Date? Shannon Kook-Chun __________________ -Makaio1

27th May 2011, 07:09 AM	#2
RedKnight Random Guy #9 Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I Know I Like Guys Out Status: Mum and some friends Location: Lower Hutt, New Zealand Age: 20 Posts: 850 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: Your Dream Date? A night time gondola ride down the canals of Venice with my dream man that is yet to appear in my life __________________ ________\o/______/l__________ Shark Attack!

27th May 2011, 07:23 AM	#3
Tristar Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to family and many friends Location: Indiana Age: 46 Posts: 69 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? Resting on a beach on a warm summer night with the moon peeking out from behind a barely-clouded sky, a slight breeze faintly carrying the sounds of Billie Holiday from across the lake, I can envision myself entwined with a kind, gentle soul. Now to find him....

27th May 2011, 08:13 AM	#4
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Your Dream Date? Sitting on top of a cliff at night, looking down into city nightlife and night sky, like this : I just hope we don't get pushed down.. __________________ Through pain, lies success.

27th May 2011, 08:36 AM	#5
Skiel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Your Dream Date? That's easy! Somewhere out in nature. We'd both be on the beach or in the woods like the poconos or some other very secluded area cuddling under a blanket late at night under a full moon, falling asleep around a fireplace. ^^ I'm a hopeless romantic. ---------- Post added 27th May 2011 at 11:41 AM ---------- I forgot my dream guy. He would be my crush of two years! He wears a doggie chain necklace, spikey hair, clean shaven, toned but not crazy muscular over 6'. He looks kind of like Pierre from Simple Plan but hotter!

27th May 2011, 09:10 AM	#6
Kelseygoesrawrr Newbie Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: People still think I'm bisexual. Posts: 6 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? I would spend a good amount of the day with her at the dunes or the beach, then it would (hopefully) start raining so I can take her to the movies, and then to her favourite place to eat. Anywhere she wants.(: We'd end it off by going home to snuggle on the couch under a blankie. Maybe I could sing to her...<3 Oh, and dream date? Demi Lovato.(:

27th May 2011, 09:13 AM	#7
lemoncookies ♡(´∀｀)人(´∀｀)♡ Regular Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: 両性愛 ♪ Out Status: A few people Age: 22 Posts: 13 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? Coffee. I would love to go out and drink coffee with him. I love coffee. The darkness, the bitterness, the hotness. It is like...drinking truth. Then we will go up on a sky scraper and view the city under moonlight. Then I move closer to them...then... No, I am not Godot. Also, I know who I would go out with. They are my beau. <3

27th May 2011, 09:13 AM	#8
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,292 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: Your Dream Date? I wouldn't want anything fancy. Inexpensive, romantic surprises make the best date ideas, because there's beauty in simplicity and it shows that they don't focus too much on money as an end. Tomorrow night I have something planned for my boyfriend. We're going to make pizza from scratch together, then we'll take a candlelight bubble bath and then we're going to watch a movie (10 Things I Hate about You). That's all you need to know. He has no idea what's going to happen, other than that some sort of surprise is in store for him. Those are the perfect dates for me: personal, quiet, romantic and simple. Of course, I still like dinner dates, going to the movies and seeing shows, but they're slightly lower in ranking to me. __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

27th May 2011, 10:16 AM	#9
BloodyRose3000 The Ethers Tragic Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to 1 friend Location: NYC Age: 23 Posts: 185 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Your Dream Date? I have 2. For the expensive one First, we'd go to the Metropolitan Museum of Art for a short time Then we'd go for a romantic stroll and hang out in Central Park Followed by dinner at Tavern On The Green (assuming it didn't close about a year ago) Then we'd go home For the cheap one: I'd meet the person at their house and we'd hang out there for a bit. Then we'll go out to Battery park and just hang around Or maybe Coney Island Then go for a hot dog Or pizza Then we'd go home __________________ Future youth I never may touch any more Hark these Sapphics lipped by my hollow spirit everlasting tenderness breathed in these vowels sighing for love still -Allen Ginsberg

27th May 2011, 11:26 AM	#10
manpants OVERTHINKER Regular Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: lesbian sometimes. i kind of prefer gay- Out Status: all my friends, and immediate family Location: Cape Town Age: 21 Posts: 5 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? obviously ill ask her to go get ice cream with me at the store, and then well sit somewhere on corner of some street and then ill get her to go to the trainstation and well get on ant train that cakes our fancy and spend the night trying to find our way back- or a little inn to sleep in for the night also im def taking my crush of a year

27th May 2011, 12:49 PM	#11
higby442 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 29 Posts: 41 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Your Dream Date? Here's my ideal date: A nice romantic dinner-not fancy, but not a dive-one of those nice quiet small places off the beaten path, where the food is great and you can bring your own bottle of wine. Then go window shopping and see some sights. Follow up with a cup of good coffee and a walk hand in hand either in a cool part of the city, a nice beach, or something like that watching the sun set. Just being together but in a series of great environments and sharing that with eachother would be awesome. Oh, and some laughs mixed in with some mellow conversations as well. I'm pretty boring eh? What can I say...that's what I dream of. Just wish I could find someone to share that with.

27th May 2011, 01:37 PM	#13
higby442 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 29 Posts: 41 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Your Dream Date? Usually boring just means being romantic lol so it's a good thing [/QUOTE] Right on!

27th May 2011, 06:17 PM	#14
Jaason The Day-Dreaming Procrastinator Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost Everyone Location: Berkeley, California Age: 17 Posts: 80 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? I would like a whole day out with the perfect guy, a friend of mine whose orientation I have no idea of but on whom I have an immense crush. But the details...I would agree completely with the above posts, haha We'd meet up somewhere, head together to the beach, enjoy the sunshine/sea/sand, and have a nice coffee somewhere. Then, we could walk on the streets/sidewalk and window-shop/pretend we're tourists and look at the city from an entirely new light, and generally have fun by sharing good times with one another, talking and laughing. Simple things in life are often the best, I think. Of course, there could then be a delicious lunch/romantic dinner.. so just a pleasant, relaxing day out. __________________ "The aim of life is self-development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for." - Oscar Wilde

27th May 2011, 07:01 PM	#15
nathan123 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: seattel Age: 16 Posts: 1 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Your Dream Date? id have tosay that my dream date would have to be me and my bf sitting on the beach watching the the sunset and then maybe just talk so original i know ha ha ...i ned a boyfirend first lol...im singal ha ha..xoxo message me if you want to talk

27th May 2011, 09:19 PM	#16
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,593 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Your Dream Date? neil patrick harris playing doctor with me in my bedroom. __________________ TYPE YOUR NAME: Cory. TYPE YOUR NAME WITH YOUR ELBOW: vcoiptryu SLAM YOUR FACE ON THE KEYBOARD: About three things I was absolutely positive. First, Edward was a vampire. Second, there was a part of him - and I didn't know how potent that part might be - that thirsted for my blood. And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him.

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